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wadobomi (f)
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i think to me, the racist person is he/she who thinks or sees racism in another persons view or acts.
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Donzman (m)
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Donzman,
Don't ever let my mother here you calling her white. Every time I say she is white, she goes off. She does not hate white mind you, she just believes that she is Spanish, so therefore that is not white. She likes to brag about the fact that her dad had nappy hair.
Like mother like daughter, trying to deny what they are!
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Drusilla (f)
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i think to me, the racist person is he/she who thinks or sees racism in another persons view or acts.
Wadobomi, Could you clarify your statement? It seems you meant to say something else. You could not possibly logically be blaming the black folks that a cop just wrote a book about beating so bloody, that all you could see is their bloody hand prints trying to escape out the window from the cops beating them, as being racist for seeing that as racist acts by those cops. So you must have mis spoke, eh?
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wadobomi (f)
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i meant what i said -
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Drusilla (f)
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Like mother like daughter, trying to deny what they are!
Donzman, Some days you tempt me to bring "Mulatto" activists here. People who would rip your head off for even suggesting that they are "Black". They even want "Black" Americans to stop claiming people like Malcolm X, W.E.B. Dubois, Frederick Douglass, Langston Huges, etc.etc. They want a new Mulatto category opened up. Which means all the black claims of greatness and inventions and freedom fighters would go down to a small amount and the Mulatto Category would get all the top of the line Blacks just for their own Category. Mulatto history books also. You and them should be best friends as they Claim Ghana and Jerry Rawlings and the wonderful ability of Ghana to keep the lights on and the place beautiful as due to Jerry Rawlings being a Mulatto President and not a Black one. You think your messing with me because I am Black and Mixed but there is an equal evil coming to the world to match your evil. As my grandma says: Be careful what you pray for.
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Drusilla (f)
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Wadobomi,
Then what you have said is beyond comprehension. According to your thinking. When a black math teacher found two white teachers making a black straight A student crawling on his knees and put and end to that atrocity and called it racism for the white teachers doing that.
You would have us to believe that the black math teacher who caught the white teachers is the one perputrating racism because he said they were racists for making that student crawl on his knees.
That is insane.
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wadobomi (f)
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i stand on my assertion.
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Drusilla (f)
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Wadobomi,
You can stand on, sit on it, jump on it and give it away.
It still is going to be insane.
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wadobomi (f)
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that is d more reason i will stand on it.
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Donzman (m)
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@Drusilla
Bring on your mullatoes, I'll just play the opposite number to them. If they diss blacks, I remind them they're half blacks and are thus dissing themselves, you know just how I always remind you that you're half white. Ok!
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Drusilla (f)
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Donzman, See. Then you are perfect. 
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mrmayor (m)
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Dru,
What! Mulatto Activist! Ol'boy never heard of that,I guess some people looking to be rebels just for sake of being rebels.Mixed Raced individuals are the most confused and angry set of people I have ever met.A race called Mulatto;where did they come from;Atlantis?
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Drusilla (f)
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Mrmayor,
You win the prize. That is the question I like to ask them myself. What country do Mulatto's come from?
You know in America until about the 1980's, white parents rarely kept their "Black kids". It was believed by all social agencies and such that "Black children were better off being raised by their Black people".
Now since we have some whites raising their black kids all kinds of abominations are reappearing in America. White parents are teaching their kids that they have 2 cultures. Their Biracial, etc.
Biracial kids of course are totally confused because they get their ass whooped by the police for being Black, they get called nigger, they need the same hair care products, they are always outsiders even if they live in a white culture. It doesn't matter to other whites if the Mulatto grew up in the same house as them, a Mulatto is assumed to be an outsider to white culture and should be grateful to even be allowed the privledges of a white.
So what Mulatto's mostly end up feeling for their so called white culture is an even purer form of hatred, than even blacks who experience such things.
Then Full Black kids be beating them up, for having long albeit nappy hair and thinking they are "better" than regular Black children. i.e. jealousy because Black Skinned boys chase light skinned girls.
This pressure brings about a couple of options.
1. Drusilla -- you become an Black activist and show there is no difference in the rights that blacks and mulattos demand. You don't allow whites to divide you based on race.
2. Insanity -- you become activist to keep all things black very far from you. Getting rid of Black is your goal. Mulatto activists fit here.
By the way, it is said that 8 to 9 million Black Americans could have marked "African American and other" on the census forms and only 1.5 million chose that option (same number of white/black marriages --- more than likely white moms filled those out for the African American children).
Showing that at least for now. Mulatto's in this country by an overwhelming majority only see themselves as Black.
According to Donzman, all of us Mixed Blacks are just in denial. Instead of us throwing in our lot to help get freedom for all with Black Ancestors.
