New Wife, No Womb

Hmmmmm! Well said all of you.

I just wanted to ask, why didn't she decide to keep the last pregnancy if she knew that having an abortion will cost her life? Why get rid of her womb, knowing the future consequences? Is it better to tell the world the reason why she can't have kids now or she prefered to avoid shame and embarrassment at the time of the abortion but be alive and healthy? This is ridiculous! She wasn't even fair to her own self talkless of someone else. 

God have mercy!

see tha tis what happens when u men run home to marry a girl and she fakes to u guys u guys wont even know then boom ur hooked and u can't do anythin all because u thought the city girls were soo bad just because what tehy did they did it out in the open.  look what has happened ot him is bad judgemet, and the girl is a fool, fo rnot tellin ghim earlier before they got married,

i think he deserves it he probably screwed some chick over to marry this one and now look at what happened.  men u guys never learn, any way tell him sorry sha

Let love supercede the woman's inability to have a child. If it is the Will of God, the couple will be blessed with the fruits of the womb.

P/S: Why is it that our culture most times, it is the woman, who bears the brunt of the blame, regarding childlessness?

            What i will blame the wife for is why she didn't tell the husband before they got married. Anyway all i know is that there is no impossibility for God. If he can give sarah a child after reaching menopause, i belief he can do all things. Medically it might look impossible, but i tell you if indeed she has change from her old way and become true borm again. God will do it.          And the word of God did not tell us that, it is when u have womb that you can give birth, i've seen so many cases where God prove medical report wrong. Somebody that doesn't have womb and give birth. So everything is possible to them that believe.

A beg which kind of miracle does they pray for. I believe that with God all things are possible. But where do we start in this case. The time that God provide lamb for his sacrifice is gone. Manner does not fall any more. So are they going to pray for new womb. Let us not put God into trial. Is like an amputated man asking God to replace his limb.

d man should 4give and adopt children

The woman definitely knew what she was doing---------after living a reckless life, she decides, "oh i know------i'D simply go to some pentecostal church----and turn 'born again'----i'll marry the 1st sucker that comes along and tehn tell him AFTER the wedding.  He will not be able to divorce me as it is forbidden in the church"  Poor man---poor fool.

I was brought up catholic and if they were in the catholic church (rather than penteostal) the man could apply for annulment on the grounds of absence of procreation (catholic believe that marraige is first and foremost for procreation and that is obviously not gona happen wihtout her womb!) and also on the grounds of deception (she SHOULD HAV told him everything so he could have made n informed decision BEFORE marrying her.

So------what should they do?  Well----short of escaping the marriage by pretending to be dead----he can stick with her and have a child via surrogacy (veeeerrrrryyy expensive!)-----he could make another woman pregnant and claim the child (baaaad for his reputation in the church and he would incur the severe wrath of the girl's family)------and last but not least, he could pretend he has backslidden----get out of that church and the marriage----become a christian again----join a CATHOLIC church---have his 1st marraige annuled and marry someone else.  Catholic churhc would happily marry him to someone else as they would recognise the 1st marriage as invalid due to deception and sterility


GOOOOOOOD LUUUUUCCCKKK!

EXXACCCTLLLYYY!!!!

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please did u say she is born again,meaning that she is now in christ Jesus.If thats the case, i ve a good news for her,
she has a new life to live now, and there is no barreness in that life.If she can just belief God, the matter is very simple.
for more info, let her visit this site(www.christembassy.org)

My response to this question will not be biased because i am a woman.

First and foremost why did the woman not tell the man before they got married about her situation? Reason: because if she had told the man, the man might not have married her.

the man should do whatever he deems fit. if he thinks he can't cope with her then he should send her packing and seek for divorce based on the grounds of deceit.
if he thinks he can cope with that and has accepted his fate, then they could weather the storm together and resort to adoption. Besides, who says God cannot perform a miracle? But bear in mind a miracle can only be experienced in a situation where there is total and absolute forgiveness and no reference to the situation from the man.

Really it depends on the man and his faith.

there was a film i watched that the sister told the brother she had no womb while the brother was asking her out and the brother accepted her only because he was convicted the woman was his wife and they resorted to adoption.
another one i watched a woman knew she hd no womb but it took her ten years before she told her husband, it was not easy but the husband forgave her and she conceived and bore a son after the confession and forgiveness.

i pray god forgives them and gives them a miracle baby,

I would say to the man to approah his Pastor and tell him he wants out of the marriage because she has no womb and one of the reasons he married her in the first place was to reproduce - but how could he if she doesnt even have a womb.

He would rather do that than play away now.

  I have alot to say but i'm feeling too lazy to type.but i'm saying it in my heart anyway.

@ Greatpeter: God said, "Let no one put asunder those he has joined together"

The same God in Gen 1: 28 said "Multiply and fill the world".