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moneytalks (m)
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which do u consider the idea guy,the one that has the money and don't love u or the one with out the money and loves u?
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iice (f)
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Ideals are just that ideals. Reality has a way of keeping you either on or off your toes. There has to be more to the rich or poor guy for me to be interested.
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Eiregirl (f)
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Definitely the one who loves you, if he's rich then that's cool but I would never go for a guy because I know he has money! Money can't buy love.  |
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victorian (f)
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But what if the rich guy loves you, cause it happens and the poor guy doesnt love you that much , because he feels , he is cute and their are loads of unmarried girls seeking to get married to himself, cause he is goodlooking guy with an average job:-\ I must confess, am now in that jam and the rich guy is a celebrity in Naija, womeeeeeeen,abi well its not my fault he cares that much. |
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Ujujoan (f)
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But what if the rich guy loves you, cause it happens and the poor guy doesnt love you that much , because he feels , he is cute and their are loads of unmarried girls seeking to get married to himself, cause he is goodlooking guy with an average job:-\ I must confess, am now in that jam and the rich guy is a celebrity in Naija, womeeeeeeen,abi well its not my fault he cares that much. Wetin this one dey talk??? |
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Missy B (f)
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Wetin this one dey talk???
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gabe_logan (m)
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Definitely the one who loves you, if he's rich then that's cool but I would never go for a guy because I know he has money! Money can't buy love. but money makes the world go round!! according to most women, "who needs love when there is money"(logan, 2008) |
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rokiatu (f)
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@poster
the one that love me
even if he's poor love conquers all things.
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Sisikill
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Lol! A lot of idealistic people on Nairaland. Why do we insist on letting this unrealistic thing called LOVE cloud our sound judgment? Let’s even go back to the very beginning, What exactly is Love? Maybe after defining it, you’ll be able to measure how far you want it to affect everything else in your life.
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Busta (f)
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@poster
the one that love me
even if he's poor love conquers all things.
and be soaking gari every morning, afternoon and night? I will go with the rich guy abeg. . . .nothin like love this days abeg. |
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rokiatu (f)
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Lol! A lot of idealistic people on Nairaland. Why do we insist on letting this unrealistic thing called LOVE cloud our sound judgment? Let’s even go back to the very beginning, What exactly is Love? Maybe after defining it, you’ll be able to measure how far you want it to affect everything else in your life.
am experiencing real love and I know how it feel. |
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rokiatu (f)
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and be soaking gari every morning, afternoon and night?
I will go with the rich guy abeg. . . .nothin like love this days abeg.
do not be so sure, it rare but it still exist |
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Busta (f)
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do not be so sure, it rare
but it still exist
true. . . but that don't make every relationship you go into as "true love" its always rosy at first and then reality and heat sets in later. and like u said . , "RARE"!! |
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rokiatu (f)
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true. . . but that don't make every relationship you go into as "true love"its always rosy at first and then reality and heat sets in later.
and like u said . , "RARE"!!
of course not. but i have a choice and my choice is the poor guy who will love me money is not everything. |
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yong babe (f)
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Gimme d money!!!
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Busta (f)
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of course not. but i have a
choice and my choice is the poor guy who will love me
money is not everything.
good for you and whatever rocks ur boat hon . . .I'll stick with the rich guy! |
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rokiatu (f)
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good for you and whatever rocks your boat hon . . .I'll stick with the rich guy!
good on you too it is good to go for what you like |
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Sisikill
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am experiencing real love and
I know how it feel.
