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icingbaby (f)
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what do you see on a 28 year old man and you are 15 that turn you on, do you family know about him. I don't think they does, girls please find someone that is not too old for you. If you were talking about 15year old and 20 year old it would sound better for me not 28 year old.  |
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brasco901 (m)
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To me...this is wrong. what do you two have in common? You're just beginning to spread your wings and you will miss out on your youth because the age gap is too wide. He's going to run soooo much game on you and you'll keep going back time and time again because you won't know any different. Wake up and look at the bigger picture
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chillin (f)
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y'all know whatz really funny here??? the poster or what sld i call her should be here right here u know what i mean!... givin response n' stuffs.. but shez not.. soooo whatz d usee!! i guess she doesn't give a flyin s*** about what u guys are talkin about.. am i gettin this right??? ohh yess am !!  soo guyzzz save your tyme for better postss |
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lullaby (f)
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No, No, No, No, ............again No, No, No ,No, No
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Rhodalyn (f)
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right
depending on what u do as long as u don't indulge in 'You KNOW WHAT I MEAN'
I see absolutely nothing wrong wit u been in love wit a 28 yr old afterall we're not talkin' aba age here,we're talking aba love
if he's da one u really want den GO 4 HIM
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lullaby (f)
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So what does a 15yr old know about love? Please, as far as I'm concerned, she's still a child. At what age exactly is someone supposed to be matured enough to be in love? Very soon, a 10 or 13 yr old will say she's in love and y'all will say it's ok. Granted, it does happen in exceptional cases but it's not the norm.
I say she concentrates on her studies and focus on becoming a better person mentally, spiritually and socially. If the 28 yr old really wants her, he would wait for her. That will be a true test of his 'love' for her.
As far as I'm concerned, she has no business being in love at her age.
Heck, when I was her age, I thot I was in love with all my crushes and see how that turned out...
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-Destiny- (f)
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So wrong, what made u attracted to a man nearly half more than your age?. and whats he doing with such a young girl? PAEDOPHILE!!!!!!!
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lekan2311 (m)
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Funmi, Ha ha, Its damn bad for a young girl of 15 like You to get involoved or engaged in such relationship. I mean a guy of 28 is too Older(I mean too Old) for You 2 go out with. You are still a young girl(just 15). Young sis. believe me, You still av a long way 2 go, even to think of than dating a Guy of 28. I'm not advising You of loosing your love but I know this might be your 1st Love, this kinds of Love make You feel unto of the world but when it comes to an End You'll blame yourself. Never listen to anyone who might advise 'AGE IS NO BAREA!' believe me Age matters most. There are Guy of between the yr 17-21. You can choose 1 from millions of guy between this age. Think twice and wise and know what next.... Cares    |
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cammy (f)
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ok girl been in your shoes i'm 16 had a thing with a 46year old. don't even go there. you r a smart girl. don't let this guy take away your innocense. you r young you have your whole life ahead of you. boys/men will come and go. men are only interested in one thing and my dear i hope you know what that is. live your life as a kid, don't go worrying about boyfriends. a man that age has expectations and he will expect you to fullfill is needs. you wount want to do that. come on hon find a guy aroung your age range. once the guy is older than 18 don't go there. ok go be a kid have fun. don't mess up your life. ttyl
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Z4M4eva (f)
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Cammy is right  |
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mckaycee (m)
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You guys would have asked her if she looks bigger and older than her age.
You can be in love with your guy but other things are more important than that.
Take your studies seriously.
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otokx (m)
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i concur with mckaycee
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LATINA (f)
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I THINK TAT IZ UR BUSINESS SO IM NOT GONNA SAY ANY THING CAUSE IM 15 AND MY BOYFRIEND IS 20 .... AGE IS JUST A NUMBER AND LOVE IS SOMETHING.............OK BYE GOOD LUCK BUT BE CAREFUL ON WAT You DO OK TAKE CARE............ |
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omogenaija (f)
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olufunmi ,FUCK WHAT EVERYBODY says even FUCK WHAT I say, just do u and let us know the outcome
once virginity is lost it aint coming back
homegirl , do u
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omogenaija (f)
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olufunmi ,FUCK WHAT EVERYBODY says even FUCK WHAT I say, just do u and let us know the outcome
once virginity is lost it aint coming back
homegirl , do u
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Olorididan (m)
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Personally I don't see age as a thing and noone would have the right to tell you they know the better of your particular situation However he is 13 years older than you and you are legally "underage" but your maturity (or any body else's for that matter) is a very relative thing and if he was say 50 and you were 37 I'm not sure so many people would object At the end of the day you need to be sure as a young woman of how serious this is --- and the best way for you to do that is to wait--- --till you're old enough to know -- |
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4real (m)
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i would tell her what i told my sister, don't do it you still have alot of time to have fun, you would dump him later for somone else, you are just starting your life, believe me in 6 months from now he won't look like the idea person to you, and infact when he is ready to marry babygirl, you won't spo for him you are just something to pass time with, i had a girl i loved more than life like that b/4 she was 16 and i was 26, well i left her cause i did not want to toy with her, she is my best friend now and we call from time to time, am getting ready to marry now and she is just in 200 level and not ready, so baby girl wake up and smell the coffee
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Rhodalyn (f)
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if u're just in love with him then i guess it's alright
but then if u're in a relationship wit him then i guess datz a bit over the top
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4real (m)
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well well well, how can you tell her it's ok, what does she know about relationships at her age, what of if she gets pregant ave did you think about that b/4 you said it's ok, look we are nigerians not americans, we see what there way of life does to them everyday and unitl they change, they would always have under 16 mums and marriages that don't last 2 weeks  |
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lowo (m)
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ha! please that is a heavy load for you oo, no try am please
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Queen B (f)
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Sweet 15! Well i will definetly not advice you to date that man. Pleaaze this is not lawful. Whatever it is your decision little Sis!!
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Queen B (f)
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And what does that 28 old man wants from a 15 year old girl this is Child abuse. I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 22 and I don't even like the large gap between us and then a 15 year young girl with a 28 year old man. come on that is not normal girl!! By the way your not even 16! Damn
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whitelexi (m)
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This is simply Child Abuse Real Child Abuse  |
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4real (m)
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i bet he is having sex with her  |
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2cantango (f)
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what does a 28 year old man find appealing about a 15 year old girl (no offence)?
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Seun (m)
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Her body of course. What else could it possibly be?
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2cantango (f)
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well that's just sick & very wrong |
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Badman888 (m)
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The body different guys got different thinkin
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4real (m)
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well it is clear to see that some guys think with there john thomas
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mamaput (f)
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If she is staying in Nigeria no one will say anything to it.
I don't think she will tell her parents.
"Old men" like that that ran after young girls have a complex. They can't cope with women that are independet and kcan use their brains.
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dimma
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My dear, you are 15 & he is What ? 28 ! Don't you think u are too young 2 b thinking about that ? You should be thinking about your studies & all so why not just try & divert your mind to the most important aspect of your life right now. & that word L-O-V-E are u really sure u are in-love with him or infatuated ? Cos I know that most Teenagers tend 2 mistake one for the other. So from a sister 2 a sister THINK ABOUT IT!!!!!!!!!!!!! & DON'T MAKE ANY RASH DECISCION OK!!!
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