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mamaput (f)
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A man of 28 should not say more than hello to my 15 year old daughter. talk less of dating her.
Not even if they are only holding hands.
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Reverend (m)
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Lucky Guy  Not sure how lucky the girl is though  |
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hot chic (f)
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Girl,though am not in a very good position to advice bt still got 2 post and say my mind,i think 28 yr old guy is too old for you.I must confess,am personnally in a relationship wit a guy who is 7yrs older dan me,and it still bothers me that its kind of old 4 me bt i av a cool relationship wit him,even wot most matured ladies aint got,its ova a yr that av been seein him but i still think 13 years is a lot,bt if u think he is still goin 2 respect u & wont alwez luk @ u as a young chap because even though u still young,u still av 2 b respected & u think u've got d ryt feelings,den u can go ahead bt be careful,love wit your hart & play d game with your brain,so that when u av d cause 2 hop out,u wont a lot 2 loose and d only thing u av lost to the relationship that u can't get back is your time.Much love babie,
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abiodunade (m)
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There is no crime to fall in love, but the only crime with your case is very simply, you are too young to involve in this kind of game that is meant for adult. I will advise you waits for the appropriate time to engage in this kind of game because even under the Nigeria constitution you are them too young to be involved in a relationship. IT IS CAPITAL WRONG.
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khuna (f)
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all ican say is that u are having a crush on this guy u are at that age where by your heart is easily manipulated so please wait for some maturity to get into you before u can take any step further
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kellorah (f)
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@ topic: run O if u knw wot's best for u  as for the guy, he's a PERV.  don't tell me it's LOVE |
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earthtones (f)
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PEDOPHILE, plain and simple! However, as one member stated, your studies should be your primary focus. my grandmother used to say, 2 B's don't mix, boys and books, your education in todays world will surely outlast a man!
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michelin89 (f)
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Are we still here discusing this topic? The girl is now 17 while the dude is 30. A lot can happen in two years. How can we know they haven't already consumed their love-story?  |
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hype
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Please funmi don't confuse love with lnfatuation. I think if the guy is truly in love with you he shouldn't advice u to head into a relationship at your age talkless of him being the guy involved. If he loves you then he should give you time to develop mentally even if he thinks you are physically developed. Even me that am 18 still feels am a child and because of that am not thinking of heading into a relationship anytime soon. BE PATIENT GIRL DONT BE IN A HURRY!!!
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degubi (m)
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If u were my sister i would so flog u with koboko till u come to your senses, do not try it, do not waste your life over a man whose wave length is incompatile with urs. Go and do something with your life, get a degree, build your personality, mature in every aspect. Relationships are not fairy tales, it is hard work and u must be ready for it. A word is enough for the wise, but in your case u have gotten a basket load of words. Those advocating for u not to indulge in this fantasy listen to them and go do something positive with your life
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moondust (m)
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Have u finished school? have u started menstruating? and u're dating a man twice your age, I dey call your mama now now and Police too
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puker (m)
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POLICEEEEEEE. |
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dearstan (m)
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I once had a 15yr old girl head over heels in love with me. And i was like 8yrs older that her, although it was really tempting because i have to say i like em young. But at the end of the day my moral had the better side of me. I had to tell her how not possible it is and also remind her to face her studies. She got hurt but i guess she go don comot for her mood by now.
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sopenz (m)
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i think that u are just too young to be taling about love rather LUST
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Roadblock
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Not just wrong, Very evil and that guy must be very wicked. For you what you need to do now is face your studies and forget about any relationship. The paramount thing to you now should be your studies and how to be a better person in life. That guy is almost old enough to be your father. You should also Tell your mum about that guy.
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@desodgi (m)
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wow thats way too far, hanhan, 21yrs for her is still betta.28,ha her ****** most have bin operated on,
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dietolive (m)
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She is just a biatch who wants ***** And the 28 guy is a reaaal crook! |
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Chiori (m)
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No matter how anyone would try to color it, the guy is practising child abuse. And the babe, she is aborting her future.
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jdizzy (m)
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The 28 yr old guy is a child molestor!
