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Akinagirl (f)
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why should she respect you??? you didnt respect her when you cheated on her, infact, she should leave yo a$$
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BlkDiamond (f)
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HEY DUDE U mess'D UP BIG TIME, I THINK S HE NEED TO DUMP UR DUMB ASS AND MOVE ON, U 'IZ' A CHEATER AND CAN NEVER CHANGE, don't BLAME HER FOR BEING RUDE TO U, YO THRIFLING SELF CAUSED IT, MOVE ON N LET HER MOVE ON TOO CUS IT'LL NEVER BE THE SAME.PIECE OF MY CUP CAKE.PEACE
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ifababa (m)
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My guy, what did you expect? Match my words, she's going to dump your cheating butt in the very near future
I think the females on this thread are not been realistic as i havent read any of them said such as happened to them before , I also think females they are prone to cheating than guys, So don't talk as if you are most righteous ,think about when you cheated on your guy too and don't be destructively judgemental about this, All we need is an advice to how we can get this relationship back, I believe everybody has made a mistake or the other in their relationship, As for me, i am really a changed guy now and i want my Girl back,
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ayefele200 (m)
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why should she respect you??? you didnt respect her when you cheated on her, infact, she should leave yo a$$
be more construtive and more creative thanks |
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darleen (f)
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For most of us we get to learn the hard way. I hope u wont be "no-good for a second time,now if u really want her,its time for you be patient at all cost.You are now at the receiving end.You need to gain her trust back and that means u need to make her see that you have change.Also she is human,alot things might be going through that mind of hers,she does want to be "beaten" twice.your patience now is all that matter
Incase of next time remember,what goes round comes around comes around.
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Kpop-Ham (m)
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Aboki, walllahi tallahi you pucked up big time, teeheehee. "Ahem" and I clear my throat; okay, I had to really laugh at you for that one. Aboki, just like an earlier post I read that said to beg and beg and . . . ? Yes, more begging! Okay? For now . . (and I'm still laughing my nyash out) beg is all you can do, buy padlock and put for your blockos and find a dog house and sit in it where she can see you, (teeheehee, and I am still laughing) - where she can see your cheating behind all freaking day! And this goes to my other abokis; menfolk young and old. I must add that this is a classic blunder. Okay, let's analyze this, you (had/have), (teeheehee, and I am laughing again at your unknown status) a good girl, a princess, a virgin at that - saving herself for you. But nooooo, you had to go out, and who knows - probably after a hood rat instead of plucking that tenderoni you have/had at home. brother, Pray!  |
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oluite (f)
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I can't understand why guys don't appreciate good women when they av them?when they gone or ready to go regrets sets in.I av seen Cases lik this over and over again.frankly this girl has been very tolerating!
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wales7479 (m)
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Huh huh!!! Let me tell you my story. My girlfriend did same hing to me. I had always suspected her having this affair with her Ex and lying to me that its just normal to keep the friendship. I travelled to UK sometimes in April on a training trip for 2wks and on coming back I saw my girlfriend the night I came back and she was so happy and after all that she confessed to me that she slept with her Ex about a week ago and begged cried for forgiveness and that she won't do such a thing. I asked her how long has she been sleeping with him and she said about 4times in January and this last time. I was furious and very unhappy. I know that it will be very difficult to trust her and I make it known to her that I don't trust her and now I don't care if she's doing stuffs like that again. Although I really love and would want to be with her forever but its kind of difficult after all that happened. I later decided to give her a chance as I know that we are human and tend to make mistakes and I felt its better to forgive and see how it turns out to be. Nairalanders, I feel good telling you my mind and my story. What are the lessons to be learnt and advises from my story???    |
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fekuti
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create a new thread and share it bobo wale.
