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lobinoxebe (m)
21 Years With No Dad
« on: June 06, 2007, 12:31 PM »

My elder once told me when i was 17 years old that she is my mother, I later went to my mum and she explained to me that she is my grandma,

she explained to me that my dad ran away after when my mum decided not to terminate the pregnancy.

Early this year, i got a call from my sister which happen to be my mum that my dad came back to meet her,


he  his hapily married with children and he spoke to me on phone, I have not seen him yet but please advice me on what to do on seeing him,
uchetobi (f)
Re: 21 Years With No Dad
« #1 on: June 06, 2007, 03:03 PM »

But since your mum wants you to meet your dad. Go see him then – with an open mind. Give him a chance to explain why he is 21 years late and an opportunity to make it up to you. All the best. And don’t forget God is your ultimate father.
efuah (f)
Re: 21 Years With No Dad
« #2 on: June 06, 2007, 03:36 PM »

Quote from: uchetobi on June 06, 2007, 03:03 PM
But since your mum wants you to meet your dad. Go see him then – with an open mind. Give him a chance to explain why he is 21 years late and an opportunity to make it up to you. All the best. And don’t forget God is your ultimate father.

good advice Kiss
lobinoxebe (m)
Re: 21 Years With No Dad
« #3 on: June 07, 2007, 09:42 AM »

Since the time he called me on phone, which is 1 month ago, He never showed up.
danniecool (m)
Re: 21 Years With No Dad
« #4 on: June 07, 2007, 04:59 PM »

Maybe he is feeling guilty, so He doesn't know how to confront you, I advice you to go see him yourself and make him to understand what life has been without him.
smile007
Re: 21 Years With No Dad
« #5 on: June 07, 2007, 06:59 PM »

what a pity  Cry well when u meet him welcome him as ur father.best regards
Chiori (m)
Re: 21 Years With No Dad
« #6 on: August 05, 2007, 01:01 AM »

phew! these are the sort of complications a guy can do without. lobinexe, i do not envy you at all. but just go meet him. keep the doors open. but o, what hurt you must be going through now. it makes me emotional already. take heart
uchetobi (f)
Re: 21 Years With No Dad
« #7 on: August 08, 2007, 04:26 PM »

If he still hasn’t shown up, don’t put your life on hold, go ahead with your normal activities, am sure when the time is right he’l have to show his face one way or the other, cheers
Ralvy (m)
Re: 21 Years With No Dad
« #8 on: August 09, 2007, 03:45 PM »

eeeh ya,
Muhahahahahhaa
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