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opinion90
Would Take Her Back Yet Again?
« on: June 05, 2007, 09:53 PM »

I wanted to know from you all if I should marry the girl who confessed to cheating on me with a married guy. I forgave her and took her back. This time I noticed she had started again although I live in the US. and she in ghana but she denied it flat. Last week her job took her out of Accra to another town. She told me she was coming back on Friday although she was back with the same man that Thursday night when I called her. Immediately I called, she complained been sick so I offered to send my friend living in that town to go see her but she defiantly refused him coming; I said ok then let me speak with one of her colleagues since I do talk to them sometimes but she refused that too and finally hanged up the phone and turned it off. Now she has confessed again to been with that same man BUT DID NOT HAVE SEX with him. Also, she claimed thursday was the first time in months that she went there again - believe that? She wants me to give her yet another chance again and I refused but she keeps calling my job everyday. I need some discretionary advice from the House so please feel free to tell me what you all think. Thank you !
swing4real (m)
Re: Would Take Her Back Yet Again?
« #1 on: June 05, 2007, 11:10 PM »

What else again do you need to hear? The writing is bold written on the wall for you to see.She is a cheat so dump her.
ikamefa (f)
Re: Would Take Her Back Yet Again?
« #2 on: June 05, 2007, 11:29 PM »

nahhhhhhhhh marry her and have 25 kids  Grin Grin Grin


of course throway rubbish!  she don winch you?  Angry Angry
mukina2 (f)
Re: Would Take Her Back Yet Again?
« #3 on: June 05, 2007, 11:32 PM »

 Angry

dustbin calls Angry
iice (f)
Re: Would Take Her Back Yet Again?
« #4 on: June 06, 2007, 05:52 AM »

Shioooo! Tufiakwa!  Continuous cheating Huh You try!  I tire!!
nwajay (m)
Re: Would Take Her Back Yet Again?
« #5 on: June 06, 2007, 06:07 AM »

forget her, them plenty everywhere,
fekuti
Re: Would Take Her Back Yet Again?
« #6 on: June 06, 2007, 06:17 AM »

Quote
forget her, them plenty everywhere,
abi o, they're like toys. better yet cothes, you can change them & pick which kind you like.
mcube (f)
Re: Would Take Her Back Yet Again?
« #7 on: June 06, 2007, 10:20 AM »

she doesnt deserve u. so get on wit ur life.
kemoade (f)
Re: Would Take Her Back Yet Again?
« #8 on: June 06, 2007, 11:17 AM »

l don't think she is good for u.
tasiana
Re: Would Take Her Back Yet Again?
« #9 on: June 06, 2007, 12:16 PM »

catch her once shame on u
cach her twice, shameless her!

let her be.she is unrepentant and i guess she might be in love wth that man if not she wnt risk her relationship wth u by going back to him.
haywhy (m)
Re: Would Take Her Back Yet Again?
« #10 on: June 06, 2007, 12:23 PM »

Ma guy I feel for you ooo! Unfortunately, you would be the person given her money, making her look good to the world! She might even be from a poor backround! SHE IS A BITCH! Don't judge her based on your heart but brain 'because your heart will always tell you to give her another chance! This bitches self tire me! The marriage thingy self tire me! If not because e get as e  be! Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

 However, I'm sure she must have done some good things for you in the past! Are you cheating her as well? Grin Grin
ThoniaSlim (f)
Re: Would Take Her Back Yet Again?
« #11 on: June 06, 2007, 02:49 PM »

@poster
very interesting story, please keep taking her back.  Grin
opinion90
Re: Would Take Her Back Yet Again?
« #12 on: June 06, 2007, 02:53 PM »

haywhy, as if you knew, I send this girl money every month and take care of her every need and make her look good to her peers. She is only crying now because she is from a poor background and I have been her gold mine and somebody is poking whiles I pay the bills. She is never done anything for me in the past because I met her when I went to ghana for my dad's funeral last Nov.  Am not cheating on her because I love her although I didn't know her much. She poses cool with sweet and smooth words and a mistress of lies. SHE IS EITHER A BITCH or A WITCH or BOTH!
fabulous10 (m)
Re: Would Take Her Back Yet Again?
« #13 on: June 06, 2007, 04:57 PM »

sometimes the thing i read in this site can be annoying! how can u know that ur girl is cheating on u with a married man and yet u 4gave her and she did it againand now  she is disturbing u to come back.tell her 2 bug off and then tell d people in ur office that if ever she calls that u are no longer i company.
look young Manchester United better shine ur eyes o! dnt let this our niger  babes enter u come if u three hit compo!
anabell (f)
Re: Would Take Her Back Yet Again?
« #14 on: June 06, 2007, 07:39 PM »

i think u should sit her down and really find out why she is doing that maybe there there is something lacking in ur relationship then give her one last chance
haywhy (m)
Re: Would Take Her Back Yet Again?
« #15 on: June 06, 2007, 08:46 PM »

Quote from: opinion90 on June 06, 2007, 02:53 PM
haywhy, as if you knew, I send this girl money every month and take care of her every need and make her look good to her peers. She is only crying now because she is from a poor background and I have been her gold mine and somebody is poking whiles I pay the bills. She is never done anything for me in the past because I met her when I went to ghana for my dad's funeral last Nov.  Am not cheating on her because I love her although I didn't know her much. She poses cool with sweet and smooth words and a mistress of lies. SHE IS EITHER A BITCH or A WITCH or BOTH!
Don't be surprised that I know! Its not like I know the chick ooooo but ma guy keep giving her money but with the mind that you are only assisting her & not because of the relationship!
opinion90
Re: Would Take Her Back Yet Again?
« #16 on: June 06, 2007, 11:24 PM »

Anabell, you know I reside here in US. just like you and the only thing I count on is her sincerity so like haywhy said I have promised to help her and her family since her father cares less but I've told her am marrying somebody else so she should count me out. I gave her a 2nd chance last time and forewarned her to be faithful but I guess she has forgotten the world  is small if you have the eagle's eyeview! I can't give her another chance because even now she CLAIMS SPENDING THE NIGHT THERE BUT HAD NO SEX,  Do you believe in going to a man's house when you know it will cost you much just for nothing? My question to her was if I didn't catch her wouldn't she have had sex with him even if she didn't this time. I do everything to make this girl happy but I think GOD wants me out and am OUT!
$ammy (m)
Re: Would Take Her Back Yet Again?
« #17 on: June 06, 2007, 11:52 PM »

You can't turn a whore into a housewife
fekuti
Re: Would Take Her Back Yet Again?
« #18 on: June 06, 2007, 11:58 PM »

yes you can niggaaaa!
go watch pretty woman  Cheesy.
anabell (f)
Re: Would Take Her Back Yet Again?
« #19 on: June 07, 2007, 12:13 AM »

@opinion 90, well said
hot chic (f)
Re: Would Take Her Back Yet Again?
« #20 on: June 07, 2007, 12:53 PM »

Your gurl is a big time cheat.Am happy you are out.
Akinagirl (f)
Re: Would Take Her Back Yet Again?
« #21 on: June 08, 2007, 04:34 AM »

yeah thats the right attitude,,, she sucks glad u left her, u deserve better,  she will learn
chuckdee4 (m)
Re: Would Take Her Back Yet Again?
« #22 on: June 08, 2007, 11:50 AM »

Simple as ABC, trash the girl, which kind yeye talk be that
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