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romantic (m)
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hi happy people,
my fiancee wants us to live together on campus and i'm not too comfortable with that but she says: we will both learn more about ourselves and how to live together when eventually we get married
Well i for one don't surpport such.
i'm just wondering if it always works out between both parties
what do you think?
i need your views about this
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rikkyjen (m)
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thats whats known as live-in lovers...morally,the society frowns at it...Religiously,the holy book screams and frowns at it,Ethically the world will scream,frown and shout.Co-habitationdoes not worth it because u as d guy will get worn out of the girl,and there is this tendency that u guys wont get married because u have seen it all....also if u break haer heart because of some stuffs...na swear d girl go use follow you!!!!...so don't agree to her proposition!!!  |
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xchian (m)
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brother,do not listen to her,because u gna find out so much u dnt know about her,when u finally do its not gna be funny.so jst keep the relatnship at the level it is now.NO FOLLOW WOMAN MOUTH OH.
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snazzydawn (f)
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girl,the guy is just trying to take advantage of you!!!don't consent to his proposal.If he wants to marry you,let him do the honorable thing by waiting till he is ready for marriage;remember,a man cannot buy what he can borrow!!!
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chillin (f)
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if u break haer heart because of some stuffs...na swear d girl go use follow you!!!!...
hahahahaha lol lol how funny can this get!! lol lol |
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papermoon (f)
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in my opinion,i don't think students on campuses should live together.whats the point?more often than not,no matter how in love you guys are, living in one anothers pocket all the time will get tiring.and from what i know it presents problems on both sides,from the guy its a case of well..WHY BUY THE COW WHEN YOU CAN GET THE MILK FOR FREE?and for the girl..more often than not,she will beleive the guy kind of ows her something as her status of MORE THAN A GIRLFRIEND LESS THAN A WIFE STATUS.and heaven forbid something goes wrong..i don't know,ive just seen too many campus mr and mrs situations end in disaster.its better to take things easy,enjoy the moment,yeah spend some weekends together..AND BELEIVE ME..IF I AS A WOMAN TELL MY MAN THAT I THINK WE SHOULD MOVE IN TOGETHER ON CAMPUS...NA LIE..ITS NOT BECAUSE LOVE IS SHACKING ME..ITS BECAUSE I want to CLOSE MARK HIM...but hey..thats my opinion...
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katherinae (f)
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romantic, y the rush, since u love this woman and want to marry her, then try and persuade her that it might not be such a good idea. tell her that u will be worried that she might not want to marry u if she found out about ur habits such as clippin ur fingernails in bed, peeing around the toilet seat, leavin ur clothes on the floor, leavin dirty dishes in the sink, and the many other bad habits u might have  so by convincing her u can actually make her think that it was her idea to not live together in the first place. so basically gross her out of the idea. |
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MP007 (m)
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ethically wrong or right?
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$$Rhino
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live-in-puccy-dickyyyyy the babe wants a free accomodation and don't know how to slam it down |
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snazzydawn (f)
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yea, they will both benefit from it. The girl-free accomodation, the guy- free shagging.
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$$Rhino
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I am so sure that the poster is not asking for the moral, cultural or religious consequencies, i am sure it is all because the bros want to have her babe and still do some runzzzzzz, Poster, don't mind the babe jare, she wan spoil show, God no go gree for am
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Sonye (f)
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yea, they will both benefit from it. The girl-free accomodation, the guy- free shagging.
you are right there bros. And to top it up, no be everytime condon go dey on stand-by so we will be talking about series of D and C's as well |
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snazzydawn (f)
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I am not a bros abeg @ sinye
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Configur (m)
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TO EACH HIS OWN
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A-40 (m)
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Na accommodation problem |
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