Heart Break: Who Hurts More Man Or Girl?

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Bigtee (m)
Heart Break: Who Hurts More Man Or Girl?
« on: January 25, 2006, 08:33 AM »

Wassup Y'all,
Its Successchild again. True story here. Heart break: Who hurts more. Take this two true-life stories. The names and location have been modified to avoid any complications.

Case I: Armanda loves her bobo. she had been nursing the day he'll ask her hand in marriage. But on day, she went to but him a surpise gift, but, in getting home,  she found him, in hot S*X with her best friend shamelessly right there in the living room. She throw the gift at him, goes home and as the tears flow down her eyes, she now the relationship flow away for good just like the tears,

Case II: Joaquin, a young working class hhustler, has a relatively good paying job (hoping that one day e go betta). His chic Jessie, realy digs him (but because of greed or inpatience) she can't wait till he "Hammers"(make it big). One day after the went out for lunch, Joaquin and Jessie were at the bus stop, it became cloudy, THEN a black BMW 7series parks and offers Jessie a ride,  she accepts. Joaquin is Stunned. As the car drives of he know the relationship is driving out of his life and just then the rain start, pouring heavily on him,

Real talk y'all. How hurts more.

I need your feedback.
Holla

Successchild
weev (f)
Re: Heart Break: Who Hurts More Guy Or Girl?
« #1 on: January 25, 2006, 11:17 AM »

personally i think men take it harder, girls will go crazy discuss it with their girlfriends work through it. guys keep it inside ,they can't express themself so freely so it eats away inside.
Omalicha (f)
Re: Heart Break: Who Hurts More Guy Or Girl?
« #2 on: January 25, 2006, 01:36 PM »

i realy feel ladies do take more of the heat,am not sayin  this because am a chick but because we re very emotional in dealin with issues like these,most guys just shrug their shoulders and continue with their lives but it becomes an everlastin stigma 4 we ladies especially when d relationship is built on s'''''x.
ldollier (f)
Re: Heart Break: Who Hurts More Guy Or Girl?
« #3 on: January 25, 2006, 11:35 PM »

Quote from: weev on January 25, 2006, 11:17 AM
personally i think men take it harder, girls will go crazy discuss it with their girlfriends work through it. guys keep it inside ,they can't express themself so freely so it eats away inside.

oh word. thats exactly what my psychology professor was saying. because we gurls have means to get over the heart break for example we talk it out with our friends, family members e.t.c, but the guys prefer to keep it to themselves instead of expressing their feelings.
luxoire (f)
Re: Heart Break: Who Hurts More Guy Or Girl?
« #4 on: January 30, 2006, 03:17 PM »

they both hurt more...but they have different ways of handling it..what you should be asking is who gets over it quicker...and i think the girl does...simply because she frees her minds and her emotions..seriously if a guy and a girl are in a relatioship with same amount of love between them, and things have to end, then they will both hurt equally, btu the girl will move on quicker on the inside..the guy might get over it on the outside and get anothwer chick, but on the inside hes still hurting and dreaming of her...

on the other hand, women tend to offer/put more in a relationship than men..so it is generally natural that they hurt more than men Wink
cillalove (f)
Re: Heart Break: Who Hurts More Guy Or Girl?
« #5 on: January 30, 2006, 04:56 PM »

guys will hurt u more, because it's only few of em' that have the gift to care.
snazzydawn (f)
Re: Heart Break: Who Hurts More Guy Or Girl?
« #6 on: January 31, 2006, 12:04 PM »

IMO,it hurts both ways,especially if you loved the person sooooo badly!!!
naijadiva
Re: Heart Break: Who Hurts More Guy Or Girl?
« #7 on: February 01, 2006, 07:20 AM »

Thank you snazzy!  It's going to hurt either way if you love the person, and how quickly you get over it depends on who you are, whether man or woman.
Seun (m)
Re: Heart Break: Who Hurts More Guy Or Girl?
« #8 on: February 01, 2006, 09:39 AM »

Why should you love someone that doesn't love you back?  Unrequited love is like a dream that one must wake up from in order to face reality.  When you are with someone that doesn't appreciate you, you are treated like a servant-girl (or boy) when you should be treated as a queen (or king)!

This common tendency to love someone in an irrational, one-sided way springs from the emotions and is understandable, but it should be treated like a disease and wiped out before it brings one to ruin!
beyunce (f)
Re: Heart Break: Who Hurts More Man Or Girl?
« #9 on: April 10, 2006, 04:46 PM »

well its goes both way both the boy and the girl.
because we are all humans.
Greatpeter (m)
Re: Heart Break: Who Hurts More Man Or Girl?
« #10 on: April 10, 2006, 05:25 PM »

I will say both.
Thagodfada (m)
Re: Heart Break: Who Hurts More Man Or Girl?
« #11 on: April 10, 2006, 05:41 PM »

I'll say it depends on the person involved.
For guys
1. Some guys are quick in finding solace in the arms of another women thereby speeding up the healing process.
2. Some guys are not that fast (or goodlooking Cool) and suffer for a long time

