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omoge (f)
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in this case, activities should be shared. madam dey do her hair to safe the family money. so oga for helep with the crying baby if he wasn't mischeivious. between, i don't really eat amala but i think the green plantain Amala taste soooooooooo nice unlike the one from Yam (yam amala). so give the baby real food and he/she won't cry for a long time but sleep long 
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Soundmind (m)
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Why not. The baby is mine. I am the father. I will feel happy carrying my baby even. I will play with him whenever i have time. I will not only be helpng my wife doing this, i am attaching the child emotionally to me.
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Zandra1 (f)
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@ Davidylan ure so right about couples being free with each other. Couples are supposed to talk to each other freely without the fear of one giving the other the 'eye'. Some people make a great deal out of nothing. I can't comprehend y the guy was ticked off when he was told to carry his (their) own baby at the back. He should've done that without being told. Its his baby for crying out loud. He was told to carry his baby and not a monkey  . @Soundmind, ure so right. Stuff like this is gunna create a bond between u and the baby.
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Kemitola (f)
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[table] To me it was no big deal, we were @ hme and I did not ask him to go out of the house with the baby on his back. I was just tryin to make his life easier so he can get on with wot he was doing. I shld hav just ignored both of them, but u know how it is as a mother. [/table] To me mam, carrying the baby on his back is no big deal but our Nigeria men can't because their people will think you have turn them to mumu. When i was still a child, my father used to carried my younger sister on his back when mummy is doing the cooking. He has every right to carry the baby since he is your husband and the producer of the baby. Because i don't think a woman can pregnant herself when she is not Virgin Mary.  Let your husband carry his baby jooo. 
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primateola (m)
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look there is nothing bad in a man backing his baby but it is silly of you to have brought it up'sorry about that' you women just think you love the children most but it's complete lie.the man love his children too and will do all to provide for them. back to topic i personally back my boy any time he wants to be too troublesome for the mother and the boy enjoys it,because it's not a regular occurence.so nothing is bad but don't suggest it.
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oziomatv (m)
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Why can't I take care of my babe? I change my baby pampars, change clothe, feed, take him out while the mother is busy do as the mother what's the deal?
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efuah (f)
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Why can't I take care of my babe? I change my baby pampars, change clothe, feed, take him out while the mother is busy do as the mother what's the deal?
God bless u ooooooo!! I say God bless u loads!! May ur pocket never dry!! May u never see sorrow!! Amen!!! 
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oziomatv (m)
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God bless u ooooooo!! I say God bless u loads!! May your pocket never dry!! May u never see sorrow!! Amen!!!  It's not a thing of braging. Nigerian difinition of a husband is, all domestic works are for women. domestic work never reduce anything to my dignity at home hence it makes me romantic to my lady.
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oziomatv (m)
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@kattrina kool girl, you're not flirting neither am I saying it to attract ladies.
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holythug (m)
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runs out of thread shoutin i dnt wnt to b a victim oooooo
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The Sly
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The answer is a resounding NO!!. . .  what da. . . . . 
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holythug (m)
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responsibilty dodging
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