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Bassey231 (m)
Somebody Help:
« on: June 03, 2007, 02:25 PM »

Nairalanders what a gwan?I've got this small(?) problem that is causing me sleepness nights.There's this girl I met in NYSC camp.While in the camp we never taked,though we were in the same platoon.But as things went on,we got posted to the same local govt area for our primary assignments.I'm serving in a company,while she is at the local govt.One thing led to another and we started chatting,and to tell you the truth,this chick is sweet.The problem is this;I asked her out and she said she liked me but she's afraid because I'm a "Calabar boy".She said we liked women a lot and according to her 'when I see what I'm looking for' then I'll dump her.She ended by saying if I can prove to her that I'm a 'skirt scouter',she'll definitely go out with me.Abeg,how can I prove I'm not a chaser, because I'm not one and I don't intend to be.I really like this girl,and if things work out well,I may end up spending the rest of my life with her.Oh,before I forget,she's an Igala girl from Kogi State.
cute-ass (f)
Re: Somebody Help:
« #1 on: June 04, 2007, 12:10 AM »

Ok dear, lets see

Well there's actually little or nothing you can do to prove it, until she's been with you and you don't dump her for a better target at the end of the day. Thats how you can prove it.

But till she accepts your proposal, just use your actions (that are greater than words) to tell her its she/her you love, do little sweet romantic things, surprises, just be a gentleman, and for the whole time when you're still wooing her heart, keep to her Wink

At the end of the day (be it a moth, 2 weeks, a year), and you don't deviate from her, don't go after other women, be it for sex, long time relationships or any other thingy, she'll be damn sure its her and no one else you want and probably love, then you've passed the test of time and tempetation in flying colours Cheesy Cheesy

To her, you might fight tooth and nail just to prove you could get her, but if at the end of the day you still stick to her, then you're a graduate of love Kiss

The time taken, might feel frustrating, or too long but do remember that "no good thing comes easily", and at the end of it all, yo'll emerge the winner, because she's the perfect premier, thinking of tjose should make you hang on, don't give up, and give all you got.

Good luck, true love is hard to get, if she's your true love, then fight to have her no matter how hard Smiley Smiley
oreofemi (f)
Re: Somebody Help:
« #2 on: June 05, 2007, 02:39 PM »

I think  should not talk to her ,then she will realise that u are not a chaser,trust me she is going to come back to you.
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