Help! How Can I Meet A Man That Is Ready To Wait For Sex Till We Get Married

@ poster, are sure u want to wait? what if the dude is hidding something. maybe him no fit knack you pass twice in a day or him JT don kaput. Have u considered all those possibilties? Its good to wait untill u are married but are u sure u are clean? coz u may be hidding something too.
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thats good am looking for that too.

if they are hard 2 find, that equally means its hard 2 find men that really loves you. cos if they love u they can do anything for u, including waiting 4 5yrs b4 marriage

are you sure about that one?

depends

1. how long are u willing to make the brother wait

2. probably in a church is where u'd find those kind of guys

after the marriage, he'll cheat on you so what's the point of making him the only man there when you're not  and probably may never be the only woman that receives his thing.

Just pray,i can't think of a specific answer right now ,just be careful n i hope almighty God will help you out.

well i thank you all for your wonderfull comments, expecially the one from kingly.i know its by Gods grace to meet that kind of man.honestly this has being my prayer since 2005 May 1st and i know the prayer would be answeard soon by God since nothing will ever make me change my views on marriage. ofcourse marriage is not all about sex but LOVE AND UNDERSTANDING for each other.any way i promise to let you all in Nairaland forum know when i eventually get this wonderful God send man waiting for me at the alta as i walk to him in my dad's arms to be joined to him as man and wife.   

@Topic
May be if you go to mars or Jupiter, you will find one. Guys' Joy-stick dey do gra gra inside their sokoto these days oh ! If you plan to marry him why not give it to him and let him climb your love tree !

A man who can't control his sexual urges, is a man who lacks self-control. Definately not the kind of man I would want to marry. If you have been courting for a while and plan to marry but you are burning, then it's better to marry but do so prayerfully that you do not marry in lust. Or simply avoid compromising situations where the two of you are alone.

KK

And wot if the man is not interested in marriage or is not planning to get married to her?


It sumtyms works but most of them guys agree at the onset and after a few years,they think you should give in



Anyway,make she just dey pray,definitely some guys wil definitely wait and i pray they come your way and i hope things works out well _{because getting married as a virgin is not the only thing that makes a successful marriage and not every man thta waits till you get married will make a good husband.All the best.}

moreover wats the point of having sex when u know u would get married, its actually sex that makes your honey moon honey. like waiting for a long tym to have sex wit your fiance, n this is the night, the night d both of u have been waiting for, the night u guys have dreamt and fantasize about. how special is that.

it is difficult to find men who think in such line, but we are all responsible towards ourselves to- know what we want, and ensure that we stand by our values even when it means losing that person. when into a relationship, one should be upfront on the do's and don'ts and ensure that both parties adhere to the rules.

u may think by giving him your body u will keep him, that may work but the problem with such action is that u lose focus on building the relationship through other means besides sex, and spend more time gratifying your urges. sex comes with responsibilty, a man should not have u just for the fun of it but must realise that in having u he must be committed not just to your body, but your whole entity.

if he cannot wait, he should ensure that the door hits his buttocks on his way out of your life. if we have no value for ourselves nobody will have value for us. if he \she cannot stand the heat pls stay out of my kitchen.       

I really agree with that,for real,most men never don't know they can wait for s*x untill they meet that special lady that they think its not worth loosing her all because she is not ready to have s*x with him.

i am really impress that degubi and bolarge who belong to the men folks have such opinions.

how i wish we have men like you as husbands in the world then we would'nt be hearing divorce stories all the time.  

Forget it vindoheney because no matter how drop dead handsome he looks i  will not  open my legs wide for him forgetting what i have resolved in my heart to do and want.

Agreed some girls will actually want to give in hoping to keep him and forgeting what they have resolved before concerning sex b4 marriage. for such girls i think they are just decieving themselves and not the guy.