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2dye4 (m)
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@drrionelli: well said. self control is the greatest power any individual can possess cause the flesh is hmmmmmmm, weak!. it takes 3 seconds to think ur d**k but 3 minutes with your mind which means its easier to loose control. also every resolution starts from the mind and nothing beats the human will power (with God's help though) But to be on the safe side i think we should obey the 11th commandment: " though shall not smell what you will not eat"  |
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NaijaFuss (m)
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luxori, take am easy on the guys if the mind can get more functions than thinkinh about f**k why not?  |
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2dye4 (m)
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actually, the mind can |
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niniman (m)
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it is possible if and only if the girl is dirty,smelly or disabled, d**k no go school,e no no the meaning of self respect,it will always rule a guy whenever its sees a potential food.
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2dye4 (m)
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it is possible if and only if the girl is dirty,smelly or disabled, d**k no go school,e no no the meaning of self respect,it will always rule a guy whenever its sees a potential food.
That will be a good plea/defense statement for rapists and pedophiles in a law court! nobody denies the feelin, but doesnt mean u must act on it. My dear, self-control is not some over-rated demand. its as necessary as sanity. |
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salsera (f)
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don't know what all this 'hoopla' is about
It happens all the time abi? or didn't anyone go to Uni in Nigeria
didnt' anyone have to crash in guys room before whether it was after practice rehearsal or simply jacking
Please self control is not that rare
Its your mind if you have sex on your mind then you will act on it.
I have slept on the same bed with 2 guys (if recollect well i slept in the middle)
Crashed in a room full of guys and girls after practice
Slept in guys place before whether it was on the carpet or even on his bed I SLEPT so did he/they. Even when we did not sleep the gist we would gist was always fun.
Even now that i live on my own, I still crashed at another friends place 2 days ago, there were 2 girls and another guy later on one other friend girl came (over because we had candles and she didnt)
what's the big deal
As long as you dress properly(not in some dumb nightgown) fully clothed.
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2dye4 (m)
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@salsera: thanks 4 that post. exactly my point. |
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drrionelli (m)
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@2dye4, salsera & xjovial:
Thank you all for your refreshingly common-sense honesty about this!
@post:
PLEASE heed the words of these three. They know the truth!
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abiodunade (m)
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GUY, i can hold body well. I can even sleep on d same bed wit her witout touchin her 4 real
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egoldman (m)
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I have done it with a beautiful Indian girl , and also have done it with a nice Irish woman , both were mybrother's girl friends , ofcos at different times .
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miklo
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@salsera, what the poster is saying is sleeping one on one with a guy but not in a group. Try it one day and see how far!
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Scopium
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Of course you fit hold body,, ,. erhmm by the way which body are you holding?  Your body or the girl's body? I'm sorry I'm getting it mixed it up. It is very possible to hold body, it just mastering the art of self control. Trust me the girl will kill you at the slightest chance she gets for holding body and not making a move on her. 
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Scopium
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She's probably waiting for your peeing gadget to spring up like jack-in-the-box and play the second function role on/in her. Later she'll be the one to call you names for playing cool. But if the girl got balls large enough, she will initiate the irresistible move (trust eve) and play the lead role.
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Siena (m)
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Of course it's possible.
Suppose you're married, are you saying you couldn't trust yourself to have an attractive work mate in the same office as yourself? If you can't, then you need to question what kind of relationship you have with your wife / girlfriend.
As human beings, we appreciate beauty, nothing wrong in admiring, but it doesn't mean every attractive female is fair game.
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akaluka
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na yam?
when be say your rod no weak
ol boy,na fire for fire.nobody go sleep.
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ozigbo (m)
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Impossicant.
there not appositely impossible, the only thing to do
just for u remove your mind from where she is an that
solve the problem.or if possible just dislike are very
thing about her and u see it will work.
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chusky (m)
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i agree with u bros
But if the babe start 2 behave funny i go ,
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mellow (m)
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Una think say men na sex addicts? Jeez!! I can't even bigin to imagine how you reason. What do you mean
body no be fire wood? Body na flamable susbstance? If you can't I can. I don't see any big deal about it.
How beautiful or attractive is the girl that can make me go against the grain? I have my self exteem and no
lady no mather how beautiful will make me go against my principles. I can only make love to a lady on account of her
been my lover and not otherwise that is why I can never patronize the daugthers of easy vitues.
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btayo1 (m)
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Where in the world is this acceptable for man to live with girl not related and sleep on same bed? this being wrong will ultimately lead to wrong moves that can be initiated by both parties. There is a difference between crashing out on a few nights but living together in a room; for a few nights it is very possible, have done it loads of times, the temptation will be there but self discipline will prevail; but living constantly in same room is another matter, after a while no matter how self disciplined you are, your defenses will be broken.
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ndumart
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Invitation to rape
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hacker777
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men are moved by sight, what they see
ladies are moved by what they hear,
if you are truely a man, u don't put yourself in situations as this,
there will always be a friends place to hang or rather for her to float,
but come to think of it, what if the lady happens to be your sister, will you go ahead and mess the hell out of her?
where will hthe erection come from?
guys lets learn to control situations and not situations controlling us.
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Elisha.com (m)
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Yes, why not, if a woman can control theirs, why can't i? |
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