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Bblak (f)
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Dearest, i think you should be careful in your decision because u're too small for all these. Any guy asking a girl of your age out is considered irresponsible because u're too young even if the guy has true intentions.It's quite obvious that the guy is older and more experienced than you, any relationship with him will cause you to lose your pride and most priced posession, Virg. don't do what you will regret afterwards. A word is enough for the wise.  So face your studies squarely so as to become somebody to reckon with in life and forget about any relationship for now. If you are meant for each other,time will tell but for now just skip it.
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jaylinaa (f)
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well girl, u shld be datin someone who is in your age bracket, bt if you're in love wit him,just be careful.atleast as far as i knw,a little datin wont hurt.bt please dnt let him take advantage of u please.if he can wait,den itz worth a trial.bt be careful yung lady.good luck girl!!!
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Chiori (m)
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I'd advise the girl to keep her distance from the guy. There is no way he would have genuine interest in her if he eventually got to know what she were thinking of him, except of course curiousity about sexing her. And after that, "to your tents, o Israel". So young lady, it's in your interest to look for something else to focus on. And certainly not a relationship at this stage. You can't gain anything from a love affair now apart from heartbreak and loss of dignity. Trust me! I'm a guy telling you what it'd be if it was me.
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UPRISING
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MY BABE GIRL,
YOU ARE TOO YOUNG TO DIE,
THERE IS TIME FOR EVERYTHING,
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segoye2 (m)
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Yeah, there is time for everything !  You will definately find someone that will love you for you alone |
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Lady temi (f)
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I personally don't see what if anything that a 15 yr old and a 28 yr old man share in common and also the man will definately take advantage of the girl and coerce her into doing things that she might not yet feel comfortable doing.  |
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denex
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@olufunmi
it is not only wrong, but it is illegal on the part of the 28 year old man if the love is reciprocal.
@Bblack
why do you have to bring virginity into this matter again?
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rezzy (f)
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There is nothing wrong with that.Provided u don't engage in sex.
because AIDS IS REAL.
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nurexg (m)
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hiss 3x wetin bring 15 years old girl come Nairaland  abeg seun this section is for big boys and girls. seun abi na you bi dey guy? if not remove this topic or  |
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ngojoygurl (f)
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@Topic,
Girl you are just too young for all this nonsenses, what do you know about love? face your studies for now and forget anything about relationship.
At least when you are up to 17 and up wards, i can be able to advice you, for now face yr studies.
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Hazel-eyed (f)
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@topic, i pity your small tiny life, anyway accept my condolence.
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Chidi-O (m)
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I know you've already received this answer plenty of times but WRONGJust in case you are still insecure about it.  And I don't need to ramble on because you have enough replies.  |
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skylower (m)
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she's trying, go and get your own |
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nurexg (m)
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tell the guy to wait if he truely love for at least 3 years okay
take care.
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ngojoygurl (f)
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is too wrong!!!
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dearstan (m)
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-----looks around-----------
----------hisses and sings--------------
wats love gotta do
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kellorah (f)
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Stay way from guys like that; and they've got a name 'peadophile'!
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hamzlolly
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Ok, one thing is, if i love a guy, there is no damn thang ma family can do about it. so all the bullshit about if i was your brother, i won't agree, mere words. My life, my decisions, and i face the consequences. the real question u should be asking yourself is are u ready to face d consequences? He a lot older& a lot smarter. You might think am gon dump him but what if hez actually into u. or u might say am not gon dump him. what if hez taking u for a ride? Think hard. u know him than any of us here advising u. u're d one with him. Decide for yourself and i hope u make the right decision girl
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hamzlolly
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very typical of nigerians to say what do u know about love. face your studies. Jeez. all work and no play makes jack a dull boy or how do u say it. baby girl even if u aint gon date this guy, just go 4 someone your age. u're so not too young to date as long as u know what u're doing. u don't have to be in love to date. no offence peeps but all the people saying face your studies, do u even know what your kids are up to? Am 18, av had three BFs in the past which none of ma parents knew about. They did not have to tell me when i realised Guys are Jerks. You gotta let her make her own mistake. My parents use to shout at me all the time, don't talk to guys, don't play with them, don't do this, don't do that. i never listened. because i thought they were lying but i got into relationship business and u want to know what the outcome was? I realised Guys are not worth it. If people keep telling u this, u won't believe it until u've experienced it. Now i won't even go near any guy that stops me on the road. God and am pretty good at giving dirty looks. One thing though, don't have sex with any guy. because trust me if u're not about twenty suthin yet, u cn't be in a proper proper relationship. our age is just to get guys, have a bit of kiss and flirt and dump them. I didn't have sex with any of the ones i dated and i appreciated it. because otherwise, they could be pointing at me when i walk saying 'look at her, i've shagged her' u know i mean? Just make sure u do the right thang by yourself at all time babygurl and stay cool. aite? laterz
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moondust (m)
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You should be reading your books, dearie what r u doing wit a child molestor?
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Abbygyal (f)
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@poster
I feel your pain, but u should really think twice. Do you think you are in love or just having a crush on him? you might think age is a number but oh girl, this guy could be d same age as your uncle (no offence). The guys in d house has given u d best advice available, so its up to u to make your choice!!!!
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kennie89
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d poster is 18yrs old now because this thread has been here since 2005.
@poster
hope u took a very wıse decision then?
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jennyjatt
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if u are a wise kid, u should know what to do but make sure is not a crush
please protect yourself, because somtin tells me u shouldn't go for it.
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Unubi
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i can feel u lad, there is nothing wrong in it if your 28 years old guy is truelly in lov wt u and sincere. some of our parents have even larger difference in their ages; if that is the intention, then, its might not be wrong but don't allow yourself to be abused until u er ripe enough.
if u don tear eye pass your mama shaoo, u shldnt waste our time.
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graffiti
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if u are a wise kid, u should know what to do but make sure is not a crush
please protect yourself, because somtin tells me u shouldn't go for it.
i can feel u lad, there is nothing wrong in it if your 28 years old guy is truelly in lov wt u and sincere. some of our parents have even larger difference in their ages; if that is the intention, then, its might not be wrong but don't allow yourself to be abused until u er ripe enough.
if u don tear eye pass your mama shaoo, u shldnt waste our time.
MEDICINE AFTER DEATH!!! Why don't you check out the date this was posted before handing down your expired advices??? |
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JoyceAgim (f)
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Na wa oooooooo.wonder sha nva end |
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cixluv (f)
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the 28 year old, i'm sure thinks like a teenager. i see two teenagers  *like minds think alike* |
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olayinka52 (m)
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well, you can have a relationship with someone older than you, because age is just a number.ok, and things like that happens here in Great britain. so keep on. if ony he agrees to marry you, oh carry on babe.
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dabriggs (m)
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Sorry oh I beg make make I ask one question.Wetin 15 year old girl know about love? That no be crush or infatuation?  Does she know that love is meek,gentle,kind does not hold malice,tolerant , ati be be lo? Instead of asking how you can derive a quadratic equation given the roots.Leave the guy,face your studies. And I don't care if its just a post bla bla bla bla bla, |
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