I Love My Husband Dearly, But I Am Attracted To My Work Colleague !

Sparta,

Well done. This was the same point I was trying to convey to her. I am glad it is coing from a woman. It is not wise in some cases to stand and fight, you would find things a lot easlier if you were to leave the presence of temptation. Like I said, she has not told us why she is not close to her husband, she has to be if not all sprts of crazy ideas would come into her mind. I used myslef as an example. i was away from my family for months and believe me, evenm when I spoke to the mrs more than 5times a day, it did not take away the temptation that was around. It too a good christian to advice that it was not wise for me to be away from my family for so long especially as I know that the devil has a funny way of attacking one with crazy ideas. I quite my job and moved back to where my family is, and I have promised myslef that no amount of money would make me stay away for that long.

The devil is very very powerful and his schemes knows no end. Dont tempt him ok.

i know that a lotta people are tempted in different ways, noone is above being tempted.i wanna believe thats whats happening to you.my advice:FLEE.run as fast as your legs can carry you.

This is a clear case of "THE LACK OF SELF-CONTROL". There's a saying dat says : Power is nothing without control. For the mere fact dat she is unable to control her feelings and emotions simply tells us dat She's aint matured yet to be married.  Imagine after a year of marriage!, and is tripping for someone else? Pardon my use of words Sheer sacrilege and abomination in naija

I can see that privates sorry Nick is always on ya mind cause you havnt had one good privates for a long time. Just go get your self a dildo do some pumping you be ok.

But ya hussy been far away is another question may this is how you want it.

Adultery is a sin against God, Don't do it plz,  Just make sure you are for your husband alone.

Maybe you are just missing your husband. Abeg hold body. He will soon come over

@Tola
Am quite happy that you have figured somethings out that can help and you have taken a bold step.LDR has alwayz been headache but i pray that Almighty God will see you through.

militia & desogdi, u guys dnt hv to be so harsh on her, 4 goodness dis tin can happen to any1, we r all human. Its a normal n natural tin hv feelings 4 a person but it all depends on how u handle it.
Tola77, u just hv to take it easy, maybe its 'cos of your hsuband's absence. Well all i can say is be focused, u won't gain anytin frm commitn adultery n always hv in mind dat your husband loves you.Gd luck

forget about the bible here honey.

its all about doing the right thing baby,u know this is not right deep down ,dont u?

you are a slut!!! end of discussion

Dear Tola,

I hope you can sift through the numerous responses and pick relevant advise. I was shocked at some of the responses but had to remind myself that we all cant think alike.

There are many Nick's out there and if you fall into temptation for this one man the door is now open for many more opportunities for you to fall by the wayside. No man is worth sinning for and ruining your marriage for.

Yes we are all sometimes feel attracted to other people but the little voice in our head usually reminds you how much you love your other half and the attraction just fades into oblivion.

Can you take a trip down to Nigeria even if it is for a long weekend?  This will revitalise the union and remind you of how wonderful your man is. Try and call your husband often, place his picture everywhere you can and try and avoid the other man.

I do sincerely hope that you and your husband are united soon. The Lord is your strength.

who the fu.ck resurrected this over one year old thread naw?!

Is unfortunate, that human society has digenerated this low. If not for loss of values this poster would not have given this tought a  chance. I now vehemently believe in the view that "those who marry where they no not love will eventualy love where they do not marry"

I realy do not think you need our advice to decide on whether to conclude what you have started.if you need out but don't know how, kindly quit the job.  

i wish this poster the best of luck in her moment of decision.

this is a typical definition of female vulnerability. your husband is out there thinkin about u, u are there wishin a guys di-k in your cunt, i am so sure u and your husband never had a good time together, cos if u did u sure would respect it and respect him for the rest of your life. but u see, women just cant stay without tots of dicks, at times i wonder if thats just your default setting. anyway sha, just resist the di-k and flee from it,n  just incase u need a di-k to hold on to, just get a snap of your husbands privates and masturbate with it whenever u feel the sensation of havin nicks privates in your pu$$y alright, and i guess that would keep u for some time until u feel the sensation again. cheers

i understand your feelings baby. just follow your mind. if it where to be your man he will not think before he follow his mind. life is too shout enjoy urself while it last. dont mind the selfish men.