For Ladiez
1. women tend to get more emotionally involved and usually find it hard to trust another guy right away.
kennyluv (m)
Re: Heart Break: Who Hurts More Man Or Girl?
« #12 on: April 11, 2006, 05:15 AM »

well from my experience,the ladies hurt more,my ex girl friend,hurts me reall bad,she came to me one day and told me she is no longer interested,gosh i felt like my world is coming to an end,
Rhodalyn (f)
Re: Heart Break: Who Hurts More Man Or Girl?
« #13 on: April 11, 2006, 06:21 PM »

gals hurt more because we've got tender hearts nt lk da men who've got hearts Lips sealed
snazzydawn (f)
Re: Heart Break: Who Hurts More Man Or Girl?
« #14 on: April 11, 2006, 08:32 PM »

heartbreak?methinks it is the girl.I speak from experience and I speak for myself
curiousNja (f)
Re: Heart Break: Who Hurts More Man Or Girl?
« #15 on: April 12, 2006, 05:33 AM »

It really could go either way. There are some women who bounce back really quickly too.
ThoniaSlim (f)
Re: Heart Break: Who Hurts More Man Or Girl?
« #16 on: April 18, 2006, 05:34 PM »

i think, it depends on the individual involved.
eveseh (f)
Re: Heart Break: Who Hurts More Man Or Girl?
« #17 on: April 22, 2006, 11:43 AM »

girl hurts more than men,
eveseh (f)
Re: Heart Break: Who Hurts More Man Or Girl?
« #18 on: April 23, 2006, 11:25 AM »

girl hurts more Cry Cry Cry Cry Cry Cry Cry Cry
babymine (f)
Re: Heart Break: Who Hurts More Man Or Girl?
« #19 on: April 23, 2006, 07:05 PM »

Yeah, the gurls hurt more and are always crying.  Cry
eveseh (f)
Re: Heart Break: Who Hurts More Man Or Girl?
« #20 on: April 23, 2006, 07:08 PM »

yea,we hurts more Cry Cry Cry Cry
babymine (f)
Re: Heart Break: Who Hurts More Man Or Girl?
« #21 on: April 23, 2006, 07:13 PM »

But we refuse to be hurt anymore! lol  Grin  Cheesy Grin
eveseh (f)
Re: Heart Break: Who Hurts More Man Or Girl?
« #22 on: April 23, 2006, 07:17 PM »

yea,we aint going to get hurt again,


let the boys feel the pain this time,they are sucks these boys Sad
babymine (f)
Re: Heart Break: Who Hurts More Man Or Girl?
« #23 on: April 23, 2006, 07:22 PM »

 Grin  Grin  Grin
eveseh (f)
Re: Heart Break: Who Hurts More Man Or Girl?
« #24 on: April 23, 2006, 07:27 PM »

Quote from: babymine on April 23, 2006, 07:22 PM
Grin Grin Grin

they are,ahahahahah
Rhodalyn (f)
Re: Heart Break: Who Hurts More Man Or Girl?
« #25 on: April 23, 2006, 07:30 PM »


ma heart hs never bn broken! Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Kiss Kiss Kiss
eveseh (f)
Re: Heart Break: Who Hurts More Man Or Girl?
« #26 on: April 23, 2006, 07:40 PM »

Quote from: Rhodalyn on April 23, 2006, 07:30 PM
ma heart hs never bn broken! Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Kiss Kiss Kiss

you are lucky,but prays it must not happend to you
because it hurts like hell
Rhodalyn (f)
Re: Heart Break: Who Hurts More Man Or Girl?
« #27 on: April 23, 2006, 07:40 PM »

awwwwwwwwww Sad Sad Sad Sad Sad Sad Sad U've hd Ur's broken before right? Sad Sad Sad Sad
babymine (f)
Re: Heart Break: Who Hurts More Man Or Girl?
« #28 on: April 23, 2006, 08:05 PM »

yes. She has.  Cry
Rhodalyn (f)
Re: Heart Break: Who Hurts More Man Or Girl?
« #29 on: April 23, 2006, 08:08 PM »

awwwwwwwwwwwwww hw sad! Sad Sad Sad Sad Sad Sad Sad didnt she see it comin? she should av broken up wit him first! Sad Sad
Ashiwaju (m)
Re: Heart Break: Who Hurts More Man Or Girl?
« #30 on: April 23, 2006, 11:45 PM »

Well, its not about the sex. it depends on the emotion although girls are believed to have a weaker heart by the nature of their existence but you find some emotional men aswell unless you no get heart.

HEart BReak na  Heart Break , he no get any other name and unless love is not attached even though na money or material things dey attached, he still dey pain.
chinani (f)
Re: Heart Break: Who Hurts More Man Or Girl?
« #31 on: April 24, 2006, 12:11 AM »

I think it's the woman b/c they have their heart in it more. Just my opinion. And my experience.
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