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busygal (f)
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shade is 35 , yet without a serious relationship. why ? i asked her.
she stared at me for a while and replied. my dear. every man i intend to date always ask for sex
and i ve intension of keeping my self till am married. ve got no fear of aging.
if i vie to wait till am 50 until i see d right one, i wouldn't mind because i can't afford to settle for less.
i paused and looked at her for the last time, and immediately admired her courage.
if u were in thesame position, would u compromise, settle for less, or wait till 50years old( if it ever happens)
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Joey82 (m)
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@poster
Reminds me of 2face's song " if love is a crime ". My problem is age isn't on her side and if not 4 God, it will be hard to find that kind of man she's been looking 4.
Another fear is that at 35, medically, even without meeting a man one expects that it (Privacy) must have opened by itself. So it will be difficult 4 her to convince a man that she's still not defloweredwhen there is sexual intercourse.
In any case, I admire her courage and wish her the best.
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oghene007 (m)
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i admire her courage , she should keep it up but my question is does it mean all the men that have come her way in life always want to sex before marrying her or she has deliberating driven them away before now even , what has she been doing all this while to wait till 35???
God is alive and very soon she will meet that man of her dream. she needs to pray more and trust in God , work on herself all round and be the best God wants her to be at all time. Mind u it is not only lack of sex that can drive a man out of a relationship, there are a lot of factors,
i don't believe in sex before marriage oooo
GOD HELP HER
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osereka (m)
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at her age, majority of men that will come her way will like to sample her befor marriage. why? MEN WILL LIKE TO KNOW WHAT THEY ARE BUYING. because SOME BABE AT HER AGE THAT ARE NOT MARRIED ARE GABBAGE.
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ThoniaSlim (f)
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i admire her courage, not easy for her. i give her thumbs up.
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oghene007 (m)
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all hope is not lost for her,
God has a plan for her life no matter what, so she should look up to GOD. I knw it is not easy but God rewards the faithful,
She will meet some one very saincere and loving very sooon.
Jer 29v11,
More so, she should see her spiritual leaders i mean her pastor for counselling and proper advice
GOD BLESS
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osereka (m)
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IF YOU WANT TO BUY A CAR AND IT LOOK OLD, YOU WILL SURELY TEST DRIVE IT BEFORE PAYING FOR IT ABI?. don't blame the guys o, its a natural thing. advice is that you have to give it a thought o. am sure any guy that meet you in that condition at your age will think something is wrong with you. you have to take the risk, because life itself is a risky venture.
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