Calabar, Most Hospitable People In Nigeria

Nigerians refer to the people that inhabit the River banks and the adjourning land of the Cross River estuary and creeks as "Calabars". They are the most hospitable people in Nigeria and even in African.
They are the most civilized by Culture and nature. WHat Nigerians call "The Calabar" comprise many ethnic nationalities (Ibibios, Orons, Efiks, Quas, Efuts, Anangs, yakurs,Mbembes,Ekoi, Ekets etc) with common heritage and ancestral roots  traceable to Central/southern African settlements with strong stains of ancient Egyptian residence and civilization.

They hosted the first Capital of Nigeria with great humility, that others are taking for granded and even  calling them names. A typical Calabar family always keep a spare room in their  home for visitors. Good food (Afang, Edikang Ikong, Ekpang iwe, iwuk abia, editan, Atama, Ndehi Iyak, Ifop Iwa, etc etc.) and hospitality (Ntimkama, uwem do ke TINAPA) abound and cannot be rivalled across africa.

Most loyal to friends, and loving to enemies. Always willing to help others in need. Peace loving even enough to loose their ancestral home (Bakassi) to the camerouns without violence, what a great people.

They have crude oil , yet no violence of any kind. they have taken to hardwork and enterprise to project the destiny of their land and not wait for oppressive (Major) majorities of the Nigerian state. No wonder they have excelled in so many ways above even the so called majorities by producing the first Plice IG Louis Edet, first commisioned Nigerian army officer (Sir Wellinton Bassey), first Governor of Central Bank (Dr. Clement Isong), first Nigerian Lawyer to be called to the queen's counsel and English Bar (late Chief Ebito) , Ministers, Governors, Teachers,etc etc.

Though, fourth largest Ethnic nationality in Nigeria, no one cares about their plight in the Nigerian state.

Like Udeme (Guiness TV Advert) there is a drop of GREATNESS in every CALABAR MAN!!!!

Hehehe, I agree with you jare, to a large extent!

From the little I have seen, their food is delicious, they are ever so willing to serve, they are quite courteous, highly respectful, decent and they hardly ever throw their weight around. Most of the Calabar people I have met, have been wonderful!!  

When u say calabar,be vey specific.Do you mean Efiks from Calabar,Akpabuyo,Odukpani and Bakassi or are you referring to both Efiks and Akwa Ibom people.The Udeme you are talking about sef is not a calabar name.It is an Akwa Ibom name.The fact of the matter is that no real Calabar will be found doing all sorts of odd jobs accross cities and vilages in Naija-truck pushing,okada riding,serving in restaurants and bars,street husling and so on.The true calabar man is a unique person who lloves a homegrown environment and likes associating with uniqueness.A trip to The Canaan City of Calabar will convince you about what I'm saying.It's high time we know the "Akwa Ibom man" from the "Calabar man".But I do agree when you say we have contributed a lot to Nigeria,but in return we don't get our deserved respect.Our dishes are loved accross the nooks and crannies of this country,we are No1 as far as tourism in Nigeria is concerned,we are the most peaceful and fun loving Nigerians,an oil producing state,agriculturally viable state, just name it.No wonder the popular calabar(Efik) saying ; "Efik edi mbakara"

Papabrowne, how you dey na? I viewed your photo, men, you look a real dude. Have you seen the last comment i posted in that controversial article post of your's?

We are very nice people. Visitors are always welcomed in our mist. But a lot of people mistake our niceness for weakness hence all the stupid stereotypes.

Nda Bassey,

Etie di dieh? History has it that a specialset of the Bantus migrated from today's southern Camerouns to the indetented coast of the Cross River estuary. permit me to say that the last point of migrational settlement in the area is now what people call Calabar Town.

Where did there present day inhabitants come from?
Who developed and form the then eastern state now  Cross river and Akwa Ibom?
we are all one

There is dignity in labour. Whatever you genuienly do to earn a living and  it does not go against the laws  of the land and  moral boundaries, my dear is good labour. whether its , gateman, nightwatchman, house help , whatever. It takes a man of good conscience and determination, good upbringing to serve others and thats what I celebrate in a Calabar MAN
Thank You

Calabar is a nice place to be and your women are nice also. Hahaha

Calabar!! The Land of the wise.
I would like to tell some stories about some partof Southeastern that is Called The Calabars.
These stories might not be peculiar to Calabars. It is something that was widely practised by many Africans. This could set a trigger for a drama scripts anyway
The Killing Of Twins

Idua Assang, Iyamba, Ntekim, Okurune. This was the genealogy of the Idua people of Akpakip Oro (Oron) across the river from Calabar city.
At dusk, Aruk , the beloved wife of the younger brother to the king of Idua Assang ,gave birth to set two bouncing boys. "Mbubiam" (Abomination!!!!). She and the boys were to be killed and the land cleansed.

Aruk, was a good cook and the king had to bend the rules sine she was the only surving wife of the brother. She was sent to the jungle. the Hunband would take food to her there.
to be contd.