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babyosisi (f)
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no wonder we have little girls and grown women carrying belle left right and center.
They hear I love you and jump into bed.
God help us
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babyosisi (f)
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davidlyn God bless you. you have given the most honorable answer here. making me think critically.
from a man's perspective without judgement . God bless you again. I am giving critical thoughgts to what you have said , I shall settle the issue this night. nne how |
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davidylan (m)
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no wonder we have little girls and grown women carrying belle left right and center.
They hear I love you and jump into bed.God help us
madam, that was in the olden days.  nowadays you don't even need to say i love you, just pick up your phone and order them over! |
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babyosisi (f)
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Is that how they've cheapened womanhood?
no wonder I sounded so archaic suggesting that Christians wait till marriage to consummate a relationship.
I was ridiculed and felt like an alien.
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cute-ass (f)
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davidlyn God bless you. you have given the most honorable answer here. making me think critically.
from a man's perspective without judgement . God bless you again. I am giving critical thoughgts to what you have said , I shall settle the issue this night.
LOL . . so we've been yarning nonsense?? ok ooh. But i'm glad you decided to come down your "naive" horse and put things into perspective  Good luck with your life, hope you have a fulfilling, guilt-free life. And that God solve the problems you're facing. the bible did mention we'll be tempted, but not by tempetations greater than us. If you pull through this one, believe me, that God you have your faith in, will see you through, he will. @ DavidThanks for running to our/her rescue, God bless you tru true |
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babyosisi (f)
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I guess she needed to hear it from another man since debo has talked tire.
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debosky (m)
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abi o my sista, when I talk sotey she no wan hear wetin man go do?
we thank God the message got in sha, no be d messenger dey important, na d message!
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babyosisi (f)
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only Davidyn has anwered my question . to y'all who blame the victim , peace be to you. what is wrong in seeking advice. that fact that y'all are out there in these issues don't mean evry one is out there!!! ok. some 9 year olds know more than some 30 year olds! I am not ashamed to be naive when it comes to sex. I 'm just hoping my naivity doesn't lead me to trouble because i must be a virgin till I marry. I ain't going to mess around with no one . in order to avoid trouble when I 'm not sure of stuff , I ask people. I can learn and make changes swiftly , but I need to understand the problem so I can tackle it from its roots. sometimes it takes other guys or christians or fellow Nairaland users to help me see these things. Please ! if you are here to condemn then don't reply me. I want reasonable answers. answers that would make me try to figure out what 's goin on and know where to react !!!!!!!If I want to engage in premarital sex for goodness sake this night I could find someone to disvirgin me. so when someone is asking serious questions plz give thought provoking serious practical , creative replies!!!!!!!!!
This is a language I've never heard a lady use to describe herself even in an " if " situation. You are a man! I am almost certain. women don't use such words. You sicken me |
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davidylan (m)
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@ David
Please don't, why are you painting the pastor?? Did you hear from him??
Do you truly need the pastor to come to nairaland to state his own case before you conclude that he is an unfaithful deciever? A real man of God doesnt have any business talking to an unmarried female in private, going to the extent of discussing her virginity, telling her he wont ask her for sex! What man of God takes hugs from unmarried females, asks them to "come closer", promises to teach her to kiss? If his wife read this piece, will she be hailing her husband and waiting to "hear from him"? Is that how they've cheapened womanhood?
no wonder I sounded so archaic suggesting that Christians wait till marriage to consummate a relationship.
I was ridiculed and felt like an alien.
nne, na 18th century you dey. Ever heard of no strings attached or chop as you go? |
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debosky (m)
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I can't shout again, if all the words I said are not practical, maybe I need to relearn the meaning of the word. abeg david talk to am ojare, you seem to have taken the position of new mentor, I trust you will not fall victim to the 'holy hugging' saga too |
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omogenaija (f)
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@ virgin20
u asked and people give their honest answers, if u know ur going to be a virgin then y post the topic anyways ? seems like u already knew the answer to ur question
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davidylan (m)
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only Davidyn has anwered my question . to y'all who blame the victim , peace be to you. what is wrong in seeking advice. that fact that y'all are out there in these issues don't mean evry one is out there!!! ok. some 9 year olds know more than some 30 year olds! I am not ashamed to be naive when it comes to sex. I 'm just hoping my naivity doesn't lead me to trouble because i must be a virgin till I marry. I ain't going to mess around with no one . in order to avoid trouble when I 'm not sure of stuff , I ask people. I can learn and make changes swiftly , but I need to understand the problem so I can tackle it from its roots. sometimes it takes other guys or christians or fellow Nairaland users to help me see these things. Please ! if you are here to condemn then don't reply me. I want reasonable answers. answers that would make me try to figure out what 's goin on and know where to react !!!!!!!If I want to engage in premarital sex for goodness sake this night I could find someone to disvirgin me. so when someone is asking serious questions plz give thought provoking serious practical , creative replies!!!!!!!!! my dear relax, no need to go defensive. I read this thread earlier and decided not to respond as plenty plenty people had given you more than enough advice. We all give advice from our own points of view, our madams here will talk from a woman's perspective as they can't enter a man's head to figure out what he's thinking. We on our own part can talk from oga pastors side because we have been there before. We have used such tricks to decieve unsuspecting women so we know. Take your time and digest every reply you have recieved, there are lessons in everyone of them if only you will take your time to digest them without calling for the heads of the posters. |
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cute-ass (f)
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Do you truly need the pastor to come to nairaland to state his own case before you conclude that he is an unfaithful deciever? A real man of God doesnt have any business talking to an unmarried female in private, going to the extent of discussing her virginity, telling her he wont ask her for sex! What man of God takes hugs from unmarried females, asks them to "come closer", promises to teach her to kiss? If his wife read this piece, will she be hailing her husband and waiting to "hear from him"?
