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juahjuah (f)
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Crack Before We Crack!
My man insist that he always has to be high on ganja before sex. Is he crazy or am I wrong for saying no?
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layi (m)
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U prefer to date a drug addict? Well, if u are madly in love with him, try help him of his addiction. thats more important than ur sexual games.
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juahjuah (f)
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U prefer to date a drug addict? Well, if u are madly in love with him, try help him of his addiction. thats more important than your sexual games.
was he suppose to introduce himself as hi am........., and am a drug addict? what am talking about here is serious than sex games. we had a kid before he started this. and we are married |
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layi (m)
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I'm helping u place your priorities right. Whether he's your boyfriend or husband. Drug addiction is a more serious issue that your sexlife. Drug kills. I know u don't want to loose him soon. Help him out of that first and u wont have to keep saying No.
If your only problem is u saying no, then i'll reluctantly advise u keep sayin yes to anything he says. Even if u have to hang upside down before he fxcks u. Seems thats what you're more interested in.
I pray u place your priorities right and live a happier family life.
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wolerex (m)
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Hi, i think the real issue is that instead of focusing on the satisfaction of his sexual preferences, you should in (his sober moments) figure out why he's relying on weed. Have you tried talking note talking not nagging or sermonising about it?
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Rhodalyn (f)
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if ur guy prefers takin marijuana before sex den i guess he's always a bit rough dnt u get hurt i mean if that is wht he prefers 2 do it's obvious he only wnts da pleasure 4 himself ur guy has got problems u need 2 help him out before it gets out of hand
al da best
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monie0078 (f)
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First things first. Because the dude smokes weed does not make him a drug addict. I think it's been proven time after time by doctors and scientists alike that Marijuana has no addictive tendencies, it's more of a mind thing, You'll never hear of people going into withdrawals because they're needing their 'hit' of weed. That being said, weed lowers inhibitions and relaxes minds, I'm not justifying his reasons for getting high before sex (heck, I don't even know his reasons), but maybe he gets high because he's nervous doing 'it' when he's not (high)? Ok, I'm confusing even myself here, All I'm saying is that you shouldn't jump to conclusions, ask him why he feels the need to toke up first, speak with him about what ever issues he might have, maybe he just feels he performs better high, there're a million and one reasons that he could give you, listen first, judge after,
Quick disclaimer: To anyone on here who thinks I'm supporting the dude because I toke up, I don't. I just happen to know that because we don't understand the reasons why people do things doesn't give us the right to judge 'em,
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Jakumo (m)
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Juahjuah, Marijuana is known to cause drastic reductions in male sperm count and in sexual drive, so maybe your man is practicing some form of rudimentary Ganja-based birth control prior to observing his matrimonial duties. The other far less pleasant motivation to ponder is that he may feel a need to transport his mind to another place and time before sex with you.
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monie0078 (f)
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Juahjuah, Marijuana is known to cause drastic reductions in male sperm count and in sexual drive, so maybe your man is practicing some form of rudimentary Ganja-based birth control prior to observing his matrimonial duties. The other far less pleasant motivation to ponder is that he may feel a need to transport his mind to another place and time before sex with you.
NICE reply. Very, intellectual, |
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EvilSlayer (m)
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Marijuana is a very controversial topic these days , there are just too many pro and cons, regarding legalization of this drug. But if your man has to get high before making out with you, then you have issues.You may want to get him some Viagra or something.
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SIBLI_06 (m)
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Intresting topic, I have used smoke to  help when I was going through stress at work and was not performing in bed as I wanted  . Would I say I'm a drug addict because I have a spliff occasionally, nop not at all. We all have our own opinions on the subject. You do need to talk to him though, my wife helped my over my problem through discussions, i'm sure you can do the same. Good luck, talk is cheap  !!!! |
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Scorpio (f)
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y'all definitely have issues
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eveseh (f)
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he wants to gave it to ya hot that's why he makes hisself
hot frist.
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eveseh (f)
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ahahahah,but what will say,that's it he want to gave it to her hot that's why he makes hisself hot frist |
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pedron (m)
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enjoy him.forget these people calling him names.they all self-righteous tigth-asses.you never know why he takes it.it is possible that he has a genuine reason,and not just for the highs.i know some blokes that take it at similar times to overcome shyness,to last longer,to go stronger, and consider that if your man's reason is any of these,its more for youir benefit than for his.i hope you understand.best thing ,talk to him and try to understand why.and of course if his reason is concerns his lack of confidence then its needless to say that you should be more vocally approving of his efforts while making love to Uinitially you may feel like you'r e being fake,but my advise is that you reasch inside youirself and FEEL him.your reaction will be true,and he will love you for it.besides,you can always tell him what you want him to do different during sex,and get him to tell you same.talk to him.
