I Cheated On My Girlfriend: Now She Doesn't Respect Me

I Think I Messed Up! Need Advice!

Well, I am 25 years old and have been with my current girlfriend for over 14 months now, but to be honest with you Nairaland users out of the 14 months i have been giving her a hard time for 10 months. She stood by me when i was broke. I never ever bought her things or had the opportunity to take her out and she was very understanding. But I was and idiot and cheated on her, hardly kept appointments, left her at home till about 3 am (after telling her that i will be back shortly) and so on,

She found out about my affair and i obviously denied it, but she knew better. After pleading, begging and crying, she was willing to give me a second chance. she told me to cut the girl off immediately but as stupid as i was, i still chatted with her online once in a while. My girlfriend found out again and she went furious. She said she hast lost a huge amount of trust in me and that her love for me is dying. This was a wake up call and ever since then i deleted every flings number on my phone and my email and i have really been faithful ever since. However, i still have the feeling it is too late. She changed. . . . she disrespects me by calling me names whenever we have heated arguments, she does not do the things she used to do, she loses her temper easily and i think its all due to the fact that her love for me is dying. Now that she is slowly "fading away" i am really getting scared. My girlfriend hasnt cheated on me until this date cause when i asked her she said that she wished she could cheat but it wouldnt make things better for her. Another statement she makes is that she is very happy she never lost her virginity to me (she is still a virgin).  She is very pretty, very independent, hardworking and basically everything a man could ever wish for. I really love and appreciate her NOW and feel ashamed aobut the way i treated her, but i think it is too late.

what do u think?

@Bigdee
I think your girl is a mumu. She should have dropped your no-good, Lieing, cheating @$$ long time ago. Once a cheater, always a cheater !!

Tell her its such a shame she started behaving in such manners at a time you've finally given her your all! Be attentive & conclude on what she says! _{Mind you she might have decided to go but she's just holding on till she gains the strength to leave n never look back!}

@topic
beg beg beg beg till you can't beg no more and even then  _{i hope she kicks your th rifling ass to the kerb , ghetto style}

@Omo-Eko
Harsh? That boy needs to be slapped ! Harsh is cheating on the one who care so much about you, harsh is lieing to the one that loves you, Harsh is constantly playing games on your loved ones !

@haywhy

u might be right about that and thats what scares me the most.

@all

i really understand your viewpoints, and i know i messed up BIG TIME. but i have really changed and regret everything. After the second incident (chatting with my fling), is when she really didnt give a F**** anymore and that was even before i started to change for better

@Omo-Eko
Who is in Ondo state??

Nobody oh  ignore debo

The last time i checked it was the African Men that cheat the most on their wives , and moreover what made you think that

sweet T:
I 4 an I.
Revenge is a payback, & payback's a b!tch


Bigdee, listen to thief man, you phucked up big time. what sux 4 you is that you got caught.

u cheated and she doesnt respect u ,  thats good she shouldnt even be with u anymore
respect ko, love ni
seems to me like your an asshole and your girl is a dumbass for stickin with u
afterall your her boyfriend not husband

I don't bribe people especially when I know am innocent, and it's against the law according to United State regulation.

@sweet t
Cheating has nothing to do with gender

lol ehnnnnnn! ayangbaaaaa, carry go!

_{how u dey}

Don't mind this men jare, like they always say "It's a Men's World"

omo eko, se na lie?
omogenaija, i wouldn't dare tell you what that means, else you'd tell me to get on my knees, raise up my hands, and close my eyes.

Yes it's a big fat lie there is nothing called "the Men’s World" without women men are nothing in this world, your Men are ineffective with us women, and we made your complete.