I Love My Husband Dearly, But I Am Attracted To My Work Colleague !

I wonder if you know wot my business is?

Wetin be this,your keyboard no complain?

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LOL u people are funny

lady i think the demon of promiscuity has caughtup with you ,vanity, vanity vanity is his favourite saint,its like butterflies wings onese touch they dont get off the ground ,his favourite adage is ''hide,hide, mess na im sweet pass'' .my sister relocate, get a transfer ,resign or better still fleeeeeeeeeeeeeee, from experience if you hang around that long ,the dude will pounding you in no time and you are going to enjoy it, while hating yourself for your action and then you go on and on and on until you are caught.ones i was in such a mess and i ended up pounding my junior coulleague until i was caught by another couleague who happens to be a nympho,they have both fucked me dry that there is no sperm left for my poor wife.who knows who might catch us next,so my sister if you have respect for the devine institution called marriage and you love your life fleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee, !!!!!!!!! i failed in my own test i might pay for it someday so sealed your wet pants and use your head and fleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee   :'(you will smile at last

you don talk my mind finish. Only 1 yr and u are attracted to Nick with the caucasian nose. It seems you want to divorce your husband and go with Nick by the look of things and u are already regreting why you rushed into marriage in the first place. pele. 


Sharrrraaap! 

Tola, are u sure u are one year marreid
why is he not woth u
do u suspect him??

how did u meet him??

where???

wat type of wedding???

pls respond,


meanwhile,
binble says, my son if sinners entice thee, consenbt thou not, so dont entice your sef, stop dressing to pelase him and talk more with your hubby,

remember the marriage vow,

GOD BE WIOTH U

Tola its not yet a crime if your only physically attracted to him as long as you love your husband dearly.
but if youve got his pictures like a motion picture in your head then and you feel like being in his arms and,
then you need help. then it could be said that your attracted to your husband but love your colleague dearly,

i know how these comments can make one feel esp wen its smth that means a lot to you.  but my dia u just take these things wit a pinch of salt,  you've to realise that Nairaland is just like Nigeria, at least 40% of members wld be whisked away to an institution if they ever had any psychlogical evaluation.

More seriously, u don't need any supernatural powers to avoid the errors that your being attracted to another guy aside your husband can lead to. U need to take each day at a time and tackle the feelings day by day with determination. It wont just zap away but grradually and steadily, i believe u can win the battle,  thats in your mind

@tola

So the guy is Naija , he will fu ck you then dump you like a piece of trash, then dispose you afterward.

And don't you realize Nigerians abroad knows each other, everyone are so connected that it will shock you if this guy happens to know your husband(This na small world) , nothing is secretive especially among this so called Nigerians.

As a married woman are you suppose to be brushing on another guy ***Rubbish******

You are a disgrace to be called a Married Woman .

I have a feeling you will soon sleep with this guy , you will soon feel into his trap

just 1yr of marriage and you want to start cheating , btw did someone force you to marry knowing you weren't already

Majority of them OOOOO , especially those ones living abroad

_{Laughing my farted ass off}

I can't laugh anymore

OBOATIOKO= FERLIE which is a guy

LOL, i don't know but his nickname is PERVERT, that was what we gave him

@Omo-Eko
Shame on you ! for talking to another woman like that. Atleast she got the decency to open up b/4 she f*ucks the guy. Most of our Nigerian women are not like that. They would have forked the guy about 15 times b/4 they start feeling guilty. Every man and woman, married or not goes thru the same thing Tola is going thru. Especially when they are long distant from each other. Body is not made of steel. It's so easy for you to glorify your hubby now but let's wait after a year and see what happens. Don't crucify her for being human ! Get real and wake up from your dream and smell the coffee. Do you know what your husband is doing right now??  Never say Never !

@Tola
You have done the right thing, baby . But please DO NOT go to bed with this guy !! It is human to feel the way you feel right now but it is also human to curb yourself. I'm proud of you that you have the decency to feel concern about your attraction to this privates ( Oh sorry, Nick) but please becareful. A good man will not want to destroy another man's home ! You are one of a kind Nigerian woman, most of our women think after they would have slept with the guy. They think with their booty !

@ogbdcm
I'm not the guy. I don't fool around with married women !

It seems u re just horney and missing your husband. Its natural to feel attracted especially if the guy is handsome and u see him everyday while u husband is absent and there is nobody to cuddle. However as much as this feeling is natural and strong, God has blessed us wit a strong ablity to say no thats wat differentiates us from animals.
Marriage is an institution that includes God in the picture, if u break the contract u not only have a legal case but a moral one. sorry to sound preachy but i will advice u to hold on wait for your husband.