Ever Lost Someone As Dear As Family? Come Light A Candle For Them Here

I light this candle for my aunt Ngozi who took a trip to the orda side, miss u a whole lot

i am lighting a candle for my grandma who died in 1980 .Grandma though i didnt get to meet you . you lived through stories

my two brothers who died one in 88 and the other in 90 i missed you both .i hope you are being good to mama

my granddad  who died on may 11th 2005 you didnt even wait for me to see you during vacations, you just left like that .i love you grandpa

To my paternal grandparents i never got to  meet  you . .but i pray that your souls rest in peace

to the queen of my heart, my angel, my love , who died on the 23rd of october 2006 i am missing you every day but i know you are in a better place than i am .Mama i know it was God's will that you go when you didnt even get to reap from the two beautiful kids you had .we love you and we are praying fro you everyday.

i miss you miyonta and i love you more . rest in eternal peace Mama  

I light a candle for my maternal grandmum who passed away 5 months after my birth, I never got to see you, I've seen pictures though, but your stories everywhere i go make you live in my heart, rest in peace

for my paternal grandparents, granddad in 1996 and grandmum in 1991, you're the best one could ever ask for, loved ya till death and even after , , will never forget the song you composed with my name, rest in peace

I light two candles for - - - - - -
YOU (the one person i would have laid my life for), the day YOU passed away to rest in the bosom of the Lord (14th April 2004, just two days after our sister Benita's birthday), was and will remain the worst day of my life. I didn't think i could live another minute, i never thought i could survive without YOU in my life . . My brother Shalom
My love for you is undescribeable, words can't begin to explain, I loved you with every atom of my body, soul, life, you were my one in all. Writing this brings tears to my eyes , and the wonderful days and memories i had with you for the four years you spent on earth, you were just too much. Like no one i had ever seen, little but mighty . .
I couldn't stop blaming myself that maybe . . , the doctor who . . , mama for . . , i was  even ready to dig you up after your burial Cos i thought "what if he has woken?" But no, it was goodbye, after you told me you loved me (in your tongue, it came out "i lobe you" lol, i and Benita still mimick the way you talked), wish i knew it would be "the last",

For as long as i breathe, you'll remain dearest to my heart, i might never stop wondering "what if", and i make this promise, "MY FIRST SON SHALL BE NAMED AFTER YOU, you were my little hero - - - I LOVE YOU SO SO SO MUCH, MY LOVE, DEAREST BROTHER, SHALOM   (DEATH, YOU ARE SO WICCCKKKED

   _{(no, not him on my profile}

@ muki

You're right, with time it gets easier, you learn to live with the loss, you remember them and instead of anger you smile and just love them

Just that writing now, made it all real, i was just crying like it just happened. Maybe becasue i've never expressed it writtenly, but its all good

One thing i know, i'm ever grateful to God for letting me know him, though just for a little while  - - i remember asking God, "If he was going to die so young, why bring him in the first place", they were just words in anger.

I think you should take the gift (from your mum), and use it. Let it remind you that she's there with you, will forever live on in your heart, and that she loved you so dearly, use it to remember her, her gentle soul, beautiful ways and that she is your mum (not even death can change that)

For my grandfather that died 1991, grandmother 1993, grandmother 2001, grandfather 1998. Even though I was young when I lost my first grandparent from my mum side very early but I still have good memories of your and to mine other Grandparents I regret losing your because I got no one to call grandparents anymore, every moment of my life I know you’re all watching over your precious granddaughter (ME), I might not be able to see your but I can feel your presences, I feel sad when I see or hear other people talking about their grandparents because I got none.

And to Omosola I miss you so as a because and a brother figure to me, everyday i wish you were still here with us to see what your siblings has achieved, they are all grown up now but you will never be forgotten. Still today I asked God why you were taken away from the families that loved you so much but I guess God has written it that way or maybe that was how he wanted it,  I MISS YOU SO MUCH , everytime I talk to your brother or look at his pics I see you in him, LOVE YOU SO MUCH.

And to one of my friend I lost 4yrs ago on my birthday I miss you so much, it hurt to see you died on the happiest day of my life , you will never be forgotten also.

@ cute ass yeah  girl  it shall be well love ya too

@ OMo take it easy it will be alright

@cute-ass and mukina2

 Thanks guys am fine now but still can’t stop thinking about them, but I know God will walk me through it.   

Candle lights for my uncle who passed on 2 years ago.