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bluenubian (f)
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i don't have a problem with maryjane smokers, maryjane is of mother earth, as long as its done leisurely and not around me, heck it makes the sex better, trust me i speak from experience,
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Saddam
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No burantashi Him dey smoke so he can fire his turtle very well
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Jakumo (m)
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Saddam must be referring to The Mother of All Turtles, but he must please first enlighten us as to how one goes about "firing the turtle" . By the way Saddam, how is the trial going ? I sure hope you don't get a death sentence because Nairaland would be deprived of your witty sound bites forever.
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ono (m)
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Saddam must be referring to The Mother of All Turtles, but he must please first enlighten us as to how one goes about "firing the turtle" . By the way Saddam, how is the trial going ? I sure hope you don't get a death sentence because Nairaland would be deprived of your witty sound bites forever.
LMAO! |
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iz2much (m)
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Igbo!!!! Please respect the stuff.
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TolaniLuv
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Yo dude. We all know that Ganja is bad for health just like alchol, ciga,coco and other things. I don't know why peeps can't stop talking about this shit and still do it. Honestly I think your husband is doing it to favour ur sexual needs . If you think he want to satify him self then I don't see any reason why he should take it and stay for long. Not all men can go for 10-20 min in a round. I've a friend that last 1-2 min and he keeps callin me that she's complaning about him not doing it longer. Can you see this, but when this guy smoke weed or drink beer he can stay up to 10 min in a round . I don't see anyreason for you to be mad, unless ur husband is smoking it in your present then that's bad. Damn I've seen alot of working class men after work then branch at shadow then go back to there car and pretend nothing happens. I don't want to lose my wife to a young and strong guy. I rather make her happy sexually , emotionally and anything that end's with lly, LOL. P.S if you think he's doing that to make him self happy , Please note when a man release U dig. He's done and happy from inside. But all that last for 1-2 mins. I am sure d lady is not happy or ready for him to come yet. So, I think d best way is take somethin to make U high and stay long for both you happiness, Sometimes you can't stay longer when you're normal. don't blame that nigga, he want to make you happy, Psst |
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sunnykiss (m)
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smoke weeed every day , men you man is that man ok men allow him to amoke weed be hammering , men him go sleeep for gutter for 3 days naked before him eyes go clear, soon him go soon be government pikin, mad man , hahahahahaha  |
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El (m)
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Trust Nigerians, hate what u can't conquer, criticize what u know nothing about.
For all of those quoting books written by quacks, listen to this;
I have this cousin who was a nurse in London, used to have different kinds of patients. There's this particular one, paralyzed all-over. Whats his medication? Weed! When he doesn't smoke it, he's fucked as hell. When he does smoke it, he can actually move his fingers.U wuld be shocked to find out how many drugs u'all take that're mixed with weed and even cocaine.
Girlfriend, u need to decide if u love ur man for who he is, or not. Personally, any chick that comes my way, wuld have to accept me, habits and all, just the way i am, or she should pand off.
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Moyola (f)
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@ poster takin crack before sex!! u go wound o!!. . . he'll pound u mercilessly!!! |
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iamunique (f)
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@topic
No big deal. My boyfriend does it once a while, especially when we are on our way back from a night club or party and he is no drug addict. The smell is horrid but the sex afterwards is very good. damn!
Sometimes, he cooks boiled rice and includes the ganja leaves. I have never tasted it but he claims it ok and gives him a slight high.
Now without the weed, boyfriend is still a stunner in bed. Screws like crazy. But with the weed, he is extra turbo charged. Leaves me with swollen and hurting privates after that. Lol.
In conclusion, there is really no big deal in it. It all part of the wild sides of a relationship.
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idupaul
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ometimes, he cooks boiled rice and includes the ganja leaves. I have never tasted it but he claims it ok and gives him a slight high.
Now without the weed, boyfriend is still a stunner in bed. Screws like crazy. But with the weed, he is extra turbo charged. Leaves me with swollen and hurting privates after that. Lol.
ur boyfriend is a thug. |
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