Hey far be it for me to say what you think you're feeling is not love but the question is this - Just how far will you let this thing you're feeling affect the other aspects of your life and be realistic. All this love conquers all, Love is Blind, I'll do anything for love, if you have love. . . you have the world talk is nothing but talk. Strip it down to the basics, how will what you feel stand up against poverty, uncertainty, lack of security etc? I am of the opinion that "Love" is only for when the good is good and going. . . I mean have you noticed how quickly love fades when there is trouble in the horizon? If this thing can't handle both the good and the bad side of life, then how wise is it to use it as a measuring stick for every other thing? I hope you understand that I am not saying that people are fickle, I am saying LOVE itself is fickle and it is time for us to snap out of this fantasy and start thinking rationally. Who knows, maybe then people will stop divorcing like child'splay because "They fell out of love" |
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Don_Ese125
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If i had 2 choos between a rich guy who loves me & who i care about & a poor guy who luvs me and who i care about,i'd go for d rich guy.it's nt about bein materialistic or anytin lik that,its simply bein practical.if i go into a r/shp wit som1,den i hav 2 plan ahead.s'pposin i got married to the poor dude,what happns when we start havin kids? Can i honestly expect som1 who cnt support himself 2 b able 2 support me and 2 or 3 kids financially,emotionally & physically? It just doesnt make sense. Plus,i grew up accustomed 2 a certain standard.when i get married,u would xpect tins 2 get better & nt d other way round.that doesnt me a materialistic,spoilt brat,no,it simply makes me a woman who knws what she wnts & isnt afraid 2 admit it.
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Busta (f)
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Very well said Sisi, . . . . besides who says there can't be love and riches at the same time? even tho, I will still go for riches first  can't even imagine masef in poverty . . .all in the name of love! |
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rokiatu (f)
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I am of the opinion that "Love" is only for when the good is good and going. . . I mean have you noticed how quickly love fades when there is trouble in the horizon? If this thing can't handle both the good and the bad side of life, then how wise is it to use it as a measuring stick for every other thing?
some love fade but true love never fade. |
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Busta (f)
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nothin like "true love" anymore
that sank with the Titanic ages ago
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rokiatu (f)
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nothin like "true love" anymore
that sank with the Titanic ages ago
sayz you |
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Busta (f)
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sayz you
Sayz me alright!! |
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rokiatu (f)
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Sayz me alright!!
ok and my opinion remain the same |
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Nautillus (m)
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It really ain't about the loot bro
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Sisikill
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@ Busta Thank you oh and it is not about being materialistic, it's about logic. Have you ever heard anyone buying stocks of a company they know is is going down. . . with the hopes of making profit? Won't you ask that person if he is insane? Then let him now tell you oh it's because he loves the company. . . He won't even finish that sentence before he finds himself in the loony bin. @ rokiatu Oh you're killing me here. . . "True love never fades?" Gah! They ought to shot the person who came up with that asinine phrase, honestly.  |
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rokiatu (f)
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@ rokiatu Oh you're killing me here. . . "True love never fades?" Gah! They ought to shot the person who came up with that asinine phrase, honestly. hah  are u guys kidding? well I do believe in it. I know how it feel so I take love over money yeah am serious |
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Busta (f)
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@ Busta Thank you oh and it is not about being materialistic, it's about logic. Have you ever heard anyone buying stocks of a company they know is is going down. . . with the hopes of making profit? Won't you ask that person if he is insane? Then let him now tell you oh it's because he loves the company. . . He won't even finish that sentence before he finds himself in the loony bin. @ rokiatu Oh you're killing me here. . . "True love never fades?" Gah! They ought to shot the person who came up with that asinine phrase, honestly. very good example with the stocks. leave rokiatu . . . the love is still shacking her now. |
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tRoOE (f)
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What a question, infact this is not suppose to be a question sef
Who in their right mind will settle down with a poor guy.However am not saying he has to be rich, but he should be doing okay.
As for me, i need a man that can take care of my crazy lifestyle  , I want/need a real man not someone that would become a nuisance to me!!!you feel me
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inspired_m (m)
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I don't see a reason why a Guy should be poor anyway, You don't term a man as poor Until when he's lost Hope.
If he's educated, he should have potentials, and if he's got the potentials then there's Hope.
Money may Come & Go,
Love may fizzle out when the heat gets scorching.
There are so many things Money & Love can't buy/get
I advice you Settle with Your Friend, Someone You can stick to despite all Odds, someone who's got good head on Shoulders, Someone that basically makes
you happy, Irrespective of who he is, or what he has, but What he is.
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