I`m In Love With 2 Ladies!

i`v bin goin out wit a gurl 4 close to 7 years,since mid-last year,she`s started havin a lot of male friends which i`m not comfortable with. She insists there`s nothing between them but each time i check her @ home,she`s always havin this friend or the other.The annoying thing is that she sits in their car @ night and `ll gist from evening till like 10:30 pm & we all know krazy things happens in cars in the dark.Infact alot of people have started complaining 2 me that they aren`t alrite.For example my dad saw her in one guys car persistently that he had 2 ask me if it was because of d guy i bought a honda halla 2,so u can imagine d emotional strain i undergo.Asides this, she`s very aggressive,locks my clothes physically in public when we av a disagreement.Sha,i told her we ad 2 go on an indefinite strike.We`ve on d strike since January.
This year feb.,dere this gurl i`v ad a crush 4 since,we became close n i found that i have fallen in love with her,she`s nice,brilliant and koool.She`s d exact opposite of my girlfrend of 7yrs.
The thing is that i love them both but i don`t want 2 eat my cake n av it.@ d same time,both of them are one year older dan i am.I`m 24 years old.please ,i`ld rly like some advice.Tanx

you can't be in love with two people at the same time. its obvious your just infatuated with the second girl because, she is the exact opposite of your girl friend. you say you do not want to eat your cake and have it . but you have been dating your girlfriend for seven years  , as you said. but what am finding funny is, you never thought about her behavior till seven years later. hhhhmmmm. funny.