Would My Pastor Ask Me For Sex

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I love this virgin20. She is great. 

Oya do your thing!

On a more serious note. You both have developed serious feeling towards one another. I advice you stay away from each other as it could lead you to you know what. Being curious about sex isn't something you should be ashamed of. Your state of virgin doesn't imply you should remain ignorant about anything that concerns sexuality.

However there is this issue that needs to be addressed. I don't think you asked the pastor if he had feeling just because you wanted to know how to handle the situation, I bet it was more for a self and satisfaction

You can cry and shout you love his family but you can't neglect your needs as a woman. Just like anyother you want to have attentions from the man you love. Yes exactly you are in love with him. Hence a confirmation from him would give you a greater sense of achievement.

NNo oneis calling you Jezebel All we are pointing out is that if you still want to remain the virgin that you are, if you want to become a woman in Christ, if you still want to be able to look at his wife in the eye, you'll have to let go of any contacts you have with him.

I understand when you say you feel you can tell him everything. He is a pastor and his vocation obliges him to keep every private counseling secret. His vocation is also the only thing that is stopping him from crossing the line.

if he had no intention of moving forward, he wouldn't have revealed his feelings to you in the first place. it's obvious he is fighting deep inside him with some strong emotions that he won't be able to hold to himself for longer.

So I please beg of you to stop seeing him. You are indeed very naive. I don't think this is because you are a virgin. It's rather the way you are. You tend to trust people too easily and this is bad. even your pastor is human so he can err.
he may be a man of God, but you'll have to help him to overcome these feelings.

Goodluck!

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Lol, osisi, This is why I said her s/n annoyed me. Not that fact that she's a virgin just that I got the feeling that she picked it to make herself seem like the innocent naive girl that she is not esp with all the rubbish she has written. Pretty much trying to say she's this naive and stupid because she's a virgin. They are many with common sense

She's going around hugging people and cooking for a married man. innocent ko, ole ni.

I'm fine jare.

you? still dancing to Wasiu?

there is just no way to excuse this pastor. He has alreadya committed adultery with you in his heart. He had no business discussing sexual matters with a young unmarried woman. Offering to teach you to kiss is an insult not only on the institution of marriage, it is a slap on his wife's face and a disgrace to the pulpit.


kai! this is the kind of woman any unserious guy would dream of!  The pastor has you were you are most vulnerable. You don't think he would "take advantage of you", the day he does you'd be busy speaking in tongues thinking you were under deliverance. You better remove your head from the sands of denial before it is too late.


that wife sef na wa!


don't lead a "man of God" astray. Leave him alone and go look for a young man who isnt encumbered with a wife and the ministry, he may be in a better position to teach you how to kiss while not taking advantage of you even after he has disvirgined you. Even a word is enough for fools these days.

I am head over heels in support . .

Take her to a hidden place, so you guys can discuss at length

Please do this for a sister in need, eehn David, I'm really pleading

@TOH
No wasiu today, i just came back from Hooters for some hot wings and took a peep at some Hot cleavage !!! Are there any Hooters in your neck of the hood ??

forgive me if I keep speaking my thoughts on this post. this is the only place I can come to for advice on this issue. so please accomodate my curiousity in this trival issues.

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ha ha toastology 206 ! 

LMFAO Feel good for God

@Virgin20 - Honestly can't take this seriously, u're 21 practically and u're telling us u honestly don't know that this whole situation, conversations and actions with yo pastor is ungodly for someone that claims to love God so much the fact that u posted this thread in the 1st place means God has already spoken to u about it  
A male pastor that wants to keep u (young ignorant female) under his wings and teach u all u want to know about the opposite sex, feelings, hugs and kisses all by himself is not interested in yo purity, soon it'll be if want to see what an abuna looks like tell me - Fine be with him when there are others around, no more close embrassing hugs and definitely NO kissing. Speak to his wife regarding these emotions and curiosities about the opposite sex and make sure it's clear to both and all that u're just there for Biblical and Spiritual studies and growth.

but all was so subtle, but its all good though. we learn evryday. , but hey sometimes we need someone to hug us let's face it  , maybe the kissing part is toooo something but  sometimes compliments may be innocent.

heaven forbid

@Debo,
So this is where you are instead of practising the wine for Eastern Parkway?
Don't say I didn't warn you when them Trini, Bajan and Vincy boys out=wine you come Labour Day

*Clear throat* Omo c me c Wahala i tell u say na toast i come do here

i'm only trying to be friendly that's All  * Busybody*


Guy hope say no bi me u dey talk to 

@virgin20

Plz don't mind them ok