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Ceekay (m)
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Well u and ur husband have been living hapily, with a child, when suddenly your husband goes to work one morning and meets with an accident that costs him his man-hood, will u leave or will u keep ur marital vows...to stay on together 4better..4worse..??  |
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nana (f)
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I will stay wit' him.Why should i leave him because of his predicament?
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Ceekay (m)
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Please just be as truthful as u can be..nobody's going to eat anybody up, the fact is, this actually happened n the lady packed her things and fled...  |
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nana (f)
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That's just too bad.
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hot-angel (f)
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Boy oooo... I will deffinitely divorce him. It's not that he's impotent.. you mean like no d!ck!! The thing Gone patapata. Come one now.. No ammount of love can make me stay. I'm not lying.. seriously, i'll leave. If he's impotent.. that's a different case. But no manhood??!! Save me your preachings.. I'm leaving.  |
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Ceekay (m)
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Now thats being truthful, but What about d kid, hot-angel?? what u gon tell him happened to his/her daddy??
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prettyH (f)
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Please just be as truthful as u can be..nobody's going to eat anybody up, the fact is, this actually happened n the lady packed her things and fled... What gives you the impression she wasn't been truthful? Different individuals handle problems in various ways. Personally i wouldn't leave because that just shows i never truly loved him. Boy oooo... I will deffinitely divorce him. It's not that he's impotent.. you mean like no d!ck!! The thing Gone patapata. Come one now.. No amount of love can make me stay. I'm not lying.. seriously, I'll leave. If he's impotent.. that's a different case. But no manhood??!! Save me your preachings.. I'm leaving. What if it were the other way round...if it was the wife that had been in the accident and the guy left her... wouldn't you cry blue murder? |
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hot-angel (f)
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Now thats being truthful, but What about d kid, hot-angel?? what u gon tell him happened to his/her daddy??
Hopefully there wont be kid then. And however it goes.. i'll tell the kid something. Infact God wont let this happen to me oo. In JESUS NAME.. it will never happen to me. lai lai. What if it were the other way round...if it was the wife that had been in the accident and the guy left her... wouldn't you cry blue murder? Women don't have oko. And if the boobs go.. u can do surgery and put another one there. But Oko?? Come on now? I just pray this don't happen to me. |
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justme
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i pray this never happens to me. if i find myself in a situation like that, so long as i love him, i'll stay, not just because of the kid, but for him.... there's are ways of deriving sexual pleasure besides using a privates, i'll take that option(e no go easy o), because it could have been me, shit happens!  |
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dejiolowe (m)
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may it never happen to me! i will beg my wife to leave me self because if she cracks under pressure and sleeps with someone else, i will kill her from jealousy...
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viviansam (f)
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GOd this is a difficult one but in all honesty, I will not leave my husband because he has lost his manhood in a circumstance like that. That is even when he needs me most to console and comfort him. What If I am the one involved, how would i feel if I had an accident that cost me my legs and all of a sudden, he lives me. please I will not. We will together find a solution to that problem. If medical science can, we will explore that while waiting on God. We can still have fun through other ways aside penetration.
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Nia
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Kai! I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy. This would be a real test o.
But I'D stay just for the child and to be an emotional support to him, but I will have a lover on the side and make sure he doesn't find out about it. That way everyone's happy.
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kimba (m)
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@hot-angel Boy oooo, I will deffinitely divorce him. It's not that he's impotent, you mean like no d!ck!! The thing Gone patapata. Come one now, No ammount of love can make me stay.
I'm not lying, seriously, i'll leave. If he's impotent, that's a different case. But no manhood??!! Save me your preachings, I'm leaving. How about the "TILL DEATH DO US PART" stuff. I think the priests/officiating ministers usually say "DEATH" not "D**K" no offense!!!! |
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DaHitler (m)
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Is sex even important to women? There is nothing to worry about. Most women would stick around, unless they are whores.
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Nia
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Is sex even important to women? There is nothing to worry about. Most women would stick around, unless they whores.
LOL, body no be wood o. |
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youngies (m)
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How about the "TILL DEATH DO US PART" stuff.
I think the priests/officiating ministers usually say "DEATH" not "D**K"
no offense!!!!
Kimba thanks for translating it into English for Hot-Angel. May be she thought that was what the minister said, "till privates do us part"  lol |
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sisimose (f)
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for better for worse were the vows
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anabell (f)
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i wont leave him, but i might cheat on him, i guess he will understand
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Zandra1 (f)
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Sex is important to women. If a woman leaves in this situation she is not a whore for the person that said that. If u ask men a lot of them would do the same and I guess they are manwhores then. I don't blame any woman that stays or goes . As for a woman that left I don't blame her cause her husband may leave her if she was in that situation so knowing the kind of man she has she left or maybe she can't handle the situation. God forbid that something like this will happen to me. 80% of women so far said they will stay, ask men lets see their opinion.
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McDoe (m)
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nana, it is easier saiod than done!
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McDoe (m)
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nana, it is easier said than done!
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nana (f)
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well,u think so.Anyways,that's what am going to do if i find myself in that situation,
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McDoe (m)
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nana, I can never believe you. There is a saying that a woman's ability to remain in marriage lies squarely on the ability of the husband to perform his role. Role in this context means sexual activeness/satisfaction. Is it a lie? please nana, answer.
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mohawkchic (f)
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~I wudnt leave him,in this day N age there are lots of ways to incorporate sex,eg. strap ons will be ideal in this suitation,ofcourse the most important thing will be for the man to recovery from his sense of self-worth,therapy should fix that! once thats sorted,then its time to explore other ways to make the most of the fire in the bedroom it should be fun discoverin other ways to have that special fullfillment,foreplay springs to mind in bucketloads   ~I'D like to think there'll be other sensitive areas to arouse satisfaction for the man  anyways whatever the case,am sure something can be salvaged of what's left,make the most of what we've got like |
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BIKINI (f)
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I WILL ALSO LEAVE HIM BY ACCIDENT!
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doubletree (f)
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why leave?when you can go to ann summers and get a rabbit.
I work with a lady whose husband had cancer of the privates diagnosed soon after their 1st child,he had to have it removed .they are still together 22 years later.
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ell77 (f)
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He even gave you a child so what is the issue, stay and get on with it. What if someone pours acid on your face, or part of your body is amputated. Nobody is invincible, he is still a man even without his genitalia. It might be weird at first but it is more than possible. Sex is not the beginning and the end and if it is for you, then what would you have done when he becomes impotent anyway, cheat?
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Seun (m)
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Oh dear. What an interesting question. Thank goodness I'm not a woman. |
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kattrina (f)
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@hotangel- dicks can be replaced now too.
I would stay. I feel in love with the man not his body. Sex may feel great, but it is fleeting and love is the best feeling ever and it lasts.
Besides I am an amputee; if i leave then I am no better than all the shallow people who think less of me because I am missing a leg, and I hate hypocrits!
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toyinrayo (f)
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@post then we'll both meet in divorce court (TV show) |
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almondjoy (f)
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As long as he did not lose his tongue or fingers too. I am okay! Orgasm na orgasm, by lightening or thunder---he will learn to strike any how sha sha.
That is not grounds for me to leave him. What if the reverse was the case and I lost my "womanhood" in an accidental Tomahawk "chop off"?
Sorry, that is not marriage is solely based on.
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