I Cheated On My Girlfriend: Now She Doesn't Respect Me

Don't let this topic spoil your mood cheer up my sista

@ omoeko its not even worth it

@ fekuti
what does it mean ?

I heard this song by fela Who is man?


Who is man?
Who? Who man without woman?
He’s nothing, nothing at all

She bears with dignity
The stress of pregnancy
How dare we complain
It’s a daughter not a son
Would you have existed
Were your mother never born
If you call yourself the stronger sex
Let me see your hand in the air
Maybe you should bear the baby
What a site that would be
To see man in labour
Man oppresses woman so

Who are you? Who are you re?
Ah! Without woman?
You amount to nothing
Nothing! You are nothing my man
Nothing at all

Whoooo? Who make life sweet? Woman!
Who make man happy? Woman!
Yet can make man cry o? Woman!
Woman! Woman!
Respect! Woman!
Who born your grandpa? Woman!
Who born your father? Woman!
So treat her nice! Woman!
Respect the mother of the world

Abeg ignore him jare am not leaving this thread

nooo, i wouldn't say leave this thread! you betta stay.

actually omo-eko, no woman made me. God did.
ok ok i'm just playing.

@ bigdee

Is it too late?? Very difficult to tell. But you either stick around and find out, or you walk out not knowing, you choose

Before anything, I have to lash out a bit, my bros and sis(s) on the thread already did enough to last you a life-time, but my post wouldn't be complete if i didn't add some salt to the wound (because you sure deserve it)

You were served a platter of gold, garnished with silver and diamond, and with both eyes open you tipped it into the gulley. Assuming it was just a mistake, your stars repeated the treat, but you still proved otherwise.
I pray so dearly that the journey isn't ended, that your realization of mistakes do come across as genuine to her, that her love towads you haven't all been converted to hatred, that you are one of those so lucky to get a "x"th chance . . .

Dearie, if the otherwise happnes, I'm sorry to break it down to you, but you have no other person to blame than the person you see in the mirror when you look into it. And If she does walk out and not come back, go take a seat and listen to AKON'S - - "LONELY", seems he was talking to you

What you should do?? Thats a difficult question, but atimes the truth does set one free. If you really have called a day on your numerous atrocities, just continue being the "new, refined" you. Luckily, she might see that.
A broken trust isn't so easy to get back, but it isn't impossible, you might be destined to have that one last chance. When she gets all high, you have nothing to complain about actually, its all your betrayals taking the better part of her, give her the time and space to digest it.
When after a long time, she does see that your sins are now in the past tense, she might come back as her true sweet self, but do remember that it might be too much to ask. If your back-stabbing has eaten too deep, you might have to wave her old self good-bye, but lets hope it hasn't come to that, right??

She really did do so much for you to deserve the roller-coaster treatment, it was really bad of you
Let her know she opened your eyes to what being true and repenatant was, she made your world, make her see she's all you want and more than you ever dreamt of, that if she ever walked out, it will be your greatest loss in life, that she's your queen among maidens, and a diamond in the midst of thorns. Let her know you were so blind not to have seen the buttered bread you were served, and that you'll use the rest of your life to prove that to her if she finds it in her heart to love you again

Plan an evening for her in the nearest future, make it a momeroble night, and in the cause of things, talk to her from your heart, pour your whole heart and feelings to her, say it with sincerity. Damn your man ego and win back her love for you (what good has the ego done for you all this while anyway )
Use everyday that comes and passes-by to show her you've learnt your lesson, and will never let her down, that she's the angel you necer thought you could have but yet so human. AND THIS TIME, DO STAND BY YOUR WORDS

She's come this far, this last behaviour of yours might be the one to get the cup overflowing, i mean the action to break the camel's back, but hey there's a chance that she still has that last spot for you, now make it a story with the happy ending afterall

And you are??

@Omo-Eko
aight Baby ! Nothing but LOVE !

cool then

@Cuteass
Give me some sugar !

tell her to come to NL so that we can help her to dump you.

@cuteass
Ouch. I can be your baby Daddy provided you wouldn't tell Omo-Eko !

@ david don't be surpised ,  brother sweet T is tryin to get a date for the weekend 

@Omogenaija
No, weekend is far away. I need one for the middle of the week !

@cuteass
It's all good !

it's the same person aka ferlie, closestfreak, lagoschild