Isn't that the mistake women do?? Believeing a stranger over their husbands without asking first?? You're in the 18th century, but you haven' really gone into the world to know all the aspects of the 18th century. Where a girl will frame a pastor in and out to get her devilish will, where a female church memeber will seduce a pastor, when he refuses, she loads all kinds of lies on his personality, a century where the supposedly "victim" has the final say. Well if the pastor really did those things, shameon him but if he'sbeing falsely accused, like i said earlier, the sins that God will judge are too plenty. @ virgin20I wasn't referring to you though, but you do sound ungrateful and too back-hardened to be naive. (no offence meant, just my piece of mind) @ virgin20
u asked and people give their honest answers, if u know your going to be a virgin then y post the topic anyways ? seems like u already knew the answer to your question
My sister, see us see ttrouble ooh |
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virgin20 (f)
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i go to a church where we discuss our decision to wait freely. we talk to each other in our monthly youth groups about our decision . so even before I talked to my pastor of virginity , he already knew because he heads our youth group
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davidylan (m)
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@ cuteass, we can only judge based on what we are told. I can't enter her heart to know if she's right or wrong.
If indeed the pastor said as she claimed then God help his flock.
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cute-ass (f)
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what brings your questioning my gender. I am attacking the critics who said I want to engage in premarital sex. whats wrong or so significant in a woman saying if she wants to have sex.
I thought you didn't want to, why defend it again?? I know a lot is going on that is why I specifically asked if we are subconciously going in this direction. We told you just that but you didn't want to hear us out, did you?? I just need "more experiened peeps" to just explain to me some stuffs. . LOL . .who told you David is a retired pastor?? experienced people?? debo was tellig you the same thing but you gave deaf ears, what was it David told you that soemone here at one point or the other didn't?? so sometimes I need fellow women/guys to encourage me. as I learn from one experience, Fellow women?? what was Babyosisi telling you?? how to recite a poem?? wasn't she telling you to run?? I don't need people speaking non-understandable languages to me. I could have sworn we used english all through. when I come and say sista mary needs advice, I mean sista mary needs advice. I think "sister mary" was just pulling legs. If she insists she was seeking advice, then i wonder how "advice" is defined, because i really thought that's what we were rendering  @ cuteass, we can only judge based on what we are told. I can't enter her heart to know if she's right or wrong.
If indeed the pastor said as she claimed then God help his flock.
exactly my point ooh. |
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virgin20 (f)
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if I want to pull down an image, I would have mentioned his name. a great guy from sirealone. I must admit that a couple of you had meaningful anwers too.I was actually refering to those who called me jezebel and all that. do jezebels ever stop to think?
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omogenaija (f)
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u should expose him to the world agbaya ni ( he's old for nothing)
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davidylan (m)
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LOL . .who told you David is a retired pastor?? experienced people?? I am a retired pastor.  |
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cute-ass (f)
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I am a retired pastor. Retired pastor indeed. Where you running after a "sister", is that why you were denounced?? Eeya  Who knows, maybe your're the pastor in question, because it sure seems both of you kind of have a language mere folks like us don't understand going on there. Make una take am easy ooh |
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debosky (m)
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you mean retired playboy david? |
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cute-ass (f)
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you mean retired playboy david? pastor, but acting playboy . . please don't mix the two Would be catastrofe |
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davidylan (m)
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See this mere mortals tarnishing the image of a retired pastor! Fall on ur knees and repent o ye sinners! |
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cute-ass (f)
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See this mere mortals tarnishing the image of a retired pastor! Fall on your knees and repent o ye sinners! I am going to bed, I'll be repenting in my sleep Night night  |
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ikamefa (f)
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na wah oh! |
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ikamefa (f)
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oh really ? what a coinkindink! my sista i mean brova |
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fekuti
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| oooooooh, instead of you to correct me, you are using me to laff. |
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