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Imani (f)
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Huh huh!!! Let me tell you my story. My girlfriend did same hing to me. I had always suspected her having this affair with her Ex and lying to me that its just normal to keep the friendship. I travelled to UK sometimes in April on a training trip for 2wks and on coming back I saw my girlfriend the night I came back and she was so happy and after all that she confessed to me that she slept with her Ex about a week ago and begged cried for forgiveness and that she won't do such a thing. I asked her how long has she been sleeping with him and she said about 4times in January and this last time. I was furious and very unhappy. I know that it will be very difficult to trust her and I make it known to her that I don't trust her and now I don't care if she's doing stuffs like that again. Although I really love and would want to be with her forever but its kind of difficult after all that happened. I later decided to give her a chance as I know that we are human and tend to make mistakes and I felt its better to forgive and see how it turns out to be. Nairalanders, I feel good telling you my mind and my story. What are the lessons to be learnt and advises from my story??? Are you sure you were also completely faithful to your girlfriend all through this time? even during your trips abroad? |
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Imani (f)
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imani the image in your profile will be you & i in a few years.  .  Are you not 12 ? Please i am NOT a peadophile o. |
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BlkDiamond (f)
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ahahahahha yalls funny awon cheaters tufiakwa.
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Kpop-Ham (m)
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First of all, like a previous post hinted; start a new thread. Second of all; listen to yourself - you travelled to UK, no be so? Ma guy, training, leisure whatever took you there has probably and possibly enhanced your total outlook. And baby girl just can't see herself losing out on that, trust me when I say females are the best strategists, no wonder they make some of the best domestic & corporate VPs, managers etc. Lessons to be learnt: ILMAO - teeheehee, don't be foolish!  |
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pierremarc (m)
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 Bigdee u ain't in the game at all!!!!!! u ain't a playa at all. let me tell u something u might not know, WHEN A GOOD girl'S GONE, SHE'S GONE FOREVER!!!!!
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pterygott (f)
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@ topic
if she forgives u, u will definitely do it again .so , no need
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wales7479 (m)
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Imani, I am very faithful to her during my trip and she would even vouch for that. |
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Imani (f)
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Imani, I am very faithful to her during my trip and she would even vouch for that. Well, then you deserve better. But since you found it in your heart to forgive, then more grace to you. |
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Akinagirl (f)
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@ayefele200 And so alot of people said the same thing, as in I'm agreeing so why you pickin on my post??? LOOSER and it is what it is, she should leave, he ddint cheat once, but twice, so hush  |
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MP007 (m)
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sorry , but who is the dumb asx that posted this sh^T ? u chated for Gos sake and u looking for respect ? what a bastard!!
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shantell (f)
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serves u right!
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shantell (f)
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nah not u i meant d guy that posted d topic
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@desodgi (m)
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good,would av slapped you nau nau,
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2faces (m)
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What were u expecting? Her full respect right. Mate u bettter think again, she might forgive u but things will never be the way they are, that includes respect. As yourself if u were in Her shoes what will u do, don't lie to yourself.
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sillyboy (m)
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@ poster.
My guy, you can still put things back the way they should be. You'll only have to follow the theory of "iron sharpenth iron". This is what you do. Start to cheat her all over again, my guess is that, when she realises you are cheating her again, she'll be knocked off. She'll feel hurt and not justified like she's feeling right now. When you are sure she's now hurt again, you now try as much as possible to be caring.
WARNING. In as much as this could work, it could destroy whatever little thing she must feel for you right now. So you must be ready to take the worst. If you ask,I think you should try, afterall you are already loosing her.
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hazzel (f)
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lol sillyboy. ur name fits u  |
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ifababa (m)
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sorry , but who is the dumb asx that posted this sh^T ? u chated for Gos sake and u looking for respect ? what a bastard!!
@MP007 Maybe you should check out the meaning of the word "BASTARD' next time you want to use it, This guy needs an advice for God's sake, Also think we need to start an IQ measure which will qualify people to became a member of the forum, Supposed to be for matured minds that can think before writting, Thanks |
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Godsgirl (f)
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I have a different view. The fact is that you were neither engaged or married to her clears you of any guilt regarding this situation. There is no such thing as "boyfriend" or "girlfriend". Here in the States, a judge will laugh in your face if you tried to bring up a serious case involving such relationships. Why? Because as some say "soldier come, soldier go." What most communities and laws recognize is marriage and just maybe an engagement. Thank God she is still a virgin. She is a smart girl. My concern is for the other girl's heart. I am not casting the first stone at you so I suggest you consider your own ways brother.
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Baxilexi
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not to worry, it only natural. that why you should take safty precautions before makin anyone more than a friend.
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