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mukina2 (f)
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@ richyblack, What else do you expect an unmarried girl to say? Its all part of the charade, so much noise making about 50-50. Let them marry and start crying about 50-50 first then we can take them seriously.  How can you cook for your children and refuse to cook for your husband, insisting it must be 50-50? Does it make economic sense to cook for your children and expect your husband to go cook his own separate pot just because u must maintain this borrowed western archaic idea of women liberation? unmarried girl yeah but no way am i going to be used  if he wants to eat let him find the kitchen econimic sense, physics sense biology sense i don't care let him go find a slave @ Islander  |
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Islander (f)
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unmarried girl yeah but no way am i going to be used if he wants to eat let him find the kitchen econimic sense, physics sense biology sense i don't care let him go find a slave @ Islander Ok, I was going to post, then I changed my mind, Go girl, BTW, can my Tally cook? Because I hate a useless  |
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RichyBlacK (m)
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After they'll start complaining that black men prefer white girls. una too talk sef, lets see how many of these women will dare walk into their marriages and tell their husbands to go hit Dunkin donuts for breakfast every morning. Notice how the "feminazi" wannabes are mainly unmarried girls/women. The married ones are too smart to buy into all these "am i a village girl/chef" nonsense.
Even the white girls they are trying to copy are busy struggling to learn to cook your african dishes to keep their african boyfriends!
You're right, many of them go online, get Naija recipes, and surprise their mates with it While all these feminazi-wannabees are retrogressing to the tired and failed ways 1960's feminism. Rubbish! |
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Islander (f)
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What the heck does Feminism has to do with Men who cannot or are too damn lazy to help themselves around the kitchen???
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Omo Eko (f)
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After they'll start complaining that black men prefer white girls. The only food a white woman will cook for you are Corn fried chicken Fries So are this food !!!!!!!shio The only black mand running after a white woman is David |
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davidylan (m)
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What the heck does Feminism has to do with Men who cannot or are too damn lazy to help themselves around the kitchen???
where did you learn that one from? Where are the men who are too lazy to help themselves in the kitchen? I cook virtually all foods my mom ever cooked, i taught my female cousins to make meatpies naija style 6 months ago, i bake and know how to keep a kitchen sparkling clean all thanks to mama. Most men i know have no problems whatsoever in the kitchen and certainly need no help from women who think marriage should be all about satisfying their every whims. I hear women say they should be pampered and spoilt and i laugh my head off! So men don't deserve to be spoilt too? When you ask a woman what she wants in a man, she quickly reels off a whole dictionary of adjectives, just ask that she be able to boil ordinary water and she immediately starts talking about 50:50, pamperiing and spoiling. A woman who can cook is no slave. She is an asset and a crown to her man. |
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RichyBlacK (m)
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The only food a white woman will cook for you are Corn fried chicken Fries So are this food !!!!!!!shio The only black mand running after a white woman is David Omo Eko, you never see blondie fry akara before? I've seen and tasted and she did a great job. |
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davidylan (m)
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The only food a white woman will cook for you are
Corn
fried chicken
Fries
Nonsense, maybe the lazy ones you know. The only black mand running after a white woman is David Yet more unsubstantiated rumors. Even if it is true can you blame me? When all i hear from my country women is 50-50 and feminazism! |
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RichyBlacK (m)
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where did you learn that one from? Where are the men who are too lazy to help themselves in the kitchen? I cook virtually all foods my mom ever cooked, i taught my female cousins to make meatpies naija style 6 months ago, i bake and know how to keep a kitchen sparkling clean all thanks to mama.
Most men i know have no problems whatsoever in the kitchen and certainly need no help from women who think marriage should be all about satisfying their every whims. I hear women say they should be pampered and spoilt and i laugh my head off! So men don't deserve to be spoilt too?
When you ask a woman what she wants in a man, she quickly reels off a whole dictionary of adjectives, just ask that she be able to boil ordinary water and she immediately starts talking about 50:50, pamperiing and spoiling.
A woman who can cook is no slave. She is an asset and a crown to her man.
Davidylan, you yarn correct my brother! |
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Omo Eko (f)
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Omo Eko, you never see blondie fry akara before? I've seen and tasted and she did a great job.
Keep dreaming The only food u will get from her are Ready Made |
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Islander (f)
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where did you learn that one from? Where are the men who are too lazy to help themselves in the kitchen? I cook virtually all foods my mom ever cooked, i taught my female cousins to make meatpies naija style 6 months ago, i bake and know how to keep a kitchen sparkling clean all thanks to mama.
More power to you "Chef". Maybe you can earn some extra bucks assisting Emeril. My brothers are excellent cooks, mama did an excellent job. So you aren't the only male who can turn "water into wine" in the kitchen. Thank God I can handle my own, because won't want to have to sprain someone's ankle now, I can cook, and very well, he better can too, or else. |
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blackbeaut (f)
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I am happily married and all this crap about cooking doesnt arise in my home, so don't think that all the female bloggers here are not married!
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davidylan (m)
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I can cook, and very well, he better can too, or else.
or else what?  you'll serve him with divorce papers? |
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Islander (f)
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or else what? you'll serve him with divorce papers? For not being able to cook? Tell me what judge would award me 50-50 for such idiocy?? |
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davidylan (m)
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I'm wondering what the "or else" part meant.
