Are White Guys More Romantic Than Black Guys?

Seun, thanks for the welcome.

The two white guys I dated were actually quite different from one another in terms of romance.  One was all about buying things, he bought me a dozen roses for no particular reason one time.  There were other things as well, and it just made me uncomfortable for him to constantly be buying me things.  It felt like he was trying to buy my love.  The other guy was entirely unromantic, he didn't so much as hold open the door for me to walk through it.  He was just entirely inconsiderate about most everything.

My current boyfriend has been romantic in other ways, but he's also much more considerate.  When we first started dating, and sometimes now as well, he would send me an e-mail just to say something entirely unimportant.  It just let me know that he was thinking about me.  He was gone visiting family for two weeks and I didn't get to see him so he called every night, when he got back he brought me a teddy bear and a box of chocolates.  It was still a store bought gift, but it was different than the last guy, it was more simplistic, it seemed more real.  A dozen roses on a whim is just too much.  My current guy also pays for dinner everytime we go out, which is not guaranteed when you're dating an American guy of any race.  He is very traditional by American standards, but I really appreciate it.  He's a guy who still acts like a guy, many American men seem to have lost that ability.

I think the romance level really depends on the individual and how motivated they are to be romantic, I also believe that it depends on how receptive they think the girl is.  In any case, Romance fades over the years so if you expect to have a lasting relationship I hope you are searching for something more than romance. 

I'll agree with that statement, perhaps I should rephrase my thoughts.  Romance changes as the years go by and I think that perhaps the gestures that most people deem to be romantic at this point will seem much less important in the long run.  I agree however that in a good relationship there will always be some form of romance.

well i don't think love is what keeps you going after so long a time in marriage, love to me as always been the icing on the cake not the  cake it self, the icibg makes the cake look nice but not the cake, you need companionship and trust and understand and friendship to make it across that great river og marriage, something the nigerian man knows about that the white man does not know.

hmm i will have to say majority of white men r more romantic than black men. But it don't really matter about the race cause ull meet white guys who r romantic and sum r not
the same with black guys some r romantic and sum r not.

It really depends on the man not really his race. But majorty yeah the white men win that

When your gbola is smaller than the next dude you have to compensate by being romantic. You are the bottom of the food chain or is it sex chain. as for me "Size ain't a problem" so i show how romantic I am when I'm pulling her hair and smacking her a$$ and making her legs twitch . Those women who go to jails for conjugal visits don't do it because the man is/was romantic

To hell with flowers, expensive dinners and botanical gardens! rather spend my money feeding the needy or volunteering at the local shelter

White Guys Are More ROMANTIC In Public
But For Me Black Guys Are More Romantic "Generally"

white guys can never be romantic than black guys because black guys can be romantic when they want to be

black guys romantic ke
white guys r more romantic o
the way a white guy treats his girl
u'll feel in heaven then later feel hell
but at least u feel heaven small

for black guys u'll feel hell all through

In ma opinion, white guys are more romantic
- black guys wants to be baby sat while white guys wants to baby sit u
- black guys want u to cook for them while white guys would love to cook for you, learn or at least take u out
- black guys wants to own u, white guys wants u to feel good bout ursef
- black guys don't really want to show u that they love u but white guys would shower u with love and flowers
- both guys are lazy especially black guys, don't want to do nuthin and want u to provide for em

still love ma black guys, give em props when it comes to the bedroom but am very picky when it comes to em!

Busta I don't know how old you are, or the kind of guys you date who "don't want to do nuthin and want u to provide for em" Most black males I know work very hard and don't wait for any woman to provide for them!

Some Afrikan people need a gunshot for da fuckery up in here.
 

Stop the jungle fever and be proud of our culture.

CULTURE PEOPLE CULTURE, white people tend to be more creative, but if u love a brother no amount of romance can make u want anything else no matter how romantic he white guy is.

If whites are so romantic why do more white girls date/sleep with black guys than white guys sleeping with black girls.?. White girls know something you naija girls don't know/appreciate. 

lauryn when you get some good d*ck doesn't it feel romantic 

That's not good d*ck then, I could loan you mine, but you gotta pay me

I see alot of my sistas have tried white men!WOW! I have never tried one in my life but now that I have read this I am considering it. How do you deal with the sex? I know they are smaller than black men.I'm not into that gentle stuff,how can my husband give me flowers and chocolates but can't lay the "pipe".I think I would lose respect for him,cause of my needs not being met in the bedroom.