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locia (f)
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Is it right for your boyfriend or girlfriend to go to the club without you? I need your opinion because I'm sick and my boyfriend went to the club without me instead of staying with me at home. Also is it right for a girlfirend and a boyfriend to go a club separately.
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c0dec (m)
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he don't love u, girl.
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locia (f)
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well I'm not saying he was wrong i did it too.
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chillin (f)
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Equation balanced!
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dejiolowe (m)
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Is it right for your boyfriend or girlfriend to go to the club without you? I need your opinion because I'm sick and my boyfriend went to the club without me instead of staying with me at home. Also is it right for a girlfirend and a boyfriend to go a club separately.
babe, u r a nag. if u r sick, shouldnt he enjoin himself or u want him to be sick too.? and why can't he go to club alone? na wa for u sef |
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disney (f)
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Damn, the guy is such a looser, he don't love you , hello, he's at the club with some chicks men, u better as my nigerian people would say shine ur eyes, open ur eyes and smell the ogbono soup. Answer, mean dump the guy.   |
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papermoon (f)
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considering the fact that you were ill,maybe he should have stayed with you,but if its nothing life threatening he can go off and have some fun without Umy partner suffers from a rare condition,which totally leaves him wasted atimes..like he can't even get out of bed...but hey..if its a friday and i gotta hit the town to shake my booty and have fun....i plant a kiss on his cheeks and scoot off to have my fun without him.
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locia (f)
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hey i love my boyfriend and he luvs me too but u know it was not a life threating illness it was just a flu. but when he was sick i went back to his house after clubbing and stayed the whole night there which i have never done and then i skipped work to be with him. but he didn't do the same for me when it came to my turn.
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Seun (m)
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Yes, locia, men are like that. The solution: get used to it or choose them more carefully  . |
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snazzydawn (f)
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well,that you are sick does not mean your man should not catch his fun.....
maybe he can not bear to see you sick....
if you can't take the heat,leave the kitcehn....
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2nde (m)
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You are both club addicted, you both love it too much. Thats what happen when you love something too much, he cannot do without clubbing, thats why he left you at home not that he doesnt love you.
What if you are not together, maybe you see each other twice in a month, will you know if he goes to club or not?
Forget it, it's not an issue.
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locia (f)
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what do u mean its not an issue and we don't go clubbing all the time. anyways if your g/f did it would you have accepted it.
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2nde (m)
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what do u mean its not an issue and we don't go clubbing all the time. anyways if your g/f did it would you have accepted it. Of course i don't really care if she leave me for club while i'm sick, she is only showing that her caring is not that much. I can always take care of myself if she is not around, so whats the point. Besides, i can't date a club goer .Period |
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nana (f)
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what do u mean its not an issue and we don't go clubbing all the time. anyways if your g/f did it would you have accepted it.
I personally don't like clubbing.But if i were in your shoes,i would let my guy go catch some fun at least, we've both got our lives to live and i can't allow my own predicament stop him from enjoying himself. From my point of view,i think you are the type that loves beign really pampered by ur guy. No offences. |
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funloving (m)
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I don't club and don't believe in clubbing but let me help you here.
I have come to believe in life that because you are in a relationship(marriage,courtship,boy friend-girl friendaffair,etc) does not mean you should lose your individuality or identity.You still have your life to live.
I can't say if your boy friend loves you or not but I would rather say learn to accept the fact that we are still individuals in a relationship and one partner should not deter the fun of the other partner as long as they are both faithful to each other.
Go to your parties and let him go to his.Go together if it is necessary but don't make it a law that both of you must go every where together.It makes people feel locked up and constrained(at least I feel like I am in bondage if somebody wants to go everywhere with me) and it can have a negative effect on the relationship.
What is important is faithfulnes,understanding,compatibility and love.Other things are secondary
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2nde (m)
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I don't club and don't believe in clubbing but let me help you here.
I have come to believe in life that because you are in a relationship(marriage,courtship,boy friend-girl friendaffair,etc) does not mean you should lose your individuality or identity.You still have your life to live.
I can't say if your boy friend loves you or not but I would rather say learn to accept the fact that we are still individuals in a relationship and one partner should not deter the fun of the other partner as long as they are both faithful to each other.
Go to your parties and let him go to his.Go together if it is necessary but don't make it a law that both of you must go every where together.It makes people feel locked up and constrained(at least I feel like I am in bondage if somebody wants to go everywhere with me) and it can have a negative effect on the relationship.
