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sage (m)
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Hey Davidylan when i see some of ur posts i crack up with laughter You had earlier said that you would never marry any woman you had had sex with b/4 and you say all that bla bla bla about a husband "respecting n adoring" a virgin wife now u talk about "dignity" How come you look down on women that have had sex b/4 but you don't look down on yourself? (Well we all know men judge women by different standards) What makes u fit for marriage if the women you had sex with are not fit for it? Where is ur own dignity  Does it somehow stem from the fact that you are the Judge, the jury, the prosecutor and the defendant at the same time   |
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sage (m)
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Even though i grew up in Naija i never stressed things like this.
Ive seen a female aquintance swear to the man she wanted to marry that he cannot see her pants b/4 their wedding night while she was giving it to other guys. The guy was was thinking since she said she will not have sex with me b/4 marriage that means she is marriage material (the usual African Man's mentality) Little would he know wats up though.
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davidylan (m)
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Hey Davidylan when i see some of your posts i crack up with laughter You had earlier said that you would never marry any woman you had had sex with b/4 and you say all that bla bla bla about a husband "respecting n adoring" a virgin wife now u talk about "dignity" How come you look down on women that have had sex b/4 but you don't look down on yourself? (Well we all know men judge women by different standards) What makes u fit for marriage if the women you had sex with are not fit for it? Where is your own dignity Does it somehow stem from the fact that you are the Judge, the jury, the prosecutor and the defendant at the same time @ sage, i could not hold my ribs from cracking up as i read this. Very true that men judge women differently. It is not wholly true that i can marry a woman i had sex with, if the relationship goes much deeper than just a mere physical interaction then why not? My argument is that it is much more difficult to separate between a woman who loves you or the one u are sticking with because she makes a good bedmate. Lets not decieve ourselves, i remember a friend who would always insist he would only marry a virgin. It was common knowledge that the fellow was a good philanderer in school. Somewhere deep down we value virgins, its just that no one can be 100% sure who is one and who isnt that the importance is now massively downplayed. If i find a virgin fine, if i don't no stress. I wont respect a non-virgin any less. |
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Islander (f)
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I want to marry a virgin man, Seeing that men who aren't virgind are wailing about marrying virgin ladies, so why can't a lady demand that her mate be a virgin too. What is good for the geese is definitely better for the gander.  |
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Naija*gal (f)
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@davidylan,do u find that question shockin? seriously then y r u here?  @islander,abi o |
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degubi (m)
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@Islander
I want to marry a virgin man, Seeing that men who aren't virgin are wailing about marrying virgin ladies, so why can't a lady demand that her mate be a virgin too.
What is good for the geese is definitely better for the gander,
my sister u have spoken well, if we demand the best from others then we should not expect less from ourselves.
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Naija*gal (f)
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@degubi,how noble!  |
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Islander (f)
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@Islander
I want to marry a virgin man, Seeing that men who aren't virgin are wailing about marrying virgin ladies, so why can't a lady demand that her mate be a virgin too.
What is good for the geese is definitely better for the gander,
my sister u have spoken well, if we demand the best from others then we should not expect less from ourselves.
Gracias mi amigo muy mucho, There is certainly a hightened level of double standard with regards to this Virgin thing,
@islander,abi o
You are too much. Always cracking me up |
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mr ferlie (m)
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islander, are you a virgin bc i am one
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mr ferlie (m)
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i want a natural one
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Islander (f)
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i want a natural one
Try the Convent, and even there I heard the priests are having their way with the sisters. All the best!! |
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mr ferlie (m)
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is omo eko virgin too?
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Islander (f)
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is omo eko virgin too?
Mr. Ferlie you really need a virgin, eh? |
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Omo Eko (f)
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is omo eko virgin too?
yes i am but reconstructed Virgin |
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Islander (f)
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@ islander, i need a virgin, can u get one for me.
I have one, but I am saving her for an Island brother. Lo siento muy mucho, |
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Omo Eko (f)
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LOL disappointed you really how |
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mr ferlie (m)
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i used to think u re a virgin  |
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Omo Eko (f)
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My future husband will love and accept me the way i am |
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mr ferlie (m)
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i love that. na strength of character matters!
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mr ferlie (m)
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i am a virgin sha
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mr ferlie (m)
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i want to marry a virgin,
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Omo Eko (f)
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LOL goodluck oh, tell me when you find one |
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mr ferlie (m)
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if there is any one close to you looking for mr, , don't forget to nominate me
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Omo Eko (f)
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Even is they were  i won't even introduce you to them |
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