How To Make A Man Fall In Love With You

ok i have a problem and i don't know what to do, 

so i had a secret crush on this guy edward since like lat year, i never told ANYONE, everytime i would see him or he would speak to me id get somethin like the butterflies,  but not as deep or w/e, well like i never persued him bcuz i thot it would never happen,  it would be compared to as like a dream type relationship, well 2 wks ago,  on a thursday after school he asked me for a ride home, so i agreed to bring him,  the whole time we were in the car we were talkin about how i never thot id be in that situation before, and other stuff, we pulled up at his house and he asks me what i was doin that day and i actually had nothin to do,  so i said nothing, he asked me to come inside, so we went inside and we talked for like an hour or so,  about so much stuff,  and like we were layin on his bed lookin at the ceiling,  and i was tellin him how my ex played me and,  and out the blue just turned to me and kissed me, like make out kissed,  so i stopped him and grabbed his face, and i asked him, "what are your intentions" and he was lke what i can't kiss you
,  and i was like idk it depends on what you want from me,  because i don't want to get played again, well he kissed me again and i stopped him again and i said "you still didnt answer my question, what is it that you want from me" and he said "man,  ive had a crush on you for the longest, your very very cute and i like u"  let me tell u how, LOST i was, because for once in my life,  i thought i had found like the perfect guy for me,  hes gorgeous, hes athletic, doesnt smoke ciggarettes, hes in school, a senior, hes single, AND HE SAID HE liked me,  so i was like oh my god this might atually happen,, and at first i didnt want to open up,  and i told him " i can't do this, " and he was like what can't u do and all this other crap, well i finally just let myself go, and i took a chance,  i trusted my heart that said let go of ya past,  that whole rest of the day it was perfect,  it was like i dreamed it should be for me,  and it was like we were meant,  yea right , the nxt day, friday,  when i switch classes i usually only see him in between one switch, well fri, he came by me every switch and walked me to my next class and grabbed my hand,  before id walk into my next class hed kiss me, it was like a dream im not kidding,
, well he had work and i had pratice so i didnt see him after school,  sat didnt tlk to him or nothing,  sat night,  i got piss face drunk and got emotional and since he was on my mind i kept textin him,  sayin a bunch of emo stuff to him,  well in the morning sunday i read everything i had texted him and i felt rly rly bad,  so i apoligized to him,  and he called me,  we talked for a while and he told me that he wasnt ready for a relationship yet,  so i was lik ok,  thas cool, its  w/e your not the first person to lead me on then sa ythis to me a few days later,  well i guess he felt bad so he said yea i go to work for 530 do you want to hango ut wit  me til i go to work,  it was like 3 at the time,  so i went to his house and it was like we were talkin again,  and i wound up brinin him to wkr in new orleans,  well i left,  and at like 7 he tected me sayin he got off early and do i want to go see a movie, so i said yea and i picked him up and wound up not bn able to see th movie so i dropped him off , i left went home and didnt talk to him at all,   well monday i was about to walk into school and he texted me sayin so much for walkin to school (because he wanted to work out by runnin to school but it was pourin down raining) so i offered to go get him,  before he texted back with a yes or no i took it upon myself to run to my car and get drenched in the process,  i get to the car and he said no stay at school it don't ry want to go today anyway,  si i was like i just skipped shool for nothing,  OK and he was like it means alot to me that you wuld go out of your way and do something like miss school for me,  sorry are you mad and i said no more like disappointed in myself forskippin school for a boy,  but neway, we didnt tlk the rest of the day, and that night i texted him and was like "it would be so easy to fall in love with you, but i wish you were ready, " i didnt get a reply, come tuesday i saw him at school 3 times and he walked right past me didnt even look at me,
, well end of tuesday he came up to me and was like can i talk to u,  so he pulled me aside and said im not trying to ignore u its just whenu mentioned the word love in the text message i didnt know how to react to that because im not even ready to think about love at the moment,  and a bunch of other stuff and like basically ever since that,  were just like friends but hardly ever talk, 

you don't know how bad i wanted this to work out!!! and it kills me because i want him soooo bad!!! and everyone asks me,  why don't yall go out yall are soooo adorable together yall are like perfect couple,  because its true!!!

Any advice??? email me goldenoppurtunity05@yahoo.com  with the subject (some advice for you and edward)

the most important point is to stay healthy and help your partner stay healthy. . .

@ sadey

CASE 1
SCENE 1
A girl walks up 2 me in a bank and gave me a note and then disappeared
REACTION
i was so impressed that i called her immediately and fixed a date(she included her phone NO in d note)
SCENE 2
she started calling me all day and night (minimum of 6 times a day and then all night). and gets upset when i don't pick her call,
REACTION
don't i have a life b/4 she came along?( i stopped calling or picking her calls)

CASE 2
My friends sister makes it her duty to entertain and be friendly with me whenever i visits,
buys me gifts calls me on the phone, 
REACTION
i fixed a date with her after sometime, i got to know her and she realized am not free, but
how she turned things around i couldn't say,and to tell you the truth she has ended up my
only true love for 3 years now and counting.

CONCLUSION
 sometimes it takes a girl to draw attention to herself, after that anything can happens
it can might work out,and it might not.

  one love

b yourself

yup, works all d time

just be your natural self.no forming and all that.

rotflmao!!!!






talk about stalking!!!!

Like my buddy, Chris (Rock) said, "F**k him, feed him, and shut the f**k up." No offence. Just basic male needs.
Good sex, good food, and please don't nag (last one is extremely rare but extremely important). I'll love you for life. 

@ topic, I don't think that you can MAKE a man love you.


Men are weird.

If he doesn't love you today, he won't love you tomorrow. Stop wasting your time!

Please how can one start a new thread/topic? I could only see how to reply existing threads.

luk @ d top of your nairaland page,where u  see d "mark as read" button,u wil also see a "new topic"button.clic on it nd u're done

nd y this?

Beauticious, thanks a lot for your help. I mighten't have figured it out unassisted. I shall post a new topic that I really need input on.