@oga madam
i believe u,
reallyam from the igbo tribe, and i must say . . . . . its a diificult tribe as far as acceptance is concerned. am talking from experience,because my mums an african but not nigerian . . . . . . . to spare u the details, You GET SERIOUS WRK TO DO,especially on your mother in law and your husbies family members, or else

why am i writing this
really an old post 
aint u married already?
p.s put God first and all things will fall into place