Candle light for Biodun my crush who passed on last year

Candle light for Pastor Bimbo Odukoya.

Mum,when you left in 1995,I thought the world had come to an end.But somehow I struggled through,finished secondary school and entered Poly.Dad,when you died 3 years ago,we all felt it was finished for you used to tell us that if you died while we were still young,we'll suffer in the hands of our relations.I have to tell you Mummy and Daddy,I know you guys are up there and smiling down on us because your 2 children are doing very fine now.Ansa is married with a baby boy and she'll finish school next session.I'm serving now and I'm marching to greater heights.On behalf of Ansa and I,I'm lighting this candle because your parental love was a light and is still a light in our dark moments.One day,one moment,the candle will definitely burn out,but your loving memories never will.We love you and miss you.Till we meet up there,keep looking after us.Its your boy,Bassey. (Ps) I'm also lighting a candle for my friends,Yaks,Abel,Francis,Ifeanyi,Jide and other lost souls in graduating cet of 2006 session The Federal Polytechnic,Bauchi

Totally in support oo, I'm short of words (that doesn't happen often) . . two parents? gosh - - please eehn dearie take heart ooh, your sis too.

I light this candle for my Dad,

Daddy you are unfrogettable in every way. Your ever green memory remains with us your children always. I miss you so much, i miss your ways, laughter, jokes your talks, your presence, your approval,  i think of you everyday even though you have been gone 10 years now it still feels like yesterday. You have failed to see how well we are doing now after all your struggles for us all. I know you will be proud of us definately and i still feel your disapproval when am doing something wrong because i know and will never forget what you stand for. I thank God for giving you to me because i wouldnt have asked for one better than you. I love you daddy and will always will. May your peaceful soul rest in perfect peace Amen.

This candle is for my Niece, Chrisy who died some weeks ago! babes, i never really got to see you but i knew you somehow,  i named you even before you were born. You would have made us all very happy especially your little brother. Not to worry,  we will meet up and get to know you in heaven. Heard you were a beauty!!!! not surprised i knew you were my babe. rest in peace babes till we meet.

This last candle is for my grand parents, uncles, aunties and friends,  may your gentle souls rest in peace. Miss you guys in your individual capacities. One way or the other you have made your mark in my life. Rest in peace all, rest in peace.

@Muki(My smally), Cute-ass(my darling) and Omo(my little sis)
 My prayers are with you all,


I am lighting my first candel for my Maternal Grandmother, Eugenia who died in 1974, sadly we never met, but from all reports you were a true Diva inside out.


My maternal Grandfather who died in 1963, Papa I heard no one could have played the guitar like you. RIP,

My paternal grandmother, Hannah, may your soul rest eternally.


And the only grandparent I was blessed to know, my Paternal grandfather, Father Jack, You were the best Pappy. Thank you for showing me how to really roast a breadfruit.


To my friend, brother, father, daddy and confidante, My dearly beloved dad.  Mc Cuta, you were simply the best. I can still vividly recall how you would flog the bed and ask me to cry, so that my mom would think you were punishing me. .  Thanks for the qualities you have instilled in me, as a result am still here trying to find that person who can be just like you,  Papa they are yet to met your standards,  Thanks for giving us everything we needed. Thanks for loving Mama dearly,  so that she inturn was able to transform that love unto us, your offsprings.  I still wet my pillows at nights knowing that we never got that opportunity to do all the things we had planned.  I miss you so much words cannot express.

RIP my loved ones, until we see again!!!

I light this candle light for my daddy that died by 11.45pm on December 16, 2004

immediately i finished NYSC.You are the best thing that ever happened us.You never

waited to receive and bless my first salary.Indeed a mighty iroko tree has fallen.

We all love you dearly and believe that on that ressurection morning, we shall meet to

part no more.Adieu Daddy.

I light a candle for the love of my life my darling husband, who passed away on the 17th of January 2001,  The kids are growing so fast i give thanks to the loard . We miss you everyday.

I light a candle for the love of my life my darling husband, who passed away on the 17th of January 2001,  The kids are growing so fast i give thanks to the loard . We miss you everyday.

My heart goes out 2 u on this one. It must be horrible. Did the kids know him well? I don't mean 2 open up wounds. You really don't have to answer me.

for my older brother i light a candle.
you were taken in your prime leaving us all so painfully miserable.
i still walk around with a peppery feeling in my chest. the pain never goes away. time has just made it more bearable.
i love you. always will.