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Razorr (f)
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Blackbeauty, does your husband cook?  |
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blackbeaut (f)
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Blackbeauty, does your husband cook? He sure those, he doesnt see it as an issue, that's why am really surprised at the response from the guys in the house!  |
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Islander (f)
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I'm wondering what the "or else" part meant.
It's my secret, @topic, My mother's eldest daughter works at 4 hospitals as a Nursing Director. That leaves little or time for household chores including cooking. Her husband does 99.9% of the work. He doesn't complain, afterall he dares not. There were times when people started rumours about her not being to cook, thus her hussy sweating out in the kitchen. Far from the truth. We dragged into the kitchen by age 8. I just hate when guys start generalising that ladies should be restricted to the kitchen. I know I won't be, |
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I-man (m)
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I just hate when guys start generalising that ladies should be restricted to the kitchen. I know I won't be, That's not by any stretch of the imagination,the argument here.We are taking issue with that rare specie of women,who can't cook and won't cook.Nobody in his right mind marries a woman solely for her culinary skills but we are saying that such skills are crucial for the success of a marriage |
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Islander (f)
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That's not by any stretch of the imagination,the argument here.We are taking issue with that rare specie of women,who can't cook and won't cook.Nobody in his right mind marries a woman solely for her culinary skills but we are saying that such skills are crucial for the success of a marriage
There is a difference between NOT being able to cook, and cannot cook, yes Sir I heard you loud and clear. Just said, that some women may not be able to cook as often as they like, as work load and other factors may prevent them to. I am not an advocate for laziness. We made sure our brother left his once lazy girlfriend who did nothing by drive up and down the island in what she didn't purchase. However, men need to also desist from this primitive way of thinking that their hands were made for only "smacking ladies", "playing with their privates", "maneuvering a remote" et al. They can use them (their hands) for cooking too, PS> I-Man don't let me have to go take my pills now |
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moondust (m)
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I'll have nothing to do with a woman who cannot cook and is proud to say it.
Pardon me folks, but my kids are not goin to grow up eating iya Basira or Mr
Biggs. no way!
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I-man (m)
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He sure those, he doesnt see it as an issue, that's why am really surprised at the response from the guys in the house! This is bewildering! What has that got to do with women who can't cook at all.In your case,you can cook and so can your husband.In that sense,your situation doesn't apply here.It would apply if you couldn't cook and/or had no interest in cooking.I'm sure your husband would take issues with that. |
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tommylee (m)
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To me a woman has no value if she cannot cook the only thing that can help her,is if she is good in bed.
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amaikama (m)
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moondust, that what the ladies in the house want oo!! they want liberation from kitchen if it possible for them to send the men to the kitchen they will but unfortunately God will not permit them to carry out their evil plan.
cheers.
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davidylan (m)
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This is bewildering! What has that got to do with women who can't cook at all.In your case,you can cook and so can your husband.In that sense,your situation doesn't apply here.It would apply if you couldn't cook and/or had no interest in cooking.I'm sure your husband would take issues with that.
i'm begining to wonder at the many off point responses here too. The topic is about women who wont/think it is beneath them to learn to cook. It has nothing to do with men who choose to cook with their wives. |
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HillaryX
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@ Nairaland.
ENOUGH OF THESE CHEAP BLACKMAIL ON NIGERIAN WOMEN.
Why can't guys just admit the fact that they want to retain a culture of who takes care of me when mama is gone?
This is Africa, just like the rest of the world. Cooking is not womens' primary objective on earth after f**k her spouse overnight as some heartles men will claim is very important again. Abi no bi so?
This is for the women in the House :Big ups, we are getting there. Sooner or later they will find their space whether they like it or not" Nge Nge.
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amaikama (m)
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come to think of it, how are u all looking at this issue first? is it scriptural or societal?
please need reply!!
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blackbeaut (f)
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This is bewildering! What has that got to do with women who can't cook at all.In your case,you can cook and so can your husband.In that sense,your situation doesn't apply here.It would apply if you couldn't cook and/or had no interest in cooking.I'm sure your husband would take issues with that.
At the same time, has it ever occured to you that there are women who DON'T like cooking and therefore can't cook? How is that a crime? Am lucky that i love cooking, but it could have been the other way round and i don't think know my husband would not love me less. |
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moondust (m)
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moondust, that what the ladies in the house want oo!! they want liberation from kitchen if it possible for them to send the men to the kitchen they will but unfortunately God will not permit them to carry out their evil plan.
cheers.
AMEN!!! It will not work for them o! this evil conspiracy to upset the natural order of things. May all the ladies who do not want to cook for their men be subjected to mamaput eternally and may their best friends start cooking for their men and to all those who love cooking, BIG uPS! much love to you 'because u're REAL women!! |
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Islander (f)
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Am lucky that i love cooking, but it could have been the other way round and i don't think know my husband would not love me less.
You've got yourself a Man Not A Manicou, Most of these men you hear crying about women who cannot cook, don't mind them. They went blindly and fell in love because she maybe had long straight blonde hair, or money, etc, so now that the food thingy getting to them, they are here brawling, Que las ti ma, |
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