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mcube (f)
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Guys, if u meet a young married lady of 22 years - 25 years, beautiful inresistable and already with two kids what do u do.
Will u go for her and forget she is married or
Will u just be friends with her.
Be sincere with yourself!!!!
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drrionelli (m)
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Certainly, I would respect her as well as the fact that she is married. That way, I'm respecting her, her husband, her children and my personal integrity.
Look at it this way: If you were to go for her, and she were to go for you, how then could you trust a woman who would compromise (perhaps to the point of sacrifice) her marriage to be with somebody else? Might she not then later do the same thing to you? Also, why should she trust you knowing that you're a man who would justify breaking up marriages? After all, you came looking for her, so you might go looking elsewhere.
Be her friend, but otherwise, leave her alone!
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mcube (f)
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most guys don't think that way. for the fact that she is still young they will still love to have a taste.
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acidrop (f)
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what God has joined together, let no man put asunder.
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sillyboy (m)
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To be honest, I guess I'll go out with the young married woman. If I trully care about her and I feel she feels the same way about me too, then I believe we should give it a try. Really, I believe this life is too short to deny oneself loads of happiness. If we are both happy about it then, nothing should stop us. not even the supposed husband.
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breeolan (f)
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@ sillyboy mehn, its obvious that any young man in his senses should nt dive for that lady, because even if she agrees, don't u thk she'D do d same thing to u if sme one bera than u shows up  , the law of Karma, its inevitable  so if you're thkn in this line, be prepared for an heartbrk @ all, i thk its possible for a woman to be married and still fall in love with another man, its an issue of the heart  |
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mcube (f)
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but guys out there don't think of any karma law. i met three guys online and told them am 23 years, married with two kids and beleive me they saw my pics and still wanted to date me . so u see my brother they don't care.
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sillyboy (m)
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@ breeolan.
Got your perception and I quite believe in the law of karma, but definately not scared of karma. I really believe that I don't do what I can't take. Like you painted, if the lady falls for another man, that simply means she doesn't feel the same way about me anymore. And believe me life must go on. But in all sincerity, I will do whatever will make me happy and fufilled, as much as my partner is in agreement and happy.
@ mcube.
I really don't think the three guys that want to date you has done anything wrong. Everyone should have the right to express the he or she feels. It's left for you to accept them or turn them down. What if they are going to pep your life up? Am not encoureging you to indulge in infidelity, but just trying to see life from another angle.
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mcube (f)
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@sillyboy
i quite understand u but all the same do u think its right. When i told those three guys that i was actually joking they now said they don't really mean what they said
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sillyboy (m)
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@ mcube What actually did you tell the three guys? Am beginning to get confused. Just explain better and let me try to get into their psychy, and perhaps yours too  |
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mcube (f)
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@ sillyboy
i met them on net we started introducing ourselves. through our introduction i told them that i am 23 years old, married and already had two kids. a boy and a girl. they were happy for me. after a week of chatting on deceit. they asked if we can be dating that they just love me for the fact that am truthful and young. i told them okay and they sent their phone numbers to me. i was offline for 3 days, so on the 4th day i came online and told them i was only joking that am single.
they laughed and said they don't really meant what they said.
u can imagine, one of them said " Tell me u want to divorce ur husband for me and i will be greatful"
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sillyboy (m)
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@ mcube. So when they told you they were only kidding, how do you feel? As in, were you dissapointed they were kidding with you? If you ask me, I'll believe they were kiding with you. Because I feel you've provided them with a better platform by telling the truth that you are single. So if they are realy interested, they should start firing on all cylinders now that the coast is clear. Or what do you think?  about you, if it's true that you are married with kids, then my guess is that you still desire some more fun. Perhaps you are not getting enough from your marriage. Please don't think am getting insultive o. I will never insult you. I'm only trying to analize your painting. And if you are not married yet, my guess is that you desire someone seriously. what do you think? |
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mcube (f)
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sillyboy am not married neither am i interested in them and thank u. though u did not insult me but u did stylishly abi.
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sillyboy (m)
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@mcube Sorry if I struck the wrong cord. I wasn't being funny with you, I was only trying to analice things with my silly brain. Please and please don't be offended. but if I may ask, why are you not interested? Just curious you know |
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mcube (f)
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am not just interested cause i don't think i need one for now.
does that settle ur curiousity?
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sillyboy (m)
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No, that just increased my curiousity! Why are you not ready now? If you ask me I don't think you are under-aged. Perhaps, you are just taking a break after a not too good experience. That's what most ladies do |
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Hazel-eyed (f)
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it is wrong to date a married woman, by dating her u are encouraging her to break a vow she made in the presence of God and remember what the bible says bout that, what God has joined together let no man put asunder.
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mcube (f)
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@ sillyboy
u just got the reason. so thank u
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timmy7 (m)
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Bachelor vs married women? Hmm, the odd is surely against the latter why? One in every ten guys will probably be truthful in such situation while the other nine want to have a taste of , (fill in d gap) I have seen guys saying they can't date after one let alone two sef
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sillyboy (m)
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@ mcube.
Please mention.
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mcube (f)
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@ everyone
please make una help me beg sillyboy to tackle the thread itself instead of me
@ sillyboy
Abeg leave me o na question i ask wey u turn ontop me
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sillyboy (m)
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My hands are clean oooo. I no dey ontop of you oooo. I can't be on top of you via the net now.  |
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mcube (f)
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@ sillyboy
Now i know u are not serious at all. lets just leave that and face the main reason for this thread
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mcube (f)
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@ sillyboy
u no get wetin to say again?
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sillyboy (m)
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@ mcube. You should know that I've got loads of stuffs to say to you . But believe me, people will peep in. Let's just keep the conversation strictly between you and I. |
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hot chic (f)
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How can you think like that, a married woman when there are loads of single gurls out there,i really don't think that's a good idea.
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mcube (f)
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@ hot chic
i don't really get ur contribution. please kindly expantiate it.
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hot chic (f)
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What am saying is that why do you want to go for a married woman when there are loads of single girls out there for you to date.Save someone's marriage..Hope you got that.
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jesuspikin (m)
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can a man scoop hot coal in his hands and not be burnt?,so is he that goes into another mans wife.brothers a word is enough for the wise.keep off married women so that your soul will not roth in hell
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mcube (f)
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@ hotchic
I understand u quite well but u know some guys are so adamant that they still think a young married woman is attractive and they feel like aving a taste of her.
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mcube (f)
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@ silly boy
where are u
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breeolan (f)
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its nt rite to date a married woman, der are plenty single ladies out der, so y d married, @ silly, u sed you're nt scare of karma, ( shakes head) i pray u dnt find ursef in trouble, |
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