We should throw our lot in with whites who want to crush Blacks.
That's why I say Donzman will get along fine with Mulatto activists. They will try as he has to crush any idea that Mixed Black people are Black.
Look at all the numerous times Donzman has tried to tell me, that I am white, that I am not Black and that Blacks reject me and that Black parents should throw away their Mulatto kids and many other things he has said.
The Mulatto activist would agree with Donzman and say that is why they do not associate with Blacks.
Donzman's could be the poster boy for Mulatto activists about why Mulatto's should just give up on associating with Black people, who do not want them.
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Drusilla (f)
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For the record Donzman has apologized for some of his most horrible statements to me about Black parents abandoning their mixed black kids.
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Donzman (m)
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You're a deepy troubled human being. For the record, I neither said any of those things nor apologized for anything. I just tell her to accept the FACT that she's half black/half white and stop hating on herself!
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wadobomi (f)
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you guys are racists with racists comments, vituperations and cacophonic innuendoes - what is colour anyway?
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mazaje (m)
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Hey Dru Why can't you just accept that you are half white and be proud of it. you said you mum is portuguesse and she isnt white, what is then is she? brown? i wonder why you guys make so much issue about the colour of a person's skin remember a person is not his/her hair,a person is not the colour of his/her skin, a person is the soul that lives within the body.
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ThiefOfHearts (f)
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Dru, do you mean Spanish as in from Spain? because if anything they are the ones obsessed with being called white.
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Drusilla (f)
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Mazeje,
My mother is a mixed white. Her mother was born to what we think are a french canadian Jew and an Austrian Jew. Her father was born to two people from an Island off Portugal.
Technically, my mother was born to a Jewish mother, who was born to a Jewish mother. So she would qualify as being Jewish (they like to go through the mother's line). Since I was born to a Jewish mother, that would be one option.
In the end, all I know, is I was born, raised, grew up, went to college and still live in the very same Black Ghetto that I was raised in.
By the way, my mother spent 26 years in Florida with spanish people because she did not spend it with us.
I honestly do not know a damn thing about my "white" mom as far as "culture" is concerned. I was probably 5 years old when my "white" mother left my dad and my dad beat her with a baseball bat so frequently that her mother in fact returned us 4 kids to my dad. She sent us away in a cab by ourselves to our black family. Back to my dad, which is what he was demanding if she did not want to see her daughter getting surprise ass whoopings. My dad would catch my mother trying to work and support us since she had just left him, he would wait on her and kick her ass as she was going in and out of her mama's house, which is where she left him to go live.
My dad refused to allow a "white woman" to raise his kids. Once we were returned to him, my dad went and got his mom from the south to come and raise us.
I was raised by my dad's mother. The Igbo one.
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Drusilla (f)
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TOH,
My mother spent 26 years living in Florida with Hispanics. Thus she speaks fluent Spanish. However no matter how many times, I have explained to her that Portugese people are not "Hispanics or Latinos" they are Europeans and they call themselves Portugese, because of her long proximity to these Latino and Hispanic folks in Florida. She likes to think that she is Spanish because she is Portugese.
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Adura_ngba (f)
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i will close this thread.
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ThiefOfHearts (f)
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I honestly do not know a damn thing about my "white" mom as far as "culture" is concerned. I was probably 5 years old when my "white" mother left my dad and my dad beat her with a baseball bat so frequently that her mother in fact returned us 4 kids to my dad. She sent us away in a cab by ourselves to our black family. Back to my dad, which is what he was demanding if she did not want to see her daughter getting surprise ass whoopings. My dad would catch my mother trying to work and support us since she had just left him, he would wait on her and kick her ass as she was going in and out of her mama's house, which is where she left him to go live.
My dad refused to allow a "white woman" to raise his kids. Once we were returned to him, my dad went and got his mom from the south to come and raise us.
wow, I guess that explains alot about you and your 'former' mentality. Sorry to hear that dru, so your dad's a black portugese, ? kind of pitiful that he didnt think about all that when he was having kids with a "white woman"
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MayNjoku
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@Drusilla? Who really cares? Just what do you expect us to say on a Nigerian site? Who are you anyway? Are you expecting people to feel sorry for you or what? 
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Drusilla (f)
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wow, I guess that explains alot about you and your 'former' mentality. Sorry to hear that dru, so your dad's a black portugese, ? kind of pitiful that he didnt think about all that when he was having kids with a "white woman"
TOH, My dad is Black. It is my mother who has a Portugese father but calls herself "Spanish". This is the reason and many other horror shows among mixed children, that I did not advocate having "mixed babies". Although I have stopped saying that also. Especially in light of the fact that we have recently learned that a white girl is probably going to give birth to my first grandchild. I have also read the exact same "angry" thoughts from mixed white and Nigerian children. Complaints about their dad's leaving them to get beat up and put down in these white countries. .
