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Orla556
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Love goes beyond mathematics, the formula for "A" mit not work for "B"   As a man, i would rather go for a confident, intelligent and caring woman, no matter the hurdles, Love is a two-way thing |
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iphiedial (f)
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@poster
I quite agree wt u to an extent. It all depends on the the level of maturity of the people involved or the action maybe misconcepted.
I see nothing wrong in a lady trying to get the attention of someone she admires. The poster only gave clues on how 2 get the guy's attention. What makes the lady cheap is how she handles d guy when he is attracted to her by either going to bed wt him 2 soon or losing her dignity and pleading her way in2 his life.
Love is natural quite alright but there are laws and rules of nature too. Afterall a guy/lady can't just marry anyone he/she sees. Either sex must have acted in a way that attrated the other person to him/her.
Ladies should'nt shy away from attracting the one they want. Its always a 2way thing, its either u win or u lose.
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babadee (m)
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@poster
I see nothing wrong in a lady trying to get the attention of someone she admires. The poster only gave clues on how 2 get the guy's attention. What makes the lady cheap is how she handles d guy when he is attracted to her by either going to bed wt him 2 soon or losing her dignity and pleading her way in2 his life.
Ladies should'nt shy away from attracting the one they want. Its always a 2way thing, its either u win or u lose.
WORD!!! |
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presidonsi (m)
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anyway i have personal interest in you but i feel u may be embarrassed i wish to reach on you
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ifababa (m)
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@ Poster
Why go through all that hazzles,
A cosmetologist once said that " Real beauty comes from personal confidence "
Every guy wants a lady that has this kind of beauty, I tell you,
Following your own rules, If you stare too much at my eyes then you are finished, And if i could get you that cheaply, then you are finished finished,
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Ms. Olaolu (f)
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first of all if he dosent love you then he dosent! just because it worked for someone don't mean it'll wrk 4 you! stop lookin for love jo! it'll find you. or so ive heard im not 2 sure. so don't hold me 2 that!lol
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temmyabby (f)
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 , not really , love yourself and love him it will come naturally and if it don't then take a walk 
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onome02 (f)
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moneymail your title was wrong, and your post is a little bit selfish,
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bodebaiye
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It is really good to fall in love with someone that loves you, and he /she will love you for whom you are no matter the circumstance, love is good and fun.
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uchetobi (f)
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make yourself look uninterested. Dont give him the time of the day. but show friendship and affection to all his friends u knw. Always be around him (busy) but not with him and always look your best
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moondust (m)
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just don't be an a%* and he'll love u
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dexla
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you can only get a man attracted to you but not to love, it all a different thing. Love is far greater than wot u think just don't be an a%* and he'll love u
or imagine. |
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niceuzor
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*Interesting* Nice to see some old member of Nairaland replying this thread.
@topic
Do u really think this tips will help?
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Bassey231 (m)
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Treat him as if you were his mama,that's all.All men are babies and all they value is being spoilt.
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luxoire (f)
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you can make someone LIKE you, but CAN NOT MAKE THEM love you, that comes natural
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fekuti
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@bassey you're right o. clean, cook, fuck, respect, listen.
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SKU (m)
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hey den when your wife flinchs when u hug her,
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diamondd (f)
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show him some money in your purse--- first it means you are independent and secondly he might get some ot of it. hehehe just kidding love comes natural i think but to make someone love you by force by force have to do with alot of endurance which at the end of the day might not result in real and true love. chikena. let love come to you i believe dunt force it!!!
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damoche07 (m)
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making a man fall in love with u is quite possible,but making a man stay in love with u doesn't depend on u.You can't control it but u can start it.so be careful not to create what u wont be able to handle.good luck.
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pterygott (f)
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This topic first of all is faulty
you don't work it, it just happens. that's how i see it
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tonte (m)
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abeg i no go still fall in any love jare hisses |
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diamondd (f)
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abeg leave story
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PHEESAYOUR (m)
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hmmm! I don't believe all this, I imagine the kind of creature moneymail is
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PHEESAYOUR (m)
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There goes Giffyted. Na D koko you talk joo! no mind that moneymail thing of a thing
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breeolan (f)
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i hope u guys all realise that making sme one fall in love with u is nt as easy as u all insinuate, d simplest way to make a guy love u is just to be ursef, smetimes it happens due to your personality, the male gender is actually one that is also sensitive, tho' its kind of hidden, so for all the ladies in the house, just be your self it works for me all the time tho' its different strokes for diff folks |
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Bennybabe (f)
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Hi guys in da house!
this is really nice, though people are different,. some men like the ladies to show them love first while some see such ladies as cheap and take advantage of them.
Onething i i know is that every man wants a submissive woman but that doesnt mean u should be a "MUMU".
Loving and being available doesnot mean u should sell your body alright! Just be yourself, don't fake anything and always say the truth.
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prettysly (f)
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i have tried but did not work for me
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quanta
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People,
nice read all this opinions, but my take is this: for smart guys and chics, they realize that the world is big shopping plaza. the postulations that initiated this topic is saying that you package yourself to get your mans attention. and I beg to agree. If you don't even know who you are and what you want, then you will end up like the nice girls who get hooked with a nasty guy and vice-versa. The truth is that women have amazing powers over men, no question about that , Eve who was the last on the scene got Adam to do the wrong thing. So every woman has the powers, but to exercise it , you must have a clear picture of the kind of man you intend to pick from the crazy crowd.This tendency is further reinforced by the Fact that most quality men use their heads and not their hearts in issues that have to do with women. But that also makes it pretty difficult to sell to this group, because they are focused on the real issues like character, background, brains, good company,integrity etc, ahead of charm, looks etc. smart women first of all, understand themselves and know what they need, then when they find him, they sell hard and live happily ever after, while the not too smart ones think its a game of luck, and keep trying and also keep sulking for God knows how long. For the smart guys they just look out for the smart chicks because they are the ones who know what they are looking for.The truth is that most smart guys don't have the patience for a woman who neither knows where she is coming from, nor where she is going to. BOTTOM LINE, LOVE IS A CONSCIOUS DECISION, NOT SOMETHING THAT JUST HAPPENS, AND ITS WORKED BY BY TWO PEOPLE WHO WERE LOOKING FOR IT AND THEN FOUND IT.
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deb (m)
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@ Temmyabby love yourself and love him Thats a very crucial one. I like ladies who take pride in themselves. Once you love yourself you will be naturally attractive to guys |
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Addictive (f)
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[color=#770077][/colorPpl, can u all hear urselfs? It is true that a man shld fall in love whilest the woman respects him in return that doesnt mean we shld ignore the vital signs. People like me still believe in the old fashion way of allowing love flow, yes, if we adhere to these tips( like some kind of teasing and back off) i tell u, if a guy who is sincere with himself and doesnt want to do a hit and run will stick on.
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