Is She Pretending To Love Or In Love With Someone Else ?

hi guys.. you can see from dating zone that i said i was looking for a lady..why i did that was because of a girl, and want  you all to help me out... Well,  knowing this girl full well.. when we met.. she was kind of nice to me...to an extent when i call to say sweet  words to her on on phone, she reciprocate.. then she was kind of been in love..but.. to my greatest some suprise she has changed totally..when i say i love you, she woun't say anything back to me before it wasn't like that..

Some Months Ago.. went to there Crip, i didn't meet her ahome..i was waiting for up to 10:30pm since 7pm in the evening.. all i could see was she was coming with her ex-boy in a ride.. and my car i didn't come with it, park that stuff ahome.. so she didn't notice that.. so i was waiting for her.. 4 like 20mins still in the car with so called ex-boy..later the guy drove out and she came out.. adjusting her jean trousers, Well i over looked that.. and i ask her, who was that.. and she told me eh.. thats was her ex-boy.. that he came to inform her that he was travelling... blah blah blah.. i laughed in my mind..

Okay sometimes i tell her..why you treating me this way, why can't you tell me you don 't need me anymore than to claim you kind of intrested in me.. she will only tell me, why i'm i telling her that, that she doesn't like it.

and also i ask why she don't call me..hehehe she will tell me she got no money to call.. i told her why not call 1min and i will call you back or just flash me 3times and  i will call.. she will give me an excuse

Okay Yesterday Been Monday, I called her on phone just to be nice. to her.. took her to a Fast Food Joint, she took snacks and Jucice sort of.. and we dash out.. and went down to joint with my friend and she was also with me.. later i gave her money  N8,000 and Also bought her a recharge card to her phone, she shoudn't give me an excuse that she doesn't have money to call or something.. just gave her that.. before that i told her to come over.. to my place because i want to surf the web through out the night.. she said no she kind of busy she woun't make it

Could u believe i met her online, that night browsing somewhere else.. as soon i login my yahoo Chat Id, she went invisible, not only that.. She didn't call me, because she promise to call..after getting the Calling Card, and i tried calling her and she was avoiding my calls, when i call she cuts off the phone

Now is it a crime to love someone.. what should i do nowwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

Dude what I think you doing is called stalking, if this chick don't want your ass move on,  I know for sure there are thousands of girls in Nigeria...... At least one of this girls would find you attractive so don't give up hope.

I don't think she's ashamed of herself.

She's ignoring you and making you Think about her.  She has successfully built a mansion in your heart. Now, you'll have to leave alone in that mansion... seeing her pictures everywhere.. but not her.

You better carry bulldozer and destroy that mansion.

Is she good looking? If yes give me her E-mail address so I can talk some sense to her.

Okk! u'v done all thoze c'mon mehn! u'v done enough! i'll give u a piece of advice aight.just so you know, not all girls fall 4 money and all them stuffs...but in this case shezzzz such a gold-diggerrr n' i guess she ain't messin with no broke ass! my ONLY advice for u right now is simply! simply! simply! forget about her!...Shez not into you.. not at all! _{(truth hurts)}

ohh yeahh Manwhore69 would surely do the job right! *bestest* friend! show the girl pepper aight  

Let her go honey. She is playing you, and she is fooling around on you with the guy she got out of the car with, and only God knows who else. Sometimes when we are in love it is hard for us to see what is right in front of our faces. You seem like a nice guy, find someone else. She is not worth your time.   

  girl you are so EVIL. I won't do that to a fellow Nairland person..........lmao.

lol@hotangel kind of funny you know no mind chilling
@Man  well she is beautifull...

See last year i was just telling her.. Sweetie, we got to make plans for New year, And what are you plans so we can come together and archive a goal... ( guest what she said eh! eh !!! 2006 we take care of it's self. can you imagine that ??  i feel like calling it off.. as you guys as said... because i'm not seeing good things coming out of it...and how do i tell her i'm no more intrested just don't want to break the news...

I can feel your pain man!....But we got to do somethings that makes life goes on, we need to show some traits that makes us man. You can only achieve this with the way you can change your current situation, be it in any position, now you know its heading to ground zero, why would you be bad to pull up some ideas to circumvent the situation and move on?.

Every move we make gotta go with precaution since we don't want to hurt either party, not when it actually invovle a loved one, there are chances she might come back some day. The best way you could try to avoid her now is ignore her. Get your mind equipped with other stuff and don't think she exists for now. that includes but not exclusively to, no phone calls, no yahoo messaging(chat or email), no text messages, give it time and see if she feels some hole in her needed to be fixed and call u. Else bro, I can smell EXIT

hummm...What an Advice.. Thanks my people i know i will always count on you guys.

oh boy, look, just move on. 1st of all - she's in d car with another guy  4 like 20mins & she comes out adjusting her jeans, wot do u think was goin on?
2nd - she went invisible when u went online, its obvious she doesnt want to talk 2 u
3rd - u gave her money & a callin card just 2 call u, even if it's 4 one min. - she obviously doesnt want to talk to u

my advice for you is - MOVE ON!!! - she obviously has already, i know it hurts but the earlier u do it, the better
her sorry ass will be d one to miss out on a 'nice, kind, rich brotha', - that's wot u sound like
Just end it & move on, your type of person will def. find someone else
later

The truth hurts..............MOVE ON.

I gave a reply to this topic and it has been deleted!!!na wa o!!!

@smartsoft u don't sound smart at all. better move on

do guys fall deeply in love like this?

all you have to do is tell her what you are thinking
rather than keep wondering and keeping grudges
that will break your relationship.

but from all indications i think she is gradually losing intrest in you.