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Imme
Re: Ever Lost Someone As Dear As Family? Come Light A Candle For Them Here
« #224 on: October 10, 2008, 04:08 PM »

I light a candle for my sister Chika who left in june 2007.

Sis, although our mum gave birth to five girls, you are the only one i met;
now u have left me, i fill so lonely and alone in this whole wide world.

I will forever miss u.

Your children are consolation to us.

Go in peace sis, untill we meet again.
ecomog08 (m)
Re: Ever Lost Someone As Dear As Family? Come Light A Candle For Them Here
« #225 on: October 10, 2008, 09:13 PM »

I am Lighting candles for evrybody i have ever loved that left without knowing how i really feel for them.My Landlord BIG DADDY. The greatest Landrord ever., my neighbour and fried Wale who died 3 years after his dad Mr Adedipe, Wale i miss you so much, you are still the brightest person i have ever met.Highest i WAEC Lagos state Automatic addmission to UNIBEN. 3 years later your mother left. Well your brothers and sister are around.We mis you ad remember you.
Flakybaby (f)
Re: Ever Lost Someone As Dear As Family? Come Light A Candle For Them Here
« #226 on: October 10, 2008, 11:28 PM »

I am lighting candles for my dearly elder sister, brothers, aunty's, cousins and friends that i loved so much, and i know u all r resting in the bossom of God almighty,  we will meet 2 part no more, i miss u all and love u all,  Cry Cry Cry Cry Sad Sad
Livvvvy (f)
Re: Ever Lost Someone As Dear As Family? Come Light A Candle For Them Here
« #227 on: October 14, 2008, 10:51 AM »

I light a candle for a dear friend Nike - the only child of her mother - who died in 2007 of auto accident some month to her NYSC. I still feel the pain, and i know how terrible your mother will be till date. May u continually rest in God's love

I light a candle for my aunty Rita and my grandmother.

I light a candle for all those children who died in the Sosoliso accident and then my lovely mentor - Pastor Bimbo Odukoya.

I know we shall all leave this world since we are only passing by, but Lord make us leave this world in your peace and love of mankind. AMEN
whiteroses (f)
Re: Ever Lost Someone As Dear As Family? Come Light A Candle For Them Here
« #228 on: October 14, 2008, 11:35 AM »

somebody show some love to ifsez because no one deserves to loose 2 sisters and a dad, i hope the lord keep you rests safe
Angolobabe (f)
Re: Ever Lost Someone As Dear As Family? Come Light A Candle For Them Here
« #229 on: October 19, 2008, 05:25 PM »

I  light a candle for my lovely son Nathaniel who passed away this year january 2008.i love u with all my heart and i miss u everyday.
you was the best christmas present ever ,although u lived only a month on this earth,ur memories remains,u was such a handsome and strong boy
and u went through alot on ur few days on earth.i know u wanted to live but situation didnt allow it.due to u being born premature at 29 weeks and u having NEC.u know i wanted so much for u to survive Cry i love u with all my heart ,ur my first and only and for this reason i and ur daddy decided to bury u at home ,so that u can be close to us and we can see u whenever we wanted.ur one year birthday is approaching on 18th of december and I'm sooo sad that ur not here with me but ur birthday will always remain a special day to me,just to let u know that I'm proud of being ur mother.R.I.P my lovely son.

Missy B (f)
Re: Ever Lost Someone As Dear As Family? Come Light A Candle For Them Here
« #230 on: October 19, 2008, 10:58 PM »

Ango
I feel your pain.May God help you tru it all.It's well.
Is that his pix on ur profile?


Uncle and Aunty Doris
I never wanted to come here and light a candle for you two after the ones
I lit here bcause it hurts so much realisin' you are actually gone but seein' the thread again . . .
I can't let it slide this time . . . I'm speechless . . . It's been a terrible year . . .
Daddy first then Uncle N. and then Aunty D. .Love you all . . . You'll always be in my heart.R.I.P.
Angolobabe (f)
Re: Ever Lost Someone As Dear As Family? Come Light A Candle For Them Here
« #231 on: October 20, 2008, 10:16 AM »

@ Missy B,
thanks ,its painful and hard knowing his not here with me but God knows why,yes thats my late son´s picture on my profile ,he does look big for a 29 weeks baby.sorry for ur loss also.
 
