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xchian (m)
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the girls who live in benin certainly do not hav anything to do wit romance,all they are after is money for this nd money for that,they hardly talk about love,and it has gotten to the extent that even the younger ones are allowed and meant to beliv that having a boyfriend entails him carrying part of your dads responsibility.plz for christ sake would somone out there address them immediatly before this issues goes out of hand.if am wrong then go on and show me a decent resposible home girl that hails from benin.am very mad at them and am set to do everything in my power to fight this new found orientation.
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ldollier (f)
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.am very mad at them and am set to do everything in my power to fight this new found orientation.
well Good luck to you. |
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Hotstepper (f)
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na wah ooooo..am shockedddddd....
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truthhurts (f)
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i wouldnt want people to jugde girls from Benin with this post i mean xchain ( sorry if i murdered your name) u sure are very biased with this post i grew up in benin and 4 your information am sure u got yourself tangled with the wrong crowd. girls would be girls everywhere watz the bone of contention sef u can't expect to date a girl without giving her gifts and all what not i mean watz urs sef u sounding like an alaroro to me  |
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Outkast (f)
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That's an extremely general and biased thing to say my dear(as truthhurts already said) I'm sorry you've met with the wrong crowd, wish you luck but abeg revise the statement.
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larger_20 (m)
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That's an extremely general and biased thing to say my dear(as truthhurts already said) I'm sorry you've met with the wrong crowd, wish you luck but abeg revise the statement.
It is 75% true. Most of them are trying to hunt oyimbo men on the internet dating sites. They just want to arrange marriage like the russian women. |
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Outkast (f)
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listen, you cannot, I say cannot generalise like that, come on, what do you think it makes you sound like?75% ko!and you know this how? you happen to know all the benin girls or the so-called 75%
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Outkast (f)
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I'm a responsible,Independent Benin woman who needs absolutely nothing from a man. I work hard for what I have.
larger_20, you're Igbo abi? not to start a clash between ethnic groups, but If you've been to Benin, you'll see that there's fairly a LARGE amount of Igbo people there.
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Latoya (f)
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what is all this about xchian  maybe u shuld tell us your experience and stop generalizing because it hurts.  we have loads of benin gals that are very independent. |
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Outkast (f)
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Thank-you Latoya
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larger_20 (m)
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listen, you cannot, I say cannot generalise like that, come on, what do you think it makes you sound like?75% ko!and you know this how? you happen to know all the benin girls or the so-called 75%
I'm a responsible,Independent Benin woman who needs absolutely nothing from a man. I work hard for what I have.
larger_20, you're Igbo abi? not to start a clash between ethnic groups, but If you've been to Benin, you'll see that there's fairly a LARGE amount of Igbo people there.
Ethinic barrer has nothing to do with this topic outkast. You live in NY, maybe manhattan skyline or across the hudson river. You live life at large and probably will not understand. Maybe u didnt even grow up in benin. I have been there and lived there and most parts of the country including the north. I am not against any ethnic group. I love everyone equally. I don't see any reason for u to be freaky because u can get all the money and care you need. Unfortunatley, most benin girls don't belong to your group and for the fact that benin girls like to be independent, they go about chasing men. There was a time benin girls were shiped back to nigeria from italy for prositution, it came out in the news. This is the fact. What the hell will a young lady be doing with her body if she refused to take order? When i said 75% I have looked at cause and effect before making that number up. Outcast, if you are confortable as I assume and go about chasing men in your state, then you're something else. Again most benin women will behave themselves if they have the money but it isnt so, so chill your a.ss down N'Yoker |
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Outkast (f)
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This new-yorker ain't coolong down yet. All this talk, talk, won't change the fact that you generalised and it's wrong period.
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larger_20 (m)
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I made my analysis based on deduction, it might be hypothetically wrong but quantitativley right...
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Scorpio (f)
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aiite Xchian, since u already made your theory n all of that, i suggest u move to somewhere else because obviously no girl is goin to date u without the cash. Oh n before i leave, your theory is sooooooooooooo wrong. granted some girls ask for things a little over the top, but that's not enough reason to say ish about all Benin girls..like i said if ya can't deal with it, quit. no b by force  ! |
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Latoya (f)
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it is very wrong to generalize like u did, 75% of benin gals is a huge population, it wuld have been a little bit better if u said 75% of gals residing in benin and not benin gals,thank goodness u claimed u made the number up.When i said 75% I have looked at cause and effect before making that number up.[i][/i]
I have heard alot about gals in nigeria always been liabilities to guys, which is very wrong at the same time is it only edo gals that r into prostitution? It is common to always call out on them because they r more like into international based prostitution, but come to think of it, it doesnt really matter where its been done. An ashewo is ashewo weather in your father's house, on d streets or overseas.
