How To Find A Boyfriend Online

@Caradona
Firstly, online dating has only come to solve an age-old problem. In seeking a mate, why should you be restricted to your geographical location? Sure it may mean two things: (1) the people you come across do not find you attractive - rare, applies in special cases; (2) you do not find the people within your geographical locale attractive (more common). In Nigeria, in the 60's, 70's and 80's people actually decided to marry based on pictures alone. For example, an Ikot-Ekpene (IK) man working in Lagos as a tailor in 1970's Nigeria would send his black-and-white picture home through his friend who is a trader that regularly travels between Lagos and IK. The friend comes back with pictures of ladies interested in him solely based on his picture. He makes his choice based on the pictures and some words of advice from his friend. The marriage engine kicks off. This phenomenon wasn't restricted to Nigeria, it was happening all over the world. In Hawaii and the West Coast of the United States it was very common among immigrant Japanese and Korean workers.

See: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Picture_Bride. Also, a movie was made concerning this: http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0114129/

What online dating has done is to enhance the distance dating process. Today, you not only see pictures, you also see writing style, listed likes/dislikes, opinions, voice sample, etc. Then, if phone numbers are exchanged, you can talk over the phone. I know a couple that see each other everyday via web cams on both ends! 

So, online dating is simply a new technology to solve an old problem of geographical restriction. There is absolutely nothing shameful about it. I hope this helps.

Stop all this talk me a want a boyfriend online because i'm so alone
i am a a 29 working lady, want an intersting and God Fearing God within the age of 29-32 this is email add flakky_dudu@yahoo.com let's talk

peeped only?

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he really should 
and moneymail u shouldnt forget to shout me out when your book comes out

Nairalanders,
Beware of 419ners!!! Date with care!!!

@Topic

Na wah oh!  Has it got to this stage?   Internet romance ke!   May God help us!  I will jump from one Naija party to another every weekend or attend every Naija wedding every Saturday of my life to catch "man" before I consider internet!  Shoooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!

is it possible when some guys pretend to be woman and now u fall into the INTENET SEA WITHOUT ANY BODY ABLE TO CATCH You THEN You ARE LOST.
SHINE UR EYES

Enters Room ,    reads a few comments from some chicks,  immagines their future after thowing away good advice  shakes head and sighs   
gets out of room      

i don't mind the idea of the online dating. It's just people lie alot about their looks, location,sex, and generally about anything. But if you are pretty girl and u think you're pretty enough u can write to me oshioke@gmail.com or send me an IM

hmmmn. interestng comments.  i know a Nigerian guy who married a black-American girl via online toasting. Matter-of-fact, the first time they met phyically was during the Nigerian bit of the wedding activities.

So, online work could work,

if you need a boyfriend, just send me a wink, i might as well be the guy you saw in your dream lol

Goodluck to yáll

finding?i never finish finding the one wey dey ground

na d one wey dey air, wey get digital mask i go dey look for

i say again, goodluck to yáll!

The beauty of the internet is that it opens up worlds and people that you wouldn't have otherwise met. There are some risk involved as there is never full disclosure. There are Nigerians and Africans all over the world and it wouldn't be possible to meet them all by staying at home.

@poster

are u getting paid for this?, if Yes, how do i join u so that me too can make some money. lol