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hannydarl (f)
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Leave him alone the fact that you are dying for some one doesnt mean the person should die for you too.I believe you have a crush on this guy maybe when you get to know him better you will wonder what made you fall for him in the first place. Com babe just dust your self and step it who knows maybe a nice bro has been seeking your attention since and may still be waiting for you to come out of your trance open eye before train leave you for station o.
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Beline (f)
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What you need to do now is to be away from him as afar as possible, don't let it be as if you throw yourself on him.
As for your feelings it will naturally vanish, I once had this kind of feelings for a Church member and what i did was to avoid any group that he belong and not to sit near him until I overcome the feelings because I didn't want to be heart broken or to throw myself on any man.
And I'm proud of that because my fiance today do feel happy whenever he remember what he passed through before getting my acceptance. Don't let any man get you in a cheap way because men don't like whatever they get in a cheap means
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MILITIA (f)
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Don't let any man get you in a cheap way because men don't like whatever they get in a cheap means
And what might that be? Toto?  |
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otuonye (m)
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@poster
The fact is that [from experience] there is nothing wrong with you. We all have feelings for somebody. Sometimes, go crazy [like your case] because of love.
But let me advise you: It is not wise for you to throw yourself to the guy like that. Right now, he does not admire you, maybe because he is blind to your beauty [or maybe permit me to suggest that you guys are not made for each other].
What you need to do is to leave him and get on with your life. Something similar happened to me sometime ago, when there was this girl I admired so much, but when I asked her out, she did not accept me. I tried so much to impress her but she still refused.
Finally, I just decided to be myself and leave her. Today, I thank God that I made that decision, because I have found someone who I have more Love for. And beside that, if I forced her to love me, the love would not have been mutual. She would only like me [maybe if there is something she is gaining from me].
So, please just let the guy go. YOU WILL FIND SOMEONE BETTER. You do not deserve to kill yourself over this guy. SOMEONE BETTER IS COMING!!!
Let me warn you: At first, it is not going to be easy to forget this guy, but with time, I promise you, you will get over it.
Goodluck darling!
Jojo
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babyosisi (f)
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l am in love with this really cute guy, but the thing is he has no feelings for me.
I have tried many times to let him know l adore him but what do l get in return?
Nothing, zero, zilch. l have compromised my pride for him but he doesnt even care
l have rejected so many guys for him, because he is the only one who matters to me
when l make an effort to visit him he acts as though l aint there which hurts me so
l can't bring myself to love any other man l think l am going crazy or something
my friends all tell me he is not worth it but l can't bring myself to let him go. Can
someone help me please?
nothing, zero, zilch Besides myself,there's just one more person on this nairaland that has used that expression a few times. Hmm,I think this person is just playing with us. I think I know her real name.  |
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mukina2 (f)
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Besides myself,there's just one more person on this nairaland that has used that expression a few times. Hmm,I think this person is just playing with us. I think I know her real name. tell me |
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finemocha (f)
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ok lady
stop listening to all those lies, if hte guy doesnt like u he doesnt like u period. all those analogies about cream, and flies and shadows are useless fibs chicks tell themselves to believe that he will be interested someday. Clearly he is not feeling u so drop it. Or do u want to become one of those girls that chase other girl's boyfriends around because of ur delusion. So stop making a fool of yourself and let this one go, for all u know he is probably laughing with his friends and maybe current girlfriend about this, pick up what ever is left of ur pride and walk away.
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Caradona (f)
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@TOPIC
This Guy loves the attention you're giving him and Now its about time you take the Rejection Pills
and look for some other guy who needs your affections. I think its your pride that's getting in the way of letting go
or have you tried your Girl Power yet? meaning knock him out with sex, sex and more sex. remember to take the Dildo
in case he is bisexual and if all fails, it could be that you have the wrong plumbings and that he needs a man to satisfy him.