 
JJYOU
Re: Ever Lost Someone As Dear As Family? Come Light A Candle For Them Here
« #232 on: October 20, 2008, 10:30 AM »

Quote from: Angolobabe on October 19, 2008, 05:25 PM
I  light a candle for my lovely son Nathaniel who passed away this year january 2008.i love u with all my heart and i miss u everyday.
you was the best christmas present ever ,although u lived only a month on this earth,ur memories remains,u was such a handsome and strong boy
and u went through alot on ur few days on earth.i know u wanted to live but situation didnt allow it.due to u being born premature at 29 weeks and u having NEC.u know i wanted so much for u to survive Cry i love u with all my heart ,ur my first and only and for this reason i and ur daddy decided to bury u at home ,so that u can be close to us and we can see u whenever we wanted.ur one year birthday is approaching on 18th of december and I'm sooo sad that ur not here with me but ur birthday will always remain a special day to me,just to let u know that I'm proud of being ur mother.R.I.P my lovely son.


this is so sad. i hate hearing innocent children dying. the good Lord that heals every wounded heart will heal you and you will be a mother again. God bless and pour His oil of healing on you and everyone. i would recommend bereavement counselling. it is always good to share the pain with people who know what to say and can point you in the right direction.

i lost my gran 5yrs & mum 2yrs ago. the pain is still raw i can tell you. it changes your life and the way you see things. Christ has been there for us all and we are very grateful. we couldn't have pulled through without His love and that of the brethren around us
Missy B (f)
Re: Ever Lost Someone As Dear As Family? Come Light A Candle For Them Here
« #233 on: October 20, 2008, 01:10 PM »

Quote from: Angolobabe on October 20, 2008, 10:16 AM
@ Missy B,
thanks ,its painful and hard knowing his not here with me but God knows why,yes thats my late son´s picture on my profile ,he does look big for a 29 weeks baby.sorry for ur loss also.
 
What a beauty!!! He's too handsome Kiss  Kiss  Kiss  Kiss
So much love to him where he is now  Kiss  Kiss  Kiss  Kiss .
Situations like this makes me struggle for words to say . . . .
It's well!!! Stay good sista. Kiss
Angolobabe (f)
Re: Ever Lost Someone As Dear As Family? Come Light A Candle For Them Here
« #234 on: October 22, 2008, 04:38 PM »

thanks @ Missy B.

Quote from: Missy B on October 20, 2008, 01:10 PM
What a beauty!!! He's too handsome Kiss  Kiss  Kiss  Kiss
So much love to him where he is now  Kiss  Kiss  Kiss  Kiss .
Situations like this makes me struggle for words to say . . . .
It's well!!! Stay good sista. Kiss
meexteriox (m)
Re: Ever Lost Someone As Dear As Family? Come Light A Candle For Them Here
« #235 on: October 22, 2008, 04:56 PM »

I remember it quite vividly, the day sun darkened on my horizon;
The day death strangled fatherhood from my youthful consciousness;
Wailing ensued my bitterness, if only it were a remission for death;
I stared and stared, watched as eyes dilated;
Cold hands snuff out the being, that was weak to fight back,
I remember it quite vividly, the day sun darkened on my horizon.

Adieu Dad, love you forever
j.chaguri
Re: Ever Lost Someone As Dear As Family? Come Light A Candle For Them Here
« #236 on: October 22, 2008, 09:08 PM »

Tragedy comes in strings,thats why it is tragedy.light a candle for my sister inlaw Margaret Pearse Agboje who passed away last thurday,and my aunty and Florence Itoro who passed this afternoon, i love you both.
kayceejo (m)
Re: Ever Lost Someone As Dear As Family? Come Light A Candle For Them Here
« #237 on: October 25, 2008, 11:32 PM »

I want to light a candle for my beloved dad,Who died when we needed him the most.U left without saying anything to the family.Ur absence had been felt by every one of ur children.Each day we pray for UWe love you dad.We miss you.
laplace (m)
Re: Ever Lost Someone As Dear As Family? Come Light A Candle For Them Here
« #238 on: October 26, 2008, 02:26 PM »

I light this candle for my most beloved sister, Folake who passed to the great beyond in December 2006.  I miss her very much.  She was much more than a sister to me. Rest In  Peace, dear. Adieu
free me (m)
Re: Ever Lost Someone As Dear As Family? Come Light A Candle For Them Here
« #239 on: October 30, 2008, 04:37 AM »

I don't know if i should share these here but ,

His name is ( I know) Temitope Akinniyi. He was 12yrs old. And he meant more to me than i ever would have thought that anybody could be. He was not family yet he was more than family.

I taught in their school and in contrast to the teaching code (well I'm not a real trained teacher) i became a buddy of most of my students. He happened to be the most special. He was small for his age yet he was so sweet. He never ever bothered anyone and even gave his provisions to his friends (yes I was also in the hostel with em).

Then i woke up one Sunday in December and he was gone. That was the scariest day of my life. I wanted to die. Even begged God to do a swapping, He never even answered the prayer.

It's four years this December and I still think about him everyday. I still get emotional when i talk or think about him.

The only consolation for me was that he knew God. And i hope to see him again one day.

Tope, you still are to me my very own baby. Love you always.
Motun mi
Re: Ever Lost Someone As Dear As Family? Come Light A Candle For Them Here
« #240 on: October 30, 2008, 05:15 PM »

I light this candle for a wonderful class rep I had in my University days. Funsho, you left us April 8, 2006 while in 200L and we graduated April 8, 2008, exactly 2 years after you had left. Though we observed a minute for you tha day but how I wished you were with us. The memories still linger on because you're such a kind hearted individual.

