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spoilt (f)
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leilah all men leave their spoons and cups in the sink. we clean up after them. stop splitting hairs. i try not to be petty with my husband when he doesnt domestic stuff and that drives me crazy.  i just do them without complaining because i know he does a thousand other things and runs a billion other errands for me without complaining. honestly without complaining. so live and let live. |
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FBS
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Leilah, why are u complicating issues for yourself, in a marriage, i don't believe the color of your skin or your country of origin matters, what matters is the two of u and your kid and if at all you love him and he loves you, you will make it work and that is when you can truly be called a woman. personally i think you are joking and I don't think you are irish. are u sure u not from kogi state ( just kidding and much love to my kogi people)  |
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laudate
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personally i think you are joking and I don't think you are irish. are u sure u not from kogi state ( just kidding and much love to my kogi people) Uh?? Wetin concern Kogi for inside this matter now?  Abeg, make una no confuse me o! |
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FBS
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I was just joking,  |
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Leilah (f)
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wow thats an interesting perspective thanks you very much. Kogi, I have been there but really so I see were your coming from, I am irish. |
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FBS
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like I said you been irish shouldn't be the deciding factor, do everything to make your family work and God will be with you.
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Leilah (f)
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you too, thank you very much.
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honeric01 (m)
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still on this, ? well it's all good
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smile76 (f)
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its better to file for the divorce in ireland. you can file for divorce in the country you reside in regardless of where you got married.
seperation will be consented by the court, then its left for who filed the divorce to file for decree absolute, however this depends if there are children involved, who the children will be residing with during the seperation and divorce, visitation rights, financial settlements i.e, mortgages, savings, pensions,
all these have to be settled witha consent order being signed by each of you. the whole process depends on irish law, but n englan it takes about 4-6months if both parties agree amicable with all the decision with the court getting involved with all the settlements and kids stuff.
anymore info i can help with don't fail to ask
good luck.
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Leilah (f)
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This issue has been resolved smile. He either helps me out a little or I will give up work and leave him with all the bills etc |
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mishoo (m)
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This issue has been resolved smile. He either helps me out a little or I will give up work and leave him with all the bills etc GOOD FOR YOU !!! |
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Uche2nna (m)
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Did I hear somebody say "Blackmail" |
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Emad (f)
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i don't care whether or not the issue is recolved I want you to Ask for a divorce Who does he think he is nonsense ( lol ) |
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