perhaps you might need a sex change if you're that obsessed about him, girl, you're alone on this one
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dazangel11
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What do you want us to do now. Do you need advice on how you can make him love you back? If yes Then It's easy get 2 white cocks, 4o white candles, An antelope, an Elephant tail and one hundred thousand naira #100,000 Bring them to the bar beach tomorrow morning by 9am I will be waiting don't forget to bring his photograph.  |
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mukina2 (f)
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What do you want us to do now. Do you need advice on how you can make him love you back? If yes Then It's easy get 2 white cocks, 4o white candles, An antelope, an Elephant tail and one hundred thousand naira #100,000 Bring them to the bar beach tomorrow morning by 9am I will be waiting don't forget to bring his photograph. " " |
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tenor (m)
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Hmm, when a woman rejects a man, its normal as she's just simply a woman and he a man. He could kill himself as its man's place to get rejected. But when the tables are turned everyone cries foul! Sweetheart Batetsena, you are normal and please ignore the insults you are getting from some empty, judgemental, self righteous peeps on this thread. You can't control everything that comes to you. One thing you could do is to soft pedal on the show of affection and be his friend. Then be friends with someone else (not shagging) and let him see this. Let him see a bit of what he is missing. You make a new friend and who knows if after some time he's still not budging, you could find yourself liking this new guy, who should be a bloke by the way. Don't forget to remain friends with the object of your attraction. Just be around and hold off the serious show of affection but don't be bitchy! This new guy should not be a pawn in the game but a platonic friend (if that still exists anyway). Good luck!
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niceuzor
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@dazangel11
Hahahaha!!!
Guy u na Jazzman?
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ojuvester
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Mr dear,
Think well, what do U really like about him ? Ask yourself another question, is he the only one that has that quality, the anwer will surely be NO, so like you have been advice , don't kill yourself over a Man, it's not worth it.Am sure, you are suffering from lost, call this number and I will help you out.08023007844.
Cheer up !
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dazangel11
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I wan just help
@Ojuvester
Na wetin ur number dey do there? U for tell us say u dey search for babe na
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Carlosein (m)
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love is a feeling u shuld get real if he doesnt want u and walk joo
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afrikangal (f)
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u r totally mad over a slutty guy who doesnt care that is bullshit girl u need to wake up
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crazykid (m)
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There is a saying that when you love someone, don't expect that person to love you as much as you love him/her.
If he doesn't love you as you said, then let go. There's no need to force yourself on him.
If you do that, you might regret it later.
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kaypinchi (m)
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So the guy is doing Sme-sme.  Now that the rainy season is here.  Na wah o. Girl, you've heard all. Just fashi his side for a few weeks and see if it changes anything. If there is a change,, he was just posing. If no change, , then he is really not interested. Let me find you someone suitable for u now? What do u say |
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HAH
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There is a saying in Hausa that says"so maso wani koshin wahala" meaning "to love the lover of somebody else is satisfaction of frustration" So my girl if this guy does not repond fashi him there a millions of guys out there waiting for you.
Happy searching
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j-girl (f)
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Girl, move on. Try and move on. It's not worth it to wait around hoping you can make him love you. If it's not reciprocal, stop hurting yourself and don't stress yourself either. Find alternatives to make you stop obsessing over him.
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C_JAY (m)
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So fine boyoyos still get value for naija. But really, isn't it almost sickening that his cute looks seem to be the most significant thing U've mentioned thus far about him. He's hot, then so what. Well news flash!!!!!!!!So am I and a gazillion other Nigerian blokes  What else really REALLY makes him tick? probably none What has he invested in U? Zilch i.e he's nothing to lose My bet is U'v probably slept with him making it all the more painful if U walk away completely, , And U are still clueless. Little wonder he doesn't respect U. I wouldn't if i were he Girlfriend trust me, this one's easy, U know the truth - U don't matter to him |
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Echidime (m)
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@poster: What if he gives you audience one day and want to mess you same day, will you agree?
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hbrednic
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somebody helllllllllllllllllllp
where is babadibia?
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mubowa (f)
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there we go again, just because he's really cute? even if u guys end up dating, iya loma ba ni be
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Forfavour (m)
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My dear Sister,
Loving someone is not a guarantee that the fellow we love u back proportionately. Don't allow the emotion of today lead you to eternal regrets (many testimonies abound) Men don't naturally appreciate & somehow are suspicious of ladies that are desperately after them - Believe me sincerely. Like others said, give yourself a break, take time to do other meaningful things what if the guy move/relocate away from ur vicinity, will you die? absolutely NO. TRUST GOD FOR YOUR PARTNER.
What you make of your life is up to you, you have all the tools and resources you need. Your answers lie inside of You.
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lanche
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Hey,girl! The mistake ur making is that u havnt taken time out 2 try s'one else.i would have luvd 2 meet u 1 on 1. I cld realy b of asistance! Call me if u live in lag on 08029541097!
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spoilt (f)
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you're not in love dear. you're just thinking with your crotch. i think the word is infatuation. and that will fade eventually. |
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sleekdot (m)
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na wa 4 some of una,she just gave us all a piece of her mind and some of una won kill am.biko
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soulstar (m)
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@ poster babes i think that u r sexually attracted to him, e be like say na yarsh dey cratch u |
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