That day, I couldn't light a candle for you because it was still difficult for me to contain that you were gone forever but here today, I give my last respect to a man of the people, Comrade Funsho.

God will continue to take care of the family you left behind.

R.I.P my dear colleague.

iyeayo (f)
Re: Ever Lost Someone As Dear As Family? Come Light A Candle For Them Here
« #241 on: November 21, 2008, 03:58 AM »

I light a candle for my late dad.

Dad, when you waved 'goodbye' at me 3 years ago at MM airport, little did I know that it was the last time I will ever see you. Even though I still see you in my dreams, nothing can compare to the life we both shared together. Now I appreciate all those punishments and scoldings you gave me to make me a better person. I wish you had waited to see how beautiful your grand-daughter is and how so much she resembles you. Sleep well precious dad, till we meet to part no more. I will forever miss u.
enitan2002 (m)
Re: Ever Lost Someone As Dear As Family? Come Light A Candle For Them Here
« #242 on: November 22, 2008, 02:08 PM »

@ all,
may the almigthy in his omniscience, grant you all the fortitude to bear the loss.

I've been following this thread for a long time and anytime i read it, my view on so many things do change.
It doesnt mean that, we that are alive now are better than those that have left. The most wonderful thing there is to live a good legacy, touch anyone that crosses your pathpositively and live a landmark.

Am not afraid of dying because it will save the pain of experiencing losing someone ver dear to me(which I dread most)

But alas, I've experienced that.


I light a candle for the first and foremost love of my life TITILOLA JANET EDUN, few days remaining to make it exactly one year you left this sinful world of ours.
Your life was cut short by someone who was acting as an agent of darkness, you were only looking for a misplaced pair of shoes which belong to you for some days, and luckily you found it also in you abode, and not knowing you have been given your travel visa to the world of no return.
Only if you had known not to put it on, but you did, and that was the end of the story, paralysis of the limb sets in. I could feel the pains and agony you passed through then. And at last you left us all, your wonderful sisters, mum, dad and me in particular.
But am glad you did left because i couldnt wish the pains you passed through then to happen to a foe of mine.

ADIEU MY 1ST LOVE_I Love You so much


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chisomquee
Re: Ever Lost Someone As Dear As Family? Come Light A Candle For Them Here
« #243 on: November 25, 2008, 10:47 AM »

i light a candle for my uncle who passed on three three years ago.
i light a candle for my aunt who passed on some days to my wedding,you promised you will take care of my first child,but you left without saying good bye to me,i miss so much and i know you are resting in the bosom of our lord.
i light a candle for my cousin who passed on in feb 2008,okey we all miss you.
i light a candle for a friend Dele who passed on last friday,the last time i saw you in my office,you didn't tell you won't spend this xmas with us,i know we will meet not to part again.
damiso (f)
Re: Ever Lost Someone As Dear As Family? Come Light A Candle For Them Here
« #244 on: November 25, 2008, 02:06 PM »

I light a candle for my dear DAD who departed this cruel and vain world on the 4th of November.I am still in shock and still find it difficult to believe that the last day i saw you was the day you saw me off to join my hubby.I love you so much and despite all the differing opinions i had with you, i could not have wished for a better father.You taught to believe so much in myself and made me know that my gender should not be barrier to me acheiving all my dreams.You made me fearless and made me realise that no one was better than me despite their colour,age or financial achievements and that what really mattered was on the inside.and most of all thank you for the type of education you gave me which did not only entail paying my school fees but also sharpening my analytical and reasoning skills.Gosh i am almost in tears typing this but love you and wish i could have said Goodbye. Cry Cry Cry Cry Sun re I promise to become all what you dreamed for me and even more by God' grace.Also regret that i was too busy to read your book am sorry for not making the time to do that.The book will be part of your endowment.
zyl_kenny (m)
Re: Ever Lost Someone As Dear As Family? Come Light A Candle For Them Here
« #245 on: November 27, 2008, 05:59 AM »

How i wish DEATH was orderly.A respecter of law and order.That those who came first would leave first.And that those who came last would leave later,
But NO.He`d rather strike whenever,wherever and whomever he feels like striking.
There`re TOO many candles to light in my life.From Mathilda(the most wonderful female i`ve ever met),to Gerrald "the soft-hearted one".From Teser Sugh "the big guy" to Tochukwu "the light of his mother`s world"  (he didn`t even stay long enough for his mother to smile after so many years of search for a child)
To y`all and all others that`ve gone to the beyond,
       My Candles shall forever be lit,
yankidelta (m)
Re: Ever Lost Someone As Dear As Family? Come Light A Candle For Them Here
« #246 on: November 28, 2008, 09:57 AM »

FOR MY UNCLE, OR BROTHER,OSAHON IRABOR WHO PASSED AWAY IN THE LAST ADC PLANE CRASH IN 2006.NEVER THOUGHT IT COULD HAPPEN BUT I GUESS U'VE MADE US ALL STRONGER, TILL WE MEET AGAIN
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