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babymine (f)
Anything Wrong In Dating A Man Younger Than You?
« on: February 02, 2006, 01:01 PM »

Hello everyone.. Smiley I"m kind of new here but I just felt like asking this question. Please, if you have any advice, anything to say..do feel free..ciao!
Love you all. Cheesy
Z4M4eva (f)
Re: Anything Wrong In Dating A Man Younger Than You?
« #1 on: February 02, 2006, 01:26 PM »

Hey Babymine, welcome to Nairaland, and no there's nothing wrong in dating someone younger than you. Well really it depends on how young we talking about here, anyway love is all that matters! Ciao!!!
alheri (f)
Re: Anything Wrong In Dating A Man Younger Than You?
« #2 on: February 02, 2006, 01:28 PM »

babymine welcome to naira! IMO, theres nothing wrong with dating someone younger than you are. Do you love him? Then feel free to date him.  Wink
Greatpeter (m)
Re: Anything Wrong In Dating A Man Younger Than You?
« #3 on: February 02, 2006, 03:45 PM »

There is nothing bad about it. Age is just a number.
smartsoft (m)
Re: Anything Wrong In Dating A Man Younger Than You?
« #4 on: February 03, 2006, 06:10 AM »

Word Man.. Word.. Please help me tell the folks out there...
EvilSlayer (m)
Re: Anything Wrong In Dating A Man Younger Than You?
« #5 on: February 03, 2006, 06:17 AM »

Quote from: Greatpeter on February 02, 2006, 03:45 PM
There is nothing bad about it. Age is just a number.

Quote from: smartsoft on February 03, 2006, 06:10 AM
Word Man.. Word.. Please help me tell the folks out there...

True that. but what if this chick is like in her mid 30's and the cat is like 14, would that still be ok?
smartsoft (m)
Re: Anything Wrong In Dating A Man Younger Than You?
« #6 on: February 03, 2006, 09:35 AM »

Dude Cheesy You should know that can't happen and if that happens, that means there is something behind it...
alheri (f)
Re: Anything Wrong In Dating A Man Younger Than You?
« #7 on: February 03, 2006, 09:40 AM »

Quote from: EvilSlayer on February 03, 2006, 06:17 AM
True that. but what if this chick is like in her mid 30's and the cat is like 14, would that still be ok?

she said younger man, not boy.
EvilSlayer (m)
Re: Anything Wrong In Dating A Man Younger Than You?
« #8 on: February 03, 2006, 09:47 AM »

Quote from: alheri on February 03, 2006, 09:40 AM
she said younger man, not boy.

Honey I don't know what generation you life in, you'll be surprised to know what 14 year old can do these days
dejiolowe (m)
Re: Anything Wrong In Dating A Man Younger Than You?
« #9 on: February 03, 2006, 10:43 AM »

nothing wrong. i v dated plenty of older girls. i like them because they always respect themselves. and a sugar mummy? she's going to spoil u silly
darleen (f)
Re: Anything Wrong In Dating A Man Younger Than You?
« #10 on: June 20, 2007, 11:36 AM »

well for me i guess it depends on where you find happiness.some guys might be younger but they are capable of making you happy,also they capable of giving you that peace a guy your age or even older can't give you
During my undergraduate days i had acertain guy 4yrs younger who was always on my neck,at that time i saw it as a taboo to date him,but anytime we got talking what i usually see is a whole different person,who i could relate with,at that point in time his  age wasnt an issue.some guys can be younger but their minds are not young.Younger guys will treat you with much care once they are so into you,even better that the older ones.but the most important thing in question is if u are happy.my friend is married to a guy 3 years younger n they are so happy,
So age aint nothing  but a number
Esss (m)
Re: Anything Wrong In Dating A Man Younger Than You?
« #11 on: June 20, 2007, 12:06 PM »

Question; Is there anything dating a man younger than you??

Answer: YES Angry

Reasons; 1. Na your mate?? One of the first things a man must posses is pride,  And oneday the issue of seniority must arise,  just imagine the ego bruise the small boy will suffer, ]

                2. It is the natural order of things that the man should be senior,  (adam senior eve),  Just Kidding Grin
   
                3. Just imagine say one day, the boy tell you to shut up,  Your first response go be "u no dey fear your elder?"  Kidding again

                4. Age is not just a number,  if it were, elder no go dey for our society. Age is actually a boundary that differenciates us from each other Physically, mentally and otherwise,

               
Exception cases (where it might be allowed); 1. If you want to keep the boy as your samlly,  That is you are his sugar mummy.
                                                                        2. If it is just for sex, 
                                                                        3. emm,  I think thats about it,
Gunit4life (m)
Re: Anything Wrong In Dating A Man Younger Than You?
« #12 on: June 20, 2007, 04:02 PM »

Hey guys, nothing do una. Love has nothing to do with age, like u knw is just a number. these days no small pikin again ooooooooooooo, small boy can do what an adult man can do.
benit (f)
Re: Anything Wrong In Dating A Man Younger Than You?
« #13 on: June 20, 2007, 04:11 PM »

If u are always going to be conscious of the fact u are older than him, then don't go into a relationship with him.

But if u can over look his age and respect him, no problem at all. its up to both of them
Esss (m)
Re: Anything Wrong In Dating A Man Younger Than You?
« #14 on: June 20, 2007, 04:17 PM »

A small boy is always a small boy,   weather love dey or not

And what the f**k is this love thing u people keep giving as an excuse for the small boy to loose his self pride and respect.

