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simstar (f)
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my boyfriend and i av been dating for over a year now. the problem is that he gets tired when we r having sex. the first time it happened i felt very bad, but it told myself that it was probably because of all the stress at work; he is a banker, he gets home very late on a daily basis. but then it's happening again, we hardly get to have sex; in three weeks we probably get to have sex once! and then that one time he can't seem to keep it up!  i really don't want to compare, but all this making me think a lot about my ex-boyfriend, sex with him was great , just out of this world. sometimes i feel like my sex life has grinded to a halt! will i ever get sexual satisfaction! i don't know what to do , someone help!  |
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jafar (m)
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get him in a relaxed mood and talk to him about it
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$ammy (m)
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I don't think it has anything to do with his job.I am also a banker but whenever i get home,i try to make my chick come at least twice.I think its either your boyfriend is just lazy or he is working hard to satisfy you and other patners.
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Armed-Lion (m)
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i agree with $ammy, 100%
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chuckdee4 (m)
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Try to get him in a relaxxed state of mind, maybe he has too much on his mind when u guys get at it, it all sounds like something stress related. If all of that doesn't work, try teasing him, as in make him want u badly (Deprive him), u'll be suprised how that will bring out the beast in him, You can thank me later  |
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blackmann
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Get a bottle of spanishfly, a few candles, and very soon u'll forget ur lazyy boyfriend.
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scofield (m)
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give him bitter leaf water to drink,he will be so charged up him will go more than 4 rounds  |
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fabiyi
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MY DEAR,
BEING A BANKER HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH INACTIVENESS OF A GUY.
I'M A BANKER AS WELL AND I MAKE MY MAMA SHOUT HALELLUYAH ALL NIGHTS UNTIL SHE'S SATISFIED.
THERE ARE SO MANY REASONS THAT COULD BE RESPONSIBLE FOR HIS IN ACTIVINESS.
1.TENSION AND FEAR.
2.OVER EXCITEMENT AND BEFORE U KNEW IT HE WILL COME QUICKLY
3.TOO MUCH CONSUMPTION OF SUGAR
3.PREMATURE EJACULATION
4.PREVIOUS SEXUAL INFECTION NOT THOROUGHLY CURED.
5.TELL HIM NOT TO THINK ABOUT THE SEX WHILE MAKING LOVE WITH U
6.HE MUST MAKE USE OF HOLD- ON STYLE. THAT IS, ANYTIME D GUYS IS COMING.
7.DOES HE USE CONDOM WHILE MAKING LOVE OR NOT? SOME GUYS COME QUICKLY WHILE RIDING ON FLESH. LET HIM MAKE USE OF CONDOM OK.
HE WOULD BECOME A BETTER PERSON IF HE CAN TRY D ABOVE.
NO COME HERE AGAIN TO COMPLAIN WHEN HE STARTED TO WOUND U.
TAKIA MY SISTA.
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Pennywise
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give him bitter leaf water to drink,he will be so charged up him will go more than 4 rounds Yes. After e don purge like 4 times. |
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hammers (m)
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@poster Banker my ass He is obviously a lazy man Am a banker too. Is there any big deal? I know d wonders i perform. Fin person like me i beg |
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rite2salas (m)
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This post is been over a year tho Is he still the same way? Give him some carrot, bananna , orange and tom tom after work then make him use 6 panadol extra before the show, See if that works if not,  Let me come teach your boyfriend how to do it  |
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innno
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you dey complain say your boyfriend no dey mess you well when stud like me full ground. if you want a gracious mess by a gracious privates, just dail this number :08038664822. i dey wait oooo!
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mdsocks (m)
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you dey complain say your boyfriend no dey mess you well when stud like me full ground. if you want a gracious mess by a gracious privates, just dail this number :08038664822. i dey wait oooo!
why not leave your home adress, height,weight, complexion, tribe, family and clan details also. |
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deor03 (m)
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why not leave your home adress, height,weight, complexion, tribe, family and clan details also. + picture |
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almondjoy (f)
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@Topic If he is tired, no problem! As long as that one most important part of his body ain't tired, and responds to massageslet him relaxI will soothe his aching muscles, by doing the driving! He will sleep like a baby afterwards!  But when he wakes uphe owes me one or two! |
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bababuff (m)
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I agree with almondjoy, as long as the third leg ain't tired, you can ride him. Sometimes when I'm tired, and my wife is still on, I let her ride my knee cap. (women in the house try this). Though this is sometimes strenuous for the man, because he has to arch the leg at a certain angle (depending on the angle the woman wants) for a long time. |
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jassie
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@ almondjoy Chaii! For once, I agree with you. I know say u sabi phuck well well @ poster You should ride on him like a RODEO!  |
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almondjoy (f)
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Hmmmmmmmmmmm! he he he! how una no go agree with me, when na "phock" matter? |
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Finecat (m)
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@Poster The smell of all that rotten money is probably taking effect. Pretty soon he might be impotent. |
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innno
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mdsocks and deo3, e b like say una brain dey shake. i no need to put my place height or colour. the most important thing is the rod. na I'm dey do the main work.
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handsombob (m)
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(FAB YOU TOO MUCH)
FOR WAITING I SEE ,I DON UNDERSTAND SAY MOST OF UNA BRAIN DON WET.I ACCEPT FOR FABIYI WA TALK THE RIGHT THING.MY THERE GIRL GO THOSE WAY FAB WRITE ONE BY ONE.
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gentlegg (m)
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Hmm a girl complaining about sexually inactive boyfriend while sex outside marriage is suppose to be wrong.
Nawaooo she even have the mouth to complain openly, this world self, is getting funnier everyday
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packa (m)
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@ poster, One thing you stop doing is stop blaming your boyfriend for not performing. I know people will crucify me for this, because i have read many peoples comments about this issue. Let me tell you something do you know if truly the reason why he is not performing is because of his kind of JOB, Let me expatiate on this Erectile Dysfunction (ED). which i believe is what is wrong with your boyfriend of yours.
Erectile Dysfunction is not all in your mind! For those of you who have good circulation but still have performance issues, please realize right now, it's not your fault! Many of these problems have psychological or emotional causes. what am i talking about?
* Financial worries
* Exhaustion
* Low self-esteem
* Family drama
* Or, just plain boredom!
This can be one of the thing your guy is facing which u do not know. Banking JOB is very stressfull and frustrating, well it all balls down on what postion he is in this sector.
It is natural to have an occasional erection failure. But when this becomes an everyday occurrence, it is a sign of a serious imbalance. Left unresolved, these existing causes of impotency can worsen.
I can tell you from I can tell you from experience, the inability to perform sexually can make you simply avoid sex all together. WARNING: This common approach will not help your relationship one bit. Unless this is addressed, most relationships will just fall apart.
, the inability to perform sexually can make you simply avoid sex all together. WARNING: This common approach will not help your relationship one bit. Unless this is addressed, most relationships will just fall apart.
So my advice to you is try as much as possible to address this with him when he is relaxed. And then if it's possible u guys should go for a therapy. Hope this will help.
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packa (m)
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@poster i 4got to tell you this, never ever compare your present guy with your ex. I may not want to go into it in details. @ Sammy's,armed-lion and the rest who just like bragging. Let me asked u guys do u think your girls get satisfied when u guys make love to them or dey might be pretending to enjoy u. U guys can never tell people are really diffrent so don't compare your selves with others.
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