I Love My Husband Dearly, But I Am Attracted To My Work Colleague !

@poster if this true well your husband is your husband no matter what happens u guys are maried unlike your co worker at work. Trust me He is just going to ve sex with u and dump u at the end and you will regret it tust me am also a man.

u know wat's right, so pray to do the right thing

@Tola77,
Abeg no try am ooooo.Think abt the curse following such an act.Proverbs 31:10

@poster,
you know its bad already and you are feeling guilty already so what do u want here,you need somebody to say cheat or do not cheat.

Davidylan
something tells me Nick is white. That may explain the sudden "attraction" especially since he is openly flirting with you in return.
Enjoy urself breaking your 1 yr old marriage, i'm sure Nick just wants to feel the experience of laying a black woman before he moves on to his white princesses.

Am not sure i like the tone of your comment, if you wanna bring race into the matter saying a white nick only wants to have fun, fair enough he may want just fun but so does Segun,Dapo,emeka and co , a white guy does not only chat a black woman for fun, and then return to his white princess, my take is black woman no be princess, irrespective of race love can and does happen and prevail hun.please use common sense oh hun,

@Tola77 - I think its a bit rich for you to admit that you are considering cheating on your husband, then getting offended for being called a tart. What did you expect? A cuddle to make you feel better? Maybe "Nick" can do that. Or maybe u want understanding for the "stress" u must be going through? Eh?
You MUST be a tart, or at least close to becoming one, otherwise why would you deny it at the start of your post? or why would you attempt to justify the way u feel by bringing up what your Husband MAY be doing at work?

U need to get real!

TOLA must have banged the hell out of nick by now, those weak comments she made last yr cannot convince a 3yr old. She knew she was gona do it first time she set her bitchy eyes on him. Most women have this problem anyway, thats why dey do shiiiiiittttttt!!!!!!

First to all the "IDIOTS"   that sent their post and called her names and act like they are saints when we know they would do worse than her,

As for you My Dear, you are married and God does not like Adultery, all you have to do is ask God for strength to overcome this because is not just easily said and don just the way some fools are running their mouth her.

  There must be some one in your family who you are close to that you can talk to like your mom,your sister or you brother just try and confide in some one and then ask God for strength and don't listen to all these fools and hypocrites that just come on Nairaland to look for who they would call names,

The Lord is your strength

If I may chip in my bit. No matter what a man looks like, if you truly love your husband you will never, I repeat, you will never have a crush on another man to an extent of flaunting your sexual gestures at the man. Let us be realistic here, you want him to ride on top of you probably because you think he's hotter than your husband and you think you can't be caught.
Your marriage is only a year old and I suppose should be fresh within your memory unfortunately the case isn't like that. I saw you mentioned in the latter part of your post that you were wondering if he's having the same problem too in Nigeria, are you trying to justify your sexual exploits? My pities for you are high and I wish you can see where you're riding to. You're on your way to ruining your marriage but that utterly depends on if your husband finds out. You have been married for 1 year and have only spent 6 months at your work place and you already have a fantasy you want to lick in bed? Wow! Your husband is so unlucky. Asking for advice here shows your deliberate weakness and you can't get help here. Think about what you wanna do and go ahead to explore it to the maximum - Cash that one in.

Let's say you had the fun and somehow you get pregnant, what'd you do? Have abortion? What's your conscience going to tell you? Heartlessly stupid and a pitiful sob is what you are, I don't want to use the "W" word on you but you act like one.

Lusting after him already, you have commited sin all you have to do is ask God for forgiveness, and also pray that God should deliver you fromthe temptation of the so called Nick,  Adultery is a sin,  No matter how small it might seem, there is a road seem to be good, smooth but the end thereof is destruction,  That road you are about going through would only bring destruction my dear friend don't go that path