And get me wrong, they can date, but thats were it ends,  meaning no further commitments beyond the sex.

Small boy go with small girl and small girls go with big boys,  Grin
don-heaven
Re: Anything Wrong In Dating A Man Younger Than You?
« #15 on: June 20, 2007, 06:13 PM »

baby please i loooking for sugar mummies  , email  chiggy8love@yahoo.com
don-heaven
Re: Anything Wrong In Dating A Man Younger Than You?
« #16 on: June 20, 2007, 06:15 PM »

baby please i loooking for sugar mummies  , email  chiggy8love@yahoo.com
N-joy (f)
Re: Anything Wrong In Dating A Man Younger Than You?
« #17 on: June 20, 2007, 10:44 PM »

I see nothing wrong, just as long as you have each other. Love conquers all.
Free (f)
Re: Anything Wrong In Dating A Man Younger Than You?
« #18 on: June 20, 2007, 11:38 PM »

Love conquers all


yea that is wot dey say Grin Grin
temmyabby (f)
Re: Anything Wrong In Dating A Man Younger Than You?
« #19 on: June 21, 2007, 12:05 AM »

well, i wouldn't do it , but don't think its wrong  Undecided
uyai (f)
Re: Anything Wrong In Dating A Man Younger Than You?
« #20 on: June 21, 2007, 12:33 AM »

no
Esss (m)
Re: Anything Wrong In Dating A Man Younger Than You?
« #21 on: June 21, 2007, 07:57 PM »

I just realised a trend in the way people are responding to this post,

Women,  95% are saying no,   Reason,  Una dey find small boy wey una go use as houseboy abi?? Smally wey una fit dey control,  boys make una shine una eye o!. 

Men ,  (the ones wey dey find sugar mummy),  are also saying yes, 


Well I still say it is wrong,  A man must senior ehn wife,  (its the 11th commandment wey moses forget to write), 


Question,  how many of una wey una mama senior una papa???   Grin
Orosunnuku (m)
Re: Anything Wrong In Dating A Man Younger Than You?
« #22 on: June 21, 2007, 08:13 PM »

@babymine,
Go ahead and love without fear Wink
There is nothing wrong in dating a man that is younger than you, as long as you are happy in the relationship.
Afterall age is in the mind.
donjohano (m)
Re: Anything Wrong In Dating A Man Younger Than You?
« #23 on: June 21, 2007, 10:27 PM »

Only if you're another man.
johnnygan (m)
Re: Anything Wrong In Dating A Man Younger Than You?
« #24 on: June 22, 2007, 11:17 AM »

Baby there is nuffin wrong in datin a younger guy but the raw fact is, you are alliable to go crazy if shit happens. I kno you're not going to like that.
If you feel you're going to respect his wishes,
Nothing do you!
Eiregirl (f)
Re: Anything Wrong In Dating A Man Younger Than You?
« #25 on: June 22, 2007, 12:16 PM »

Hi all, I'm new on here but I don't think there's anything wrong with dating a younger guy. My boyfriend is younger than me, only by about 18 month. We absolutely ADORE each other! It depends on the people involved & what they want from each other & the relationship.
2dye4 (m)
Re: Anything Wrong In Dating A Man Younger Than You?
« #26 on: June 22, 2007, 12:51 PM »

Quote from: Eiregirl on June 22, 2007, 12:16 PM
Hi all, I'm new on here but I don't think there's anything wrong with dating a younger guy. My boyfriend is younger than me, only by about 18 month. We absolutely ADORE each other! It depends on the people involved & what they want from each other & the relationship.


said it rite its no biggie. Wink
Esss (m)
Re: Anything Wrong In Dating A Man Younger Than You?
« #27 on: June 22, 2007, 10:09 PM »

QUESTION>>>>> How many of y'all here are your mums senior to your dads,  I'm waiting  Angry  Angry  Angry
ThoniaSlim (f)
Re: Anything Wrong In Dating A Man Younger Than You?
« #28 on: June 23, 2007, 01:54 AM »

@topic
everything is wrong ohhh for me.  Shocked
don't think i would feel comfortable as i am suppose to be if i were dating a guy older than me.
fromuk (m)
Re: Anything Wrong In Dating A Man Younger Than You?
« #29 on: June 23, 2007, 08:51 AM »

u need fresh blood abi, your mate no dey for town.
oscarpoems (m)
Re: Anything Wrong In Dating A Man Younger Than You?
« #30 on: May 04, 2008, 11:25 PM »

well for me i guess it depends on where you find happiness.some guys might be younger but they are capable of making you happy,also they capable of giving you that peace a guy your age or even older can't give you
During my undergraduate days i had acertain guy 4yrs younger who was always on my neck,at that time i saw it as a taboo to date him,but anytime we got talking what i usually see is a whole different person,who i could relate with,at that point in time his  age wasnt an issue.some guys can be younger but their minds are not young.Younger guys will treat you with much care once they are so into you,even better that the older ones.but the most important thing in question is if u are happy.my friend is married to a guy 3 years younger n they are so happy,
So age aint nothing  but a number.
she don  talk am.
full stop.follow your mind.my yes could be your no.end of ttory,
babycool (f)
Re: Anything Wrong In Dating A Man Younger Than You?
« #31 on: May 05, 2008, 06:15 PM »

Been there before (maybe still there)I see nothing wrong in it.
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