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larger_20 (m)
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it is very wrong to generalize like u did, 75% of benin gals is a huge population, it wuld have been a little bit better if u said 75% of gals residing in benin and not benin gals,thank goodness u claimed u made the number up.When i said 75% I have looked at cause and effect before making that number up.[i][/i]
I have heard alot about gals in nigeria always been liabilities to guys, which is very wrong at the same time is it only edo gals that r into prostitution? It is common to always call out on them because they r more like into international based prostitution, but come to think of it, it doesnt really matter where its been done. An ashewo is ashewo weather in your father's house, on d streets or overseas.
I don't know about generazing...i said 75 because most of them really don't live outside the US, the few that does let their voice heard so it is easy to trace them just like outcast just confessed she is an edo woman. But anyways..i hope it is less than 75. TI has done it to nigeria as a country but our corruption rating has gone down drastically. In addition, the recent economic reform report by the well respected international organisation gave nigeria a BB- which is a big surprise to the international community... The benin girls can change if an only if more and more economic reforms are implimented in our nation |
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Latoya (f)
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I am so glad you're coming to your senses,and realizing the reasons y the most of them think they don't have a choice. i am not in support of gals sellin their most valuable possesions for mere cash. I am from Edo state, i have never been there before not to talk of how it looks or the standard rate of living there. Maybe u shuld stop generalizing, i personally think your figure is wrong,how can it be 75% men thats a lot, u think of it.
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truthhurts (f)
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i wonder when people would understand that its not about the tribe at all, its rather about the way u grow up and your personality just as much as people complain about edo girls and their demands so people complain about igbo.
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jacq (f)
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Why you putting all bini girls undder one brush ?
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truthhurts (f)
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good question! u go girl ask them |
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bernieman (m)
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@ larger_20,I bet you can't tell me the basis on which you measured your 75%.Please,be objective next time you are confirming a statement.Meanwhile,girls are girls anywhere,and you cannot because you have fallen victim of circumstance generalise.Please,we have so much decent girls in Benin.
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truthhurts (f)
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bernieman thanks for that at least there is a man who sees beyond his nose in here |
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snowsdream (f)
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Xchain you are the same person that had a post on girls not taking advices from friends and now you are saying that benin Girls and Money Money. It is obvious you have a problem with girls and the only solution is on you working on yourself. I don't think a girl ll like it if her man doesnt care for her okay so stop this ideas on benin girls and money though there are some money mongers but then it is not only Benin we have such girls okay?
@bernieman good post please tell him because he talk like a baby. there sure are decent and responsible girls from Benin and i am proudly one of them. For you information Xchain it ll suit you to know that i don't and cannot depend on a guys money because i am well waded and money is sure nto my problem.
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Scorpio (f)
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@snowsdream..the name on your hotmail account, is that your real name?..u n my cousin r namesakes
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whiteshark (m)
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Listen folks, What this dude is saying is true to some extent, He said and I quote" Girl that live in Benin" He did not mean the tribe, he meant the location and that true. I was born in Benin city. I grew up there and even went to school there. I know what he is talking about. It is very true that the young girls you now find in town are always asking for money to do onething or the other. Although we still have some decent ones in the town, the bad eggs has nearly taken over the city with their Jugantee acts and kunfu styles,
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Outkast (f)
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welcome back(i think)whiteshark.
Still there's no reason to generalise.So you're telling me that we don't have fast girls in Lagos(huh!understatement)or in Port-Harcourt or in Abuja, they're everywhere. What we're trying to say is that singling one place isn't right. When people read the post they're not going to think girls in Benin, rather Benin girls(as we saw larger_20 and another do, can you imagine he even gave a percentage)
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vichel (m)
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Dude not true, not all benin chicks are money greedy. I grew up in benin, so i know. of course they have girls like that, the ones they call area mamas, yeah those ones, they could actually do damage to a guys pocket. You just got to move with the right ones, and trust me, u will never lack love instead of money  |
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whiteshark (m)
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My work takes me to Benin and Warri everyweek and I know what I am saying. The Benin of 5 year ago is definately not the same as the one you find today. I dey tell u the truth my brodas so take if from a guy that knows.
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larger_20 (m)
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Listen folks, What this dude is saying is true to some extent, He said and I quote" Girl that live in Benin" He did not mean the tribe, he meant the location and that true. I was born in Benin city. I grew up there and even went to school there. I know what he is talking about. It is very true that the young girls you now find in town are always asking for money to do onething or the other. Although we still have some decent ones in the town, the bad eggs has nearly taken over the city with their Jugantee acts and kunfu styles,
I am glad another experienced person is in the house, now tell me, would u rather take argument than experince? Not all of them are from benin, its not written on their faces, however benin life makes it hard for girls living their to be to themselves without money. Isnt it this girls I see everyday by the market by the road side in benin? That market is the greatest source of income to the community yet it is disgusting to look at. Come on people? flash some dollar on their faces and they will serve you like a king |
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snowsdream (f)
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@snowsdream, the name on your hotmail account, is that your real name?, u n my cousin r namesakes
cool. yeah its my real name. |
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xchian (m)
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I dnt know were u ladies are coming from but i still think u all need a change of heart,
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