What is important is faithfulnes,understanding,compatibility and love.Other things are secondary You've said it all |
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xchian (m)
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wats wit u gurls,must u think of tyeing the guys down.plz what ever they want plz.learn to be dependent.
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locia (f)
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I don't club and don't believe in clubbing but let me help you here.
I have come to believe in life that because you are in a relationship(marriage,courtship,boy friend-girl friendaffair,etc) does not mean you should lose your individuality or identity.You still have your life to live.
I can't say if your boy friend loves you or not but I would rather say learn to accept the fact that we are still individuals in a relationship and one partner should not deter the fun of the other partner as long as they are both faithful to each other.
Go to your parties and let him go to his.Go together if it is necessary but don't make it a law that both of you must go every where together.It makes people feel locked up and constrained(at least I feel like I am in bondage if somebody wants to go everywhere with me) and it can have a negative effect on the relationship.
What is important is faithfulnes,understanding,compatibility and love.Other things are secondary
i support what u said girl and its like this he always wants to go to whatever party I'm going to if he doesn't go he would ask me time without number unnecessary questions like Who is u dance with? did u get his number? and stuff like like that.
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2nde (m)
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i support what u said girl and its like this he always wants to go to whatever party I'm going to if he doesn't go he would ask me time without number unnecessary questions like Who is u dance with? did u get his number? and stuff like like that. He may just be asking that fun and hey, must you go to parties? I think the western world altitude has encapsulated you |
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locia (f)
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He may just be asking that fun and hey, must you go to parties? I think the western world altitude has encapsulated you
why did u say that? |
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2nde (m)
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I know what you thinking Locia but i didnt mean it that way, I am just saying what i observed
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b_e_b_e (f)
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sweetie...............keep living Trust me, there will come a day that you will be more than happy to escort him out the door saying "have a good time baby".........................then you can enjoy the peace and quiet to pamper yourself Besides, a secure woman doesn't need her man around 24/7 to determine if he loves her or not. However, a man who has genuine concern about his woman will stay and cater to her in certain instances. Will it happen all the time? Nope! If he's the clubbing type, then you might as well get use to him leaving you at home to get his party on. Did you meet him at the club? If so, why do you think that you can changes things now? Not gone happen until he wants it to happen. Don't smother him whatever you do or else........................u'll find yourself by yourself  |
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locia (f)
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sweetie...............keep living Trust me, there will come a day that you will be more than happy to escort him out the door saying "have a good time baby".........................then you can enjoy the peace and quiet to pamper yourself Besides, a secure woman doesn't need her man around 24/7 to determine if he loves her or not. However, a man who has genuine concern about his woman will stay and cater to her in certain instances. Will it happen all the time? Nope! If he's the clubbing type, then you might as well get use to him leaving you at home to get his party on. Did you meet him at the club? If so, why do you think that you can changes things now? Not gone happen until he wants it to happen. Don't smother him whatever you do or else........................u'll find yourself by yourself no i didn't meet him at the club and of course i let him breath he is the one that's is smothering me. |
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locia (f)
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I know what you thinking Locia but i didnt mean it that way, I am just saying what i observed
its okay i guess all guys are the same. always judgemental and stuff. |
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Shadiat (f)
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So when ur man was sick u went out and left him abi---so now u are sick he went out and left u..2 ge 4..  ... |
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locia (f)
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So when your man was sick u went out and left him abi---so now u are sick he went out and left u..2 ge 4.. ... well if u read very well missy i went back home i didn't stay 2hrs @ the club, because i felt bad that i left him when he was sick. |
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b_e_b_e (f)
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no i didn't meet him at the club and of course i let him breath he is the one that's is smothering me.
Snappish! So, why develop this topic to speak on him not staying in with you when you were sick? |
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locia (f)
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because if u had been doing the reading i asked if it was right the way he went to the club only to come back in the morning.
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b_e_b_e (f)
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because if u had been doing the reading i asked if it was right the way he went to the club only to come back in the morning.
Well, if you had been absorbing the comments then why should it matter? Besides, you should have been enjoying that time to yourself since he smothers you so. Anyway, do you honey........................... |
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Shadiat (f)
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well if u read very well missy i went back home i didn't stay 2hrs @ the club, because i felt bad that i left him when he was sick.
Yo hold up..What ya gettin all CRUNK for...Did i say anythin wrong or did i come across u wrong---u aint say that u went back home--all u said is that u went club...so WTF.. |
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locia (f)
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Yo hold up..What ya gettin all CRUNK for...Did i say anythin wrong or did i come across u wrong---u aint say that u went back home--all u said is that u went club...so WTF..
why are u getting all worked up for. |
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