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kerenkeke (f)
He Forced Himself On Me
« on: June 11, 2007, 05:52 PM »

This guy i met like two years ago just did the most embarassing thing i will never forget.he has been asking me out despite the fact that we are just friends and he lives in my quaters.i went to talk to him about something and boom,he forced himself on me and started kissing me.he was so brutal and i even got injured on my lip.i just left the house thanking God he did not rape me,now he is asking me to forgive him,please what do i do?
Omo Eko (f)
Re: He Forced Himself On Me
« #1 on: June 11, 2007, 05:54 PM »

Quote from: kerenkeke on June 11, 2007, 05:52 PM
i went to talk to him about something and boom,he forced himself on me and started kissing me.he was so brutal
I can't stop laughing Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy, thi shit is so funny. Then BOOM laughing and rolling on the floor still laughing and can't stop
hailtopsy (m)
Re: He Forced Himself On Me
« #2 on: June 11, 2007, 05:59 PM »

Girl!! avoid d guy like a disease.He probably thot u coming over might be signs that u were being loyal to his government.
A word for you,if u ve strings of likeness give in but if no avoid him and probably tell someone about his escapades.aiight?
ThoniaSlim (f)
Re: He Forced Himself On Me
« #3 on: June 11, 2007, 06:05 PM »

forgive him, but don't go near him or have anything to do with him. you can't be too sure about such men. they might be sorry but there is still a high possibility of such incident being repeated again.
yoddy (m)
Re: He Forced Himself On Me
« #4 on: June 11, 2007, 06:15 PM »

Hmmm, this brings about the question that's always on my mind: should girls go visiting  a guy, whose overtures she has turned down over and over again, alone?
ThoniaSlim (f)
Re: He Forced Himself On Me
« #5 on: June 11, 2007, 06:17 PM »

gbam Grin, i support that statement 100%
but lets try to see from another point of view,what of if they were colleagues and she never expected such behavior from him?
yoddy (m)
Re: He Forced Himself On Me
« #6 on: June 11, 2007, 06:23 PM »

Hmmm, this brings about the question that's always on my mind: should girls go visiting  a guy, whose overtures she has turned down over and over again, alone?
ThoniaSlim (f)
Re: He Forced Himself On Me
« #7 on: June 11, 2007, 06:24 PM »

haba how many times.
yoddy (m)
Re: He Forced Himself On Me
« #8 on: June 11, 2007, 06:29 PM »

Hmmm, this brings about the question that's always on my mind: should girls go visiting  a guy, whose overtures she has turned down over and over again, alone?
adejumobi (m)
Re: He Forced Himself On Me
« #9 on: June 11, 2007, 06:31 PM »

 ;d
ThoniaSlim (f)
Re: He Forced Himself On Me
« #10 on: June 11, 2007, 06:31 PM »

na wa ohhh  Grin
yoddy (m)
Re: He Forced Himself On Me
« #11 on: June 11, 2007, 06:36 PM »

Sorry pips, i'm browsin from a phone n It's kind of messing up,
ceasefire
Re: He Forced Himself On Me
« #12 on: June 11, 2007, 07:26 PM »

Na lie jo!! sure he raped you, you just can't find the boldness to say it.

i keep telling girls-boys play with boys and girls with girls. what were you looking for in a guy's room? you asked for it.
Now you want to come and give us this bullshit story, i ain't buying it girl, go visit him again since he's your mothers child.
ceasefire
Re: He Forced Himself On Me
« #13 on: June 11, 2007, 07:28 PM »

i mean the guy wacked you.
babaklazz
Re: He Forced Himself On Me
« #14 on: June 11, 2007, 07:33 PM »

Well,  Just thank God for you are luck he did not rape you,  and for forgiving him? i think you should and just be careful, ok
hot chic (f)
Re: He Forced Himself On Me
« #15 on: June 11, 2007, 07:37 PM »

Thank God he didn't rape you,try to forgive him n be very careful in case of next time not only with this guy but with every other guy.
desorlah (f)
Re: He Forced Himself On Me
« #16 on: June 11, 2007, 08:00 PM »

