before U Say I Do

Wt oda tins do u think shld b done before 1 says i do?             Determine wt ur priorities are-communicate,knw wt ur partner owes.   Discuss about-feelings about money,spending habits,future financial goals.knw ur partner's marital history,ur partner's sexual past,criminal history,religious background n value system,level of commitment,partner's temperament,partner's friends.             Knw wt each of u expects in marriage,hw many children wil u ve and hw ll u discipline them.whose care would b put on hold 2 rear d children n finally where ll u live and who ll be in charge of paying the bills.       U cld let us knw ur own answers 2 sum of d questns especially the last 3.