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kgoddie (m)
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Hello guys,Y he dey always easy 4 people to be "Judgemental" in their views plus bin a CRITIC?Y be say when someone says sometin that challenges our precious little "Values and Views",our 1st instinct na 2 Complain,Criticize and Condemn"?Y do people play GOD,Da Judge and Jury on people's "Views,Values,and Actions" when they are suppose to be a True Friend by Showin Understanding Plus respect for someone's view or atttitude? What do we really understand about LOVE and LOVING SOMEONE or PEOPLE? Please,for the those who believe in Christ Jesus,they should find time to read Mathew 7 : 1 - 4. And for all the Nairalander's from any religion,state or tribe that u're from in Naija,no matter where u reside now but,You value Relationships;kindly find this book to read "HOW to Win Friends $ Influence People" by "DALE CARNEGIE".Have gained alot from this book,hope you guys will gain too. Wish you all well in our quest for a better life,bin loved by people and giving that same love back to people.Cheers  JaHbLess Nigerians
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iice (f)
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True friendship does not come from just talking with someone for a few months.  Nwayz, lol, tis the ways of people. not everyone is alike and the differences are what makes things interesting.
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kgoddie (m)
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True friendship does not come from just talking with someone for a few months.  Nwayz, lol, tis the ways of people. not everyone is alike and the differences are what makes things interesting. Yah iice,I understand that true friendship dn't really come from just talking wit someone for a few months but,maybe u will agree wit me that our words can make us a friend or an enemy of someone under a second. I also get the gist about not everyone bin alike but,da earth will be far better only if we can replace criticism for understanding.And,if at all one nids to criticize someone,we should do it in a constructive way,not a destructive way plus missing the constructive criticism with love produces good results.
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iice (f)
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Indeed kgoddie, but like i said it is the way of people. Not everyone is nice, compassionate, understanding, sympathetic, etc. I have been over that a long time ago. You cannot change a person if they don't want to change. Some may read what you wrote, reflect and take it in to make a change, others will just ignore it or better yet (or worse) attack your comments. Just have to live with it if the person refuses to understand or better even, ignore the person.
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