Are u sure it was only kissing and nothing more?
hype
Re: He Forced Himself On Me
« #17 on: June 11, 2007, 10:44 PM »

The guy just started kissing you? He must be obsessed wit u, or maybe he was thinking about u at that particular moment u showed up in his apartment. Or better still maybe he wanted to show you his kissing skills and maybe afterwards u'll consider his proposal!  If i may ask was he a good kisser?
$ammy (m)
Re: He Forced Himself On Me
« #18 on: June 11, 2007, 11:51 PM »

I wonder why my brothers no dey fit control themselves if they see woman forgetting that a little bit of patience does the magic.Abeg no vex for the way the guy harass UForgive him but be more careful
lipsygirl (f)
Re: He Forced Himself On Me
« #19 on: June 12, 2007, 06:24 AM »

hmmmmmm its sounds really very funny gurl but its happens on each daily bases, i am happy for you that he didnt rape you that would have been a painful part of it and moreso, to me i don't think it is right for a girl to visit a guy that you said No to, if u don't want him then don't go near to him because most times the human in us will alway tell.
BE CAREFUL

denex
Re: He Forced Himself On Me
« #20 on: June 12, 2007, 06:24 AM »

Why don't you learn from guys. If a girl is so undesirable to us that we can turn her down, there is on earth that will make us want to be alone with her. NOTHING!

On the other hand this guy is a potential rapist. Let him know that if any such thing happens again even not to you; if you hear any such thing from any other girl sef, you'll bring your parents in.

Can you just imagine that vagabond? When guys like me are working hard, spending weeks to please women, one guy just wants to effortlessly rape.
bebe2007 (m)
Re: He Forced Himself On Me
« #21 on: June 12, 2007, 09:26 AM »

Poor you!!! forgive him but stay away from him. He is so crude.
denex
Re: He Forced Himself On Me
« #22 on: June 12, 2007, 10:27 AM »

That goes further to show you that that guy is only sexually attracted to you and doesn't want to be emotionally involved.
rachiwise (f)
Re: He Forced Himself On Me
« #23 on: June 12, 2007, 10:35 AM »

That goes further to show you that that guy is only sexually attracted to you and doesn't want to be emotionally involved.

i agree wiith that!!!100 %.don't go close 2 him again like that,i mean alone in a room,he can't be trusted.
sillyboy (m)
Re: He Forced Himself On Me
« #24 on: June 12, 2007, 10:44 AM »

Kissing should be an act that takes nothing less than 4 seconds. And the fact that you said the guy just "started kissing you" shows that  he kissed you for more than 4 seconds. If I may ask, What and what did you do to discourage him from kissing you? I strongly believe that a guy just can't jump on a lady and start kissing her like that. Kissing is an act that requires two people's lips that has reached an agreement to kiss.

These are my findings from the poster's post.
1. It's possible the guy just tried to kiss her and failed.
2. It could be that the guy kissed her with her consent, and she later realised what she was doing. (normal mills & boom story)
3. It's possible the guy did more than kissing
4. It could be that the poster is just imagining the guy actually do that to her.
5. This could just be a fiction. Cool
denex
Re: He Forced Himself On Me
« #25 on: June 12, 2007, 11:15 AM »

sillyboy, I hope you're not trying to sweep that pre-rape/forerape activity under the rug. Even if it was hypothetical, give advice the should be relevant to the described situation.
Abeg O! I am going to have daughters later in life and I'm giving advice to will be spread by word of mouth and maybe one day if they are in that situation, these words will come in handy.

Any rapist or attempted rapist may soon be beDICKED in accordance to federal legislation.
MrPrsdent (m)
Re: He Forced Himself On Me
« #26 on: October 09, 2008, 05:37 PM »

na waaaooooooooooooooooooohhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!
tpia
Re: He Forced Himself On Me
« #27 on: October 11, 2008, 08:53 PM »

@ topic: very annoying, I can imagine.
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