What Is The Value Of A Woman Who Can't Cook?

the way you go about hounding me on every topic NOT to contribute but to look for something to shoot at me is really amazing. One would think i stole ur biro. Where are the "every topics"? Can you produce them please?

No appologies to those who are "yawning", they are the type Calvin Hernton perfectly described in his book!

Back to topic o jere david. I wonder why the color of my girlfriend's skin is eating u all so much that was all not less than 3 women saw fit to comment on. There are better issues to discuss besides me and my preferences. please spare me the drivel.

madam please the topic above did not include david's name. its an anonymous forum not an extended family network. please ignore me and my skin color and contribute to the topic if you have anything to say.

Re: What Is The Value Of A Woman Who Can't Cook

That is the topic, i don't see anywhere that it refers to David, his blog or his preferences. Biko please stick to that and leave me alone. I did not steal your biro.

do you make it your number 1 priority to always miss the point in every thread or do you find it amusing? this thread aint about ur EX-girlfriend and really, i'm sure no one gives a rat's tail (haha,  rat's tail) about whatever or whoever you're dating. don't try to make this thread about you, CUS IT AIN'T. Maybe it's you inferiority complex that thinks you dting a white woman will have any effect on us who don't even know your behind, wtf do any of us care? well, i'mma speak for myself and say boo, i don't a damn. i don't know you or care to know you either.
b.t.w.---> nobody really cares about this your Calvin Hernton so kill that. and if you feel whatever he said is that important, then let him come and say it for himself.  he wrote his book with his opinions so stop sharing that as a fact.

**okay, i'm waiting for you to come again and totally miss the point** {rolling eyes hissssssssssssss}

hmm, so you think you're getting the point too?

no one said anything is wrong with a woman cooking for her husband, but the problem is using a woman's cooking ability to determine her value, GOODNESS!! IT'S CLEARLY ON THE HEADING OF THIS THREAD. what units are we using to measure this "value"? dollars? grams? woman? WHAT?!!
if you say it's also an extra for a woman to be able to cook, then doesn't it mean that a woman = "100% woman", that is, the total value of what a "woman" is capable of being. and then being able to cook would be= "100% woman that can cook therefore her man should be greatful and not feel that he got a damn maid" woman.

the bolded is the "extra" as you said, or did i get you wrong?

your username says it all. 


i wish you the cook of your dreams.  a wife to make your belly happier than obasanjo's or baba ajascos.


j/k.



now you're talking. lol
i think everyone should learn to cook. period. male or female.  right?

na wa ooo!!!actually according to my observation female folk that can't cook usually have other attributes like laziness,refusal to take on a responsibility ,being dirty and so many negative dispositions.definately no man wants to come home every night worrying if he will get to eat something palatable.so i think it is important that a girl knows how to cook.this isnt about value but bride price will definately be drastically reduced if a girl cannot crank up something edible.and like they say"the way to a mans heart is through his stomach.abi.cheers

lets not decieve ourselves but rather, we should be sincere with ourselves. what is the value of a nigerian woman who cannot cook? who will do the cooking for her? the house help? if yes, then may be she should do the other duties.it is said that  the his  shortest way to a man`s heart is through the stomach.that has proved right in ages past. a woman who can't cook should quikly go and learn before looking for the mr right.

I-man, you dey make me laff - "nappy heads", my hand no dey ooo. Make them no Don-Imus you a beg. 

@aisha2

No intelligent person will take the title of the thread literally.The whole point of the thread is the "value" of a woman who can't cook/won't cook within the context of a relationship,especially a marriage.Our view is that a woman should be able to cook when in such relationships.Do you disagree? 

Women want men who can bring home the bacon,we want women who can cook the bacon.The feminazis want the former but  condemn those who want the latter.Ridiculous.

       

richyblack what kind of statistic is that

@I-Man, Nappy headed what?? Boy don't let me beat that black out of you, 

@Davidylan, question: So when did this White craze of yours begin? Pre or Post-Nigeria? (JUST CURIOUS)
Papi, relax. You are NOT the only black brother who has dated white gals. To each it own.Whatever rocks your boat, go for it.


 Listen, if you were in NYC, white girls wouldn't have cared whether you existed or not.  Seeing that you are locked away in Rocester where a Black brother is an endangered specie, they all just want to get a slice of the "Black Cake", so that when they grow old and are playing Bingo with their friends, they can recall what they did in College. (Trust me I work with their Kids, I hear what they talk about). 

 My class mate got a scholarship to study in Denmark, and he had to literally lock himself away so these white girls could leave him alone.  So relax Papi, it's not even about you, it's about a White woman wanting to Milk a Black Man, .

And please show me the white babe who can make Garri and Egusi, and I will bring forth my Chinese who can make Peleau and Boilin.

Stop deceiving yourself.  I have worked among and been among white chics longer than you have.  The only food they "cook" are Pizza, Lean Cuisine, Mac & Cheese, Progresso, Campbels( boy don't get me started now )

@Topic,
Last time I checked my brothers were cooking like pro's. They would help their wives whenever deemed fit, instead of bringing their butts home expecting to be served. All these men in here crying foul, need to get over their egos and start living in the freaking real world.

@Muki
My Smally am having some technical difficulties, tell Tally I will soon be online

If all women must know how to cook and it is their sole duty in marriage or union with a man, then by all means all men must be rich, it is their sole duty to go and fend for all the needs of the family.

Thus she gives you a fantastic meal and you can show ur gratitude by giving her a big diamond.

After all what's the value of a man, if he can't afford a fabulous life for his woman.

Awwwwwwww.c'mon papi when you gave lectures I have sat down and digested without "complaining", now it's my time you are crying wolf. NO fear at all.

FYI, I am not at all jealous of you for your preference. As I said whatever rocks your boat. Just keep it to yourself, we are growing tired of hearing it. And I won't date or marry a white man if my life depends on it. They stink,

KUDOS Davidylan,  I remain the same yesterday, today and tomorrow,  tata,