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bkreality (f)
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I need help.
OK I'm 14 years old and i like this guy who is 18. It seems like he likes me! Cus we'd chill in the pool of where he works as a lifeguard. We'd play handball and all different kinds of things! I have his email address and he has mine. We'd play handball and whoever loses had to strip! he always wants me to decide what the loser in handball has to do. He told me he'd do anything. Sometimes he ignores me, i don't know why. then i got one of my friends name Jason who knows this guy i like. Jason asked the guy i like if he likes me and the guy i like was confused. then Jason asked the guy i like if he would kiss me and he said no because he'd get in trouble. i was pretty stunned by that. Because before the guy i like told me he'd do anything. SO I'M LOST... maybe its because he doesn't want anyone else to know. why wouldn't he kiss me when he would play strip games with me? but after i stripped half way he said dun tell anyone.! so idk
i want to know
Why does he ignore me?
does he like me?
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snazzydawn (f)
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IMCO,he likes you,but he still sees you as a minor.Thats why he is afraid.
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kenflavor (m)
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I will advice you to face your studies now, instead of thinking of going into any kind of relationship. That your friends do it doesn't make it right. Dont hurt yourself, because you are too young to go into any sort of relationship, it could also affect you psychologically. So, go read your books girl, may be in 6 years time, you can then give a relationship a chance.
ADVICE
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snazzydawn (f)
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that guy will break your heart so badly.....
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hot-angel (f)
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He likes you. Clear enough... he just don't want to break any law. Like going out with a minor (although some people do it).
You really shouldnt let the thought of whether or not he likes you bother you. Just try your best to take your mind off that place. Cos even if y'all get together, im sure it won't last much. Cos he'll have to go to college, and you'll be a freshman by then or something of that nature. If he breaks up with you, you won't like it. SO just find someone your age and forget about him.
Plus.. as you can see... after playing strip games with you.. he says you shouldnt tell no one, because he don't want to get accused of playing strip with a minor.
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Seun (m)
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He shouldn't be playing strip games with a minor. So I think he's not clean. Someone should wake this teenaged girl up, call her parents or something!
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africanboy (m)
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girl, you're 14, end of story.
why did i bother reply this post
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florino37
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i think your are not old enogh to handle a relationship, your book 1st untill u are old enogh to handle it. for God sake u just said u are 14. your book please
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shakira
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hey girl, i know u are really confused and hurt rite now by what he is doing and what people are sayin, but i think you should confront him and ask him if he likes you or not, my parent use to say that to me to when i was young "FACE YOUR STUDIES" and i know your's do that too and you don't need another "FACE YOUR STUDIES" song from this people rite now. If you really love this guy just ask him and if he says he don't love you then you need to get over him and start treating him like a big brother ................if you know what i mean ( no more strip game) you really need to get over him and find a real boyfriend, someone who is going to love you back, someone way cuter than him. But girl u really need to ask him first.
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snazzydawn (f)
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and what if he says yes?
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hotspice (f)
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boy tells young teenage girl to strip hmmmmmm boy has dirty things on his mind while girl thinks she is inlove.  forget about books, forget about religion infact forget about the rest of the world for now....its just you and your love and inside of you, you think he is inlove with you and you go on to have a secret relationship(this he will love) after all said and done you then realises that he just wanted your body(believe me thats all he sees rite now coupled with the fact that he will always prefere girls his age over u because they re more matured)how would u feel then? you are young and ve years ahead of you to meet more super guys that you would wonder what got you crazy over this one. take your time girl and don't rush into life,just be friends with guys your age and keep your studies first there is always enough time after wards.  |
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chinesedoll (f)
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You better face your studies nonsense
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smartsoft (m)
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lol....haven't you seen 14yrs old lady who got 2 babies.. huh ?? this world don change, why u too no face your study lol...
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AfricanQueen (f)
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Sweetheart that boy does not like you. I'm sorry to say but he just using you. If he really liked you he should respect more than that instead of telling you to strip. Ah, for what, nonsense.If he really had feelings for you he would be taking you out and showing you off. I bet you his friends don't even know his i"nterested" in you. You need to focus on your studies instead of worrying about some useless boy who will end up hurting you
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dejiolowe (m)
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wait till you're sixteen then u can go for him. with r kelly in trouble with this kind of thing, who wouldnt be scared of minors?