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ThiefOfHearts (f)
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So you're against mixed children because your dad was an asshole?
with the right parential unit there shouldnt be much horrors.
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Drusilla (f)
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@Drusilla? Who really cares? Just what do you expect us to say on a Nigerian site? Who are you anyway? Are you expecting people to feel sorry for you or what?  MayNjoku, This information is decades old to me. So I aint emotional about it at all. My white mother returned about 10 years ago from Florida and lives down the street in my Ghetto. Seeing her up close and any time we want now has caused each and every child of her's that she was forced to give up. To Thank God in heaven that we were raised by our BlackSide. As we say: God knows what He is doing. So I don't consider there any thing to be sorry for only something to be thankful for. My dad's refusal to give us up. Anyways, these people on this board have cared dearly that they think I hate my white side, I hate whites, etc, etc. I have denied such infatically. I don't deny demonizing whites. I was sinning there. I basically just explained that there is no "white side" to me. Not culturally at least. I just grew up like all the people around me. Black People. Sure Black people do some of the mixed thing, telling me I got "good hair", I have always regarded that as ludicrous. My good hair won't do any thing I tell it too. Good hair should really be regarded as the hair that acts right and that's not the kind mixed people inherit. Somebody Nigerians here care about it, they been fighting me over it for months. I am finally allowing them to "win" the argument. So here it is, my non-denial but acceptance of the fact that I really have no white side.
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Drusilla (f)
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So you're against mixed children because your dad was an asshole?
with the right parential unit there shouldnt be much horrors.
TOH, I changed my mind about that also. I decided it is just too mean and too predjudice. Have as many mixed kids as you like. Even though I have many such stories of terror that happens to Mixed Black kids. I have decided to give that up also. I have had the pleasure of hugging and telling her that I love her and being called "Mom" by a pasty white Italian girl. (she is real white and puts on a lot of white make up to cover up pimples) Forgive me Lord. This is my "bad son's" girlfriend, (he is 16,) who apparently is a few months pregnant by him. So I had to give that up also. It's a new me. LOL SMILE
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ThiefOfHearts (f)
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This is my "bad son's" girlfriend, (he is 16,) who apparently is a few months pregnant by him.
That's depressing when compared to your other son 
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Drusilla (f)
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TOH,
I know. I feel like the mother of Esau and Jacob some days.
While my 17 year old is recieving awards and honors and help and they even want to take him to Japan.
My 16 year old is bragging about how "Buff" his body is because he is so bad that the Sargeants and Commanders keep him on the ground doing push ups for punishment. He attends the same military academy.
I'll have to thank God for both of them but one is destined to give me a lot of grandbabies from a lot of different women, I'm afraid. I'll praise God for the grandbabies too.
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ThiefOfHearts (f)
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Again very depressing  Dru, don't be an enabler. If he wants to be going around sowing his seed across the globe that's his problem(though you really should try to talk to him about that) but you shouldnt be all open about it, in the sense, make sure he deals with all that by himself. If a person sees that family will continue to enable their crap, they will never stop.
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Drusilla (f)
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Again very depressing  Dru, don't be an enabler. If he wants to be going around sowing his seed across the globe that's his problem(though you really should try to talk to him about that) but you shouldnt be all open about it, in the sense, make sure he deals with all that by himself. If a person sees that family will continue to enable their crap, they will never stop. TOH, The change of heart is more recent than "the pregnant white girf". Imagine my horror at my son losing his virginity and committing fornication with an 'ugly' white girl, really white, I mean pasty white i.e. ugly. (She got a beautiful body though.) Imagine my horror that it happenned in my house. Imagine my horror that her parents keep wanting to talk to me and have a relationship even though we are in two different worlds. The father wants to talk to me all the time. The mother is basically out of it. I literally lost my mind on this son. Everybody has tried to tell this son that the child (pasty white girl) is not for him but my sons other head is leading him now. I'm not trying to enable him but get in my shoes for one minute. My son is not in gangs, he is not into drugs, he is still in school, he works his summer job, he does some of his chores. He's into anime, skateboarding, myspace, his Xbox 360. He doesn't know "street life". He has been spoiled since birth. If I kick him out -- he would end up on the streets, totally unprepared for that "dog eat dog" world. He would most assuredly drop out of school and I would lose whatever help those Army sargeants are giving me by working on his discipline. He knows and understands that fornication is a sin. He doesn't seem to care except sometimes he cries about his sin. I am trying to walk a fineline by trying to fight for what is good in him.
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