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Ceekay (m)
Dad Pays More Attention To The Children: Does Mum Get Jealous?
« on: February 02, 2006, 03:24 PM »

Its normal for a Dad to exude much love and attention towards his children, but when he performs this task to the detriment of his wife, does she get jealous or is she happy?  Air your views if they'll help. Undecided
clarissa (f)
Re: Dad Pays More Attention To The Children: Does Mum Get Jealous?
« #1 on: February 10, 2006, 09:14 PM »

i think the woman should be happy not jealous but it depends on the kind of woman she is some may get jealous tho.
eveseh (f)
Re: Dad Pays More Attention To The Children: Does Mum Get Jealous?
« #2 on: April 28, 2006, 03:39 PM »

Quote from: clarissa on February 10, 2006, 09:14 PM
i think the woman should be happy not jealous but it depends on the kind of woman she is some may get jealous tho.

me too
Seun (m)
Re: Dad Pays More Attention To The Children: Does Mum Get Jealous?
« #3 on: January 01, 2007, 09:34 AM »

The answer to the question in your title is a capital NO! 
If dad pays more attention to her children, mum will not get jealous.  She will be happy.

The answer to the question in your post is an obvious YES.
If dad pays the children attention "to the detriment of his wife", of course she won't be happy.

Common sense says that you should pay more attention to your children, but not "to the detriment" of your wife.
tEsLim (m)
Re: Dad Pays More Attention To D Children-does Mum Get Jealous..??
« #4 on: January 01, 2007, 09:45 AM »

She'll gate jealous when the kids starts talking too much about there dad. Even when he's not in the house.

- like the toy daddy bought for me
- when daddy took me to tantilizers
- daddy where my shoes faster
- u don't know the name of the biscuit daddy bought yesterday
- Bomboy!!! eat now. No I'm waiting for daddy

daddy this daddy that will piss her off
hayprof (m)
Re: Dad Pays More Attention To The Children: Does Mum Get Jealous?
« #5 on: January 01, 2007, 09:48 AM »

Detriment or no detriment. She Gets Jealous
Seun (m)
Re: Dad Pays More Attention To The Children: Does Mum Get Jealous?
« #6 on: January 01, 2007, 10:11 AM »

Nigerian men don't pay enough attention to their children.  You men are just looking for an excuse.
Ndipe (m)
Re: Dad Pays More Attention To The Children: Does Mum Get Jealous?
« #7 on: January 01, 2007, 10:18 AM »

I read a letter from an American lady who complained that she felt slightly jealous because her baby preferred her husband's company over hers. I don't know for men, I highly doubt if men would feel threatened or be jealous if their infant son or daughter choosed their mom over them, but for women, I think it may be different.


Happy New Year.
loma (m)
Re: Dad Pays More Attention To The Children: Does Mum Get Jealous?
« #8 on: January 01, 2007, 03:50 PM »

Off course she gets jealous.
kaecy5 (m)
Re: Dad Pays More Attention To The Children: Does Mum Get Jealous?
« #9 on: January 01, 2007, 07:36 PM »

a man assumes the children are his but it is the woman that really knows who is the father of her children.

if she gets jealous then she needs to confess her sins
tEsLim (m)
Re: Dad Pays More Attention To The Children: Does Mum Get Jealous?
« #10 on: January 02, 2007, 04:06 AM »

Men!!!! don't forget to do DNAs
nuckecy (m)
Re: Dad Pays More Attention To The Children: Does Mum Get Jealous?
« #11 on: January 03, 2007, 04:25 PM »

I my own case its the reverse, my dad gets jealous, because my mum dedicates her time.
ThoniaSlim (f)
Re: Dad Pays More Attention To The Children: Does Mum Get Jealous?
« #12 on: January 03, 2007, 04:39 PM »

it would actually depend on the woman involved,but i think a man should be attentive to the kids but he should not over do things to the detriment of his wife.
Chinie (f)
Re: Dad Pays More Attention To The Children: Does Mum Get Jealous?
« #13 on: January 04, 2007, 11:33 PM »

ofcourse she'll be jealous.there's noway she wont be
brensbee22 (f)
Re: Dad Pays More Attention To The Children: Does Mum Get Jealous?
« #14 on: January 11, 2007, 09:05 AM »

Wel l there's nothing wrong if she gets jealous as long as she doesnt take
it to the extreme,and making a fight out of it.
jesse_ose (f)
Re: Dad Pays More Attention To The Children: Does Mum Get Jealous?
« #15 on: January 22, 2007, 03:15 PM »

she shouldnt be jealous its the love that the man has for her that he has extended to her kids she should be happy alot of women r praying for such love nd attention nd u av a hubby who cares for ur kids nd u r complaning that woman's brain shuld be checked!
Seun (m)
Re: Dad Pays More Attention To The Children: Does Mum Get Jealous?
« #16 on: January 22, 2007, 05:37 PM »

If the kids are few in number, the attention required will be proportionately less, which is good.
Kids require much more attention than they get, but spouses also do.  One should not neglect any one.
doubletree (f)
Re: Dad Pays More Attention To The Children: Does Mum Get Jealous?
« #17 on: January 22, 2007, 10:31 PM »

I love watching my kids playing with their dad,they spend more time with me,so i encourage them to spend more time with him
why on earth would i be jealous!

I am his wife and they are our kids!unconditional love all round.
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