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kulex2k1 (m)
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sweetheart believe me all he just want to do with you is have sex and keep having it wit you because he knows you can't say no once you taste it the first time. when he meets a older finer girl he'll just dump you. so you just take it easy and be very carefull.
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2nde (m)
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Your book is of paramount importance than any lover boy at your age. FOCUS. Must you have a boyfriend? We are approaching the end of days
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dejiolowe (m)
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Your book is of paramount importance than any lover boy at your age. FOCUS. Must you have a boyfriend? We are approaching the end of days
minors v been poking old men since chicken lost their teeth. nothing new under the sun |
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White lady (f)
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Quote:
Minors have been poking old men...
Take it from one who knows!
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dejiolowe (m)
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Quote:
Minors have been poking old men...
Take it from one who knows!
hear it from the one who knows better |
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aljohnson
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Every body should be careful by his/her advise,because i believe that if is your younger sister you will not encourage her to go on . As for you baby girl you have to ask you self this questions, 1 What is love? what kind of love do want in your life? did you want a love that has no future? Listen baby girl, you need two things in your life now, first is god and 2ad is your future which is to face your studies so that you will be somebody tomorrow o k. best of luck to you.
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ladebi (m)
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:othere is one thing i don't understand is like most of u don't understand what is written .she said she is the one that says what should be done to the loser and she brought theSTRIP GAME yall criticizin the brother for that, your asyin he does not like her have u asked yourself why his he ignorin her because she is young and he does not want her to get hurt .the reason why he is confused when asked if he likes her because he got no bad intentoins so he never expected that. so plz what yall need to be doin is to advice this young sister to focus throughly whats happenin in the society she should glace through the past and think about the future .THIS BROTHER WAS ONLY HELPIN LET ME TELL You WHY HE IS AVOIDIN HER AND NOT IGNORING HER COS HE DOES NOT WANT ANYTHING SILLY TO HAPPEN ANYTHING CAN HAPEN LIKE WHAT HAPPEND TO JOSEPH IN EGYPT . HE LEFT HIS ROBE THAT WAS THE PROBLEM SO ALL I GOT TO SAY TO THIS LIL MAMA IS TO KEEP UR HEAD HIGH DONT THINK ABOUT SEX . THINK ABOUT IF You FAIL WHAT WILL HAPEN IF You DONT WANT TO FAIL IS TO STUDIE HARD AND IF UR LOOOKIN FOR A RELATIONSHIP IS WITH SOMEBODY WISE WHO KNOWS SEX IS NEVER FOR PLEASURE BUT TO PRODUCE CHILDREN. |
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Rhodalyn (f)
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i guess he does, he just thinks u're still a kid
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Free (f)
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hmmm 14 , 18 i don't really think he likes you
maybe he wants someone he could take advantage of
word,
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lizzy93 (f)
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hey girl, like almost everybody said, what u really nid to do is to face your studies n not worry yourself about whether he likes u or not because if anytin happens you're going to be the one 2 loose, so girly forget about d guy, concentrate on your studies n if d guy really likes u he'll wait for you or if u guys are really destined 2 be 2gether he'll com back to you.
GOODLUCK. WISH You ALL THE BEST IN LIFE.
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every (m)
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My advice to you is that you face your studies, at this stage you're still very young and tender for this kind of game. The guy is only playing games with you, so be careful.
My advice to you once again is be careful!!!!!!!!!!!!.
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saintchux (m)
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14yrs old kia!!!!
What class are u?. At 14 u are talking about loving a guy. What do you understand concerning relationship.
You better face your studies or you see your self having 9 in you waec exam.
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ukmugun (m)
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hehehe, this kain life sef, imagine ooooo, this 14 yr old dey talk love ooooo, heeeeeeee, come my pikin, u don do your maths homework? abeg go carry your book begin dey read!! |
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