The 15 yr old girl is a mugu! What the hell does she know about love? Fuuk outtta here
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MILITIA (f)
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@Seun Do you encourage self confessed minors to use your websites? You are actually carrying out a conversation with this minor??? Na wah oh!!!! @Poster Please you should not think of anything with a "privates" at 15!!! You have all the time in the world for that! Just get a "barbie doll" or "G.I. Jane" playmate ok???  |
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Omo Eko (f)
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@topic What the hell are you doing with a 28yrs man, ashewo . You have started thinking about peins at this age!!!! Rubbish . You rotten slut, allowing a nasty old man to stick his thing into you, na wa for you oh, he will dump your ass like a piece of trash. |
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Chiori (m)
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Wait a minute! We may be getting this whole thing wrong. Read the first post, she only said that she is in love with the guy. She did not mention that the guy is dating her, or that he is sleeping or has slept with her. Maybe she is just putting us on the line. Damn! I hate it when people use my head to sip garri.
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MILITIA (f)
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Wait a minute! We may be getting this whole thing wrong. Read the first post, she only said that she is in love with the guy. She did not mention that the guy is dating her, or that he is sleeping or has slept with her. Maybe she is just putting us on the line. Damn! I hate it when people use my head to sip garri.
We know! The guy may not even know she exists. She probably has been spending too much time on Nairaland! This guy might be some guy from some "Big Brother" Africa she saw on DSTV!!!!  Then, young lady---it is okay to dream!!! @topic What the hell are you doing with a 28yrs man, ashewo . You have started thinking about peins at this age!!!! Rubbish . You rotten slut, allowing a nasty old man to stick his thing into you, na wa for you oh, he will dump your ass like a piece of trash. @ Omo Eko Even where if I doubt that this is true, let us give here the benefit of the doubt that she is 15! Someone might just be using us to fill this "teaser thread"! She needs education! You know when you were 15 now! All hormonal without understanding what the heck was going on! Pity her I beg! |
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sharp man (m)
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All these small children.
i am sorry for you. by the time the guy finishes with you, you won't know what hit you.
better face your studies.
A word is enough for the wise (but i am not sure if you are)!
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Mandora (f)
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I think he's much 2 old for you. If u were older wit d same age difference say 25/38, it wont b so bad because you to would have gotten some "worldly" experience so u can "match" wit 4 wit. Right now he has far more experience than u n he's going expect somethings from u that u may not b ready to give 4 instance sex. I think you're 2 young 2 b contemplatin that now. Besides why don't u get someone within your age bracket so u can have fun catchin d same experineces. What if 4 instance u want 2 hang out on a week day if u may b afford 2 do especially if you're on holidays n he gives u d excuse of having 2 go 2 work which is a perfectly a valid excuse. You may accept it once, twice but arent u goin 2 get tired. Then ofcourse there's d fact that he may want 2 hang out really late n naturally u would want 2 b wit him what lies r u goin 2 come up wit so your parents can let u stay out all night 4 instance? Think about it dear u probably would lose on all counts
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ThoniaSlim (f)
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@topic
shine your eyes, and stop fooling yourself.
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Lexyhearts (f)
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my sister i advice u to be careful.that man may not agree w u if he ask u to hv sex w him and maybe u deny because you're not ready.so my friend better find onother guy that one is too much for you.he will bcam older soon and yet u will still be a chick.that man is opld to b your father.do something before its too late.let e man find a guy of his age ad u do the same.ey r many guys of your age u can date. ey is nothing we can do maybe you're comfotable w your sugar daddy,lol  |
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olamijuwon (f)
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there is nothing really wrong in dating someone who is really older than you but the fact is that you must really be sure of his feelings for you.
he might do more than what someone of your age could do for you.
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Lexyhearts (f)
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TRUE ,You SAY GET IT |
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jdizzy (m)
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there is nothing really wrong in dating someone who is really older than you but the fact is that you must really be sure of his feelings for you.
he might do more than what someone of your age could do for you.
Ummm, what do you